Umnqweno wokunyamekela, ukukhusela nokunika yonke into ingekho uthando njengaloo nto okanye iimvakalelo, kubangelwa ngumthando.
Makhe sibone indlela ovakalelwa ngayo kumntu othandekayo.
Ukulumkela . Esi simo sengqondo esinzima kakhulu. Ingqumbo - xa unosuku lokubhabha, ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukulala kuwo de kukufunayo amaphupha amnandi. I-Tosca xa uxabana, kwaye ufuna ukubethelela kuyo. Oko kukuthi akwanele.
Ukuziva uvakalelo, unokuziva ungakhathaleli kwihlabathi elikujikelezayo, uluntu, ulusizi kunye nosizi,
Ukuzonwabisa . Imvakalelo enhle kakhulu yokuba unokuziva ngomntu othandekayo.
Uyavuya kuyo yonke into encinci eyenzekayo kwisigqibo sakho. Ekuseni usukuma kwaye into yokuqala oyibonayo yayiyindlela ayimomotheka ngayo ephupheni. Ngaba asikho isizathu sokuvuya?
Ukuxhalabisa . Xa ukhathalele oko kwenzekayo kuye. Unenkxalabo malunga nempilo yakhe kunye nesimo sengqondo. Emva kwakho konke, uyamthanda kwaye uyamnqwenela kuphela okulungileyo kakhulu.
Ithemba . Isiseko sobudlelwane obuqinileyo nabathembekileyo kwiqela ngalinye. Uthemba luvakalelo oluthathaka olunokuthi lulahleke kwisibini. Kwaye maxa wambi kunzima ukuwufanelekela. Kodwa, iintliziyo zothando ziyakwazi ukujamelana naluphi na ubunzima.
Inzondo yimbangela yokwahlukana kwezibini zothando. Kodwa, le mvakalelo ngamanani ahlukeneyo ayifumaneka kuwo wonke umntu. Kubalulekile ukulwa nalo, xa iimvakalelo neemvakalelo zesikhwele zikunqanda ngokwenene ukuba uphile ngesifuba esipheleleyo. Kwaye inkunkuma encinane yomona iyakwazi kuphela ukwenza ulwalamano luqhube ngakumbi.
Enyanisweni, uluhlu lweemvakalelo ezithandwa ngumntu omthandayo lukhulu. Ukuluhlu kwinqaku elilodwa kuya kuba nzima kakhulu. Ngaphezu koko, umntu ngamnye unokukwazi ukuziva. Ngamnye wethu unomlinganiselo wemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo.
Xa uthanda, unokuvakalelwa ngokufanayo: uthando kunye nokuzonda, ukuvuya kunye nentukuthelo, ukunyamezela kunye nokudumala, ukubulela, ukukhanya, ukuthembela, okanye ukunyaniseka, inzondelelo kunye nokwesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumthandayo, ukunyaniseka okanye ukusola.
Njengoko uyakubona, uluhlu luhluke, nangona kungenjalo zonke iimvakalelo zenziwa. Abantu abaninzi banokuphila ubomi kwaye, umzekelo, abaze babe nemvakalelo yomona okanye ukukhungatheka kumntu omthandayo.
Kungatsholwa ukuba kukho imvakalelo endiyithandayo ngomntu esimthandayo esingazi lutho, kuba akukho mntu wayenayo.
Kwakunzima kakhulu ukuchaza iimvakalelo. Sebenzisa ulwandle lwamagama ukuvakalisa oku okanye loo mvakalelo iyisiyatha. Indlela efanelekileyo yokuthetha ngayo iimvakalelo zakho ngokukubiza nje xa uvakalelwa.
Xa uneminyaka yobudala, kunzima kuMntu ukuchaza iimvakalelo zakhe. Ngelixa abantwana abancinci bezakhono nje kule ndawo, abasebenzisi izivakalisi ezinkulu, kodwa bathetha ngokunyanisekileyo ngemvakalelo yabo.
Iimvakalelo - zinamandla angenamandla. Ukuvakalelwa ngothando, umntu unako ukwenza izinto ezintle kakhulu. Owesifazane obuthathaka, enomona, unako ukuphazamisa indoda enkulu kakhulu.
Kukhuselekile ukuthetha ukuba iimvakalelo azikho phantsi kwesizathu. Bomelele kangangokuba umntu ulahlekelwa amandla okucinga nokucamngca. Unamandla ngokupheleleyo kwiintliziyo. Umntu okwazi ukuziva unako ukutshintsha phantsi kwefuthe leemvakalelo neemvakalelo.