Impahla ingayitshintsha njani ubomi bakho?

Udla ukucinga malunga nendima yesambatho ebomini kwanoma yimuphi umfazi, kodwa akazange aqonde - njani iingubo ezingatshintsha ubomi bakho? Ewe, ukwenzela ukuba yonke into efana neengcaphephe yayikufumanisa umyeni ocebileyo ukuba uphumelele, utshintshe ubomi ngokubhetele, ukuba ube yinto evuyayo?

Kubonakala kuwe ukuba akunakwenzeka ukwenza konke ngokutshintsha kuphela isimbo seengubo. Akunjalo yonke into enokuzikhethela kwaye iyakhathazeka, njengoko kubonakala kuwe ekuqaleni.

Inyaniso engenakuphikiswa kukuba rhoqo kwaye ngamaxesha onke umfazi wayefuna ukubheka eyona nto intle kakhulu, inhle kwaye ihle. Akunjalo bonke abayaziyo ukuba kwakungekho mfuneko yokuba ngumfazi womntu woshishino, ukuze kube nemali eninzi enokukwazi ukuyihamba imihla ngemihla kwii-salons, ukuba akudingeki ukuba ube nomboniso wendlela, ukuba akudingeki ukuba ube nomncedisi wakho, kufuneka ufune ukuthanda bakhe ubomi. Akubonakali ukuba nakho konke oku, kuya kuba yinto enyanzelekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, unokufumana izinto ezilula kwaye ezingabizi, kodwa ngelo xesha zikhangele zonke iipoti ezilikhulu kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukuqonda indlela impahla iguqula ngayo ubomi.

Phakathi kwezinye iinqununu ezintle zoluntu zikhona abo banomdla obalaseleyo ukususela ebuntwaneni, kodwa akusiyo wonke umntu onokuziqhayisa ukuba banokukhetha into entle kwiqonga lezinto kwiSebe elingabonakaliyo. Abo bafumana kunzima ukufumana nokugqiba kwizinto ezikhethiweyo, kufuneka umntu afunde.

Ayikho, kodwa uxhulumano oluqinileyo.

Yintoni ukudibanisa phakathi kwamagama athi "ubomi" kunye "neengubo"? Kufana nokubuza malunga nokuqhagamshelana phakathi komhla kunye nengubo emnyama emnyama. Omnye uhamba ngokukhawuleza ukusuka kwenye. Emva kwakho konke, iingubo ezijikelezileyo kuyo yonke indawo, into ephambili kukufumana iimpahla ezifanelekileyo kwindawo efanelekileyo. Kwaye imbobo emnyama kufuneka ikwazi ukukhetha ngokufanelekileyo, inamacebo ayo.

Khetha ubude bengubo efunekayo ukuze ufikelele phakathi emadolweni, kwaye ukuhlobisa kuyo akufanele kube yinto yokunyamezela ukulula kwayo. Isiqhamo sifanele sivunywe, oko kukuthi, siphume. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba ingubo yayingenamikhono, kodwa ukuba kukho into enjalo, ngoko kufuneka ibe iqonde kwaye iminyene kwaye ingenasithokozo esiphezulu. Kulo mbobo kukulungele ukhetho lokugcina izitokisi ezimnyama, kodwa kungabinqamle, kodwa kunye needkiki ezimbalwa ngokunokwenzeka. Izicathulo ziza kubonakala zihle ngendlela ebhokheni kwaye ngokukhethekileyo ngeempumlo ezivaliweyo, isikhwamkhwa sinokuthathwa ngeetoni ngezicathulo, okanye ngokwahlukileyo kwimibala embalwa, kodwa ungakhethi ukukrazula amathoni. Izixhobo kufuneka zibe zincinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukuze kungabonakali njengomthi weKrisimesi.

Yintoni ekumele ixhomeke kwikhempi?

Ingubo yokugqoka nayiphi intombazana ezithandayo ngokwayo kufuneka iquke ubuncinane izinto. Ngoncedo lwabo, ungabagqiba ngokuqonda kwakho, udibanise neengubo ezintsha ozithenge zona, kufuneka nje ubonise imfesane yakho yokubhala kunye nokuzama ukutshintsha into ekhoyo kwiikiti ezikhoyo.

Izinto eziphambili ziquka ezi zinto zilandelayo: nganye intombazana kufuneka ibe neyodwa ibhokisi, kodwa ukuba yodwa kuphela, akufanele ibe mnyama. Into yesibili kwoluhlu luyikhati, kuyinqweneleka ukuba kufanele ibe yifomu yeklasikhi, ngokukodwa, ibe yipketi yepensile, kodwa umbala wayo uya kuxhomekeka kuphela kwisifiso sakho, kodwa kufuneka ufumane ukuba kufuneka idibaniswe ne-blouse ekhoyo. Okwesithathu kwoluhlu luya kuba ibhulukwe, njengokuba kulungele ukukhetha ukhetho kwiiklasi. Indawo yesine ibanjwe ijacket, kwaye i-classic kwaye ikhetha ukudibanisa neebhulukhwe. Okwesibini, fumana i-jumper, inokukhethwa lula kunoma yiyiphi i-turtleneck okanye i-blouse. I-cardigan ivala uluhlu lwezinto eziphambili, apha iyakwazi ukhethwa naluphi na umthunzi, into eyona nto kukuba ayibonakali njengendawo yebhekoni kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba uyithandile.

Emile kwisitorethi sokugqoka kwaye ukhetha oko kukuthenga, ungakulibali ukuba akudingekile ukuthenga izinto ezintsha eziphathekayo, kwaye kwizinto ezilula unokuzifumanisa. Ewe, kwaye kungcono ukuba neengubo zemidlalo, ukwenzela ukuba kukho ithuba lokunyamekela, kwimidlalo ethile. Yaye khumbula ukuba, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ugqoke ntoni, kufuneka ukwazi imilinganiselo nemida, ngelixa uhlala wedwa, kwaye ungakhange ulungiswe, kuba izambatho ziguqula umntu.

Khumbula into enye, ukuba iingubo zakho azifanele zihambelane nje ngesitayela sokuphila, kodwa nomfanekiso wayo. Xa ufika ngomfanekiso omtsha, isethi entsha, kufuneka uqikelele ukulinganisela phakathi kobuntu bakho kunye nezindlela eziphambili zefashoni, kwaye uza kukwazi ukutshintsha ubomi bakho ngeengubo.

Uvavanyo!

Into ephambili akuyi kuba buqili malunga nokutshintsha into ngaphakathi kwakho, ukuguqula isitala seengubo zakho kunye nesitayela, ungesabi ukuzama, cela abahlobo-abahlobo, izalamane kunye nabahlobo malunga nombono wabo ngomfanekiso wakho. Ababona abantu abangaziwayo, kwaye mhlawumbi baya kukugxotha kwiingcinga kunye nemivo enomdla.

Mhlawumbi iingcebiso ezingezantsi ziya kukunceda ukhethe, fumana isisombululo sakho:

Kodwa nangona ungeke ukwazi ukubuyela kwiingcali, ngenxa yezizathu zazo, ungadikibala. Zama ukuzama ukujonga kwakho, okanye unike ithuba elinjalo, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, kwiinkqubo zekhompyutheni, apho kunokwenzeka ukuba uyenze ngokwakho. Kukho, kunye neenwele, i-makeup, kunye neiglasi, kunye neengubo zingabonwa kwaye zikhethwe.

Ngoko ucinga kwaye ungayikhohlwa imigaqo-siseko yefashoni kunye nesitayela. Emva kwakho konke, ufuna nje ngamandla-ufuna ngamandla.