Indoda ngumfazi wendlu.
Amanye amadoda ayavuya kakhulu nemeko yokuba umfazi ufumana imali engaphezulu. Abafuni ukutshintsha nantoni na, bayakhululekile kwaye bakhululekile. Ukuba umfazi unelisekile ngesimo somfazi womyeni wakhe, intsapho iya kuhambelana nokuqonda. Ngokuqhelekileyo, le meko ikhula kwisibini esithile apho le ntokazi inamandla kwaye isebenzayo, kwaye indoda ingenzi. Emva kokuzihlawula ngemisebenzi yasemakhaya, umfazi uya kubhekisela kumyeni wakhe ngenxa yokungaphumeleli kwakhe kunye nokukwazi ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe. Kufuneka kubekho ukwahlula ngokucacileyo kwezabasebenzi: umfazi ufumana imali, umyeni unika induduzo kunye nentuthuzelo endlwini.
Ukubandakanya ukugcinwa kwezindlu kuba amadoda amaninzi ngumsebenzi oqhelekileyo kwaye uyamkeleka. Indlela intanda yakho ithatha ixesha elide emsebenzini, kodwa uhlala edibana naye ngokuhlwa, uya kunika isidlo sakusihlwa. Into ephambili kubini kukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba le nxalenye yeemfanelo ihamba ngokufanelekileyo. Ungatsho ukuba ungumthombo wemali yentsapho, kodwa umyeni wakho akenzi nto. Khumbula ukuba umva onamandla ungenelela ekwakhiweni ngokuphumelelayo komsebenzi.
Ukungquzulana kwintsapho.
Indoda ixabana nomfazi wayo, ezama ukubonisa ukuba ngubani intloko yentsapho kwaye uyinikela intsapho. Njengomthetho, kwiintsapho ezinjalo abantu abakuboni kakhulu, kwaye xa behlangene, baqala ukufumana ukuba ngubani intloko yentsapho. Kuza kube nini "umzabalazo onjalo" ongaziwa. Vukana nabantwana kunye nentuthuzelo yasekhaya, kuba akukho namnye umfazi ongafuni ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Yonke imikhosi iya kwi-extraction of money.
Kuhlala kunokwenzeka ukufumana indlela yokuphuma kule meko. Ukwahlukana okanye uchithe indima yomntu onesondlo. Intsapho akuyona inkundla yemidlalo kunye nebala lokudlala, apho wonke umntu ebonisa ukuba uyona mhle. Le akuyona indawo yokuphumelela kwaye ifumene umvuzo kunye nomdanso wegolide "wokunyamezela." Khumbula indlela zonke zaqala ngayo. Ziziphi iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo owazenzayo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Khumbula ukuba ungumfazi obuthathaka kwaye ulindele abantwana ekhaya abangenayo ingqalelo kwaye banakekelwe. Bonisa umyeni wakho ukuba uyaziqhenya ngempumelelo yakhe, ukuxhasa zonke izenzo zakhe, kwaye uya kukuphendula ngothando nangothando.
Indoda ayimkeli loo mzekelo yentsapho.
Umyeni wakho wakhuliswa kwintsapho apho uyise efumana imali engenayo? Emva koko, kunokwenzeka, ukuba intsapho yakho ineemeko apho umfazi efumana imali engaphezulu. Lindela ukuphendula kakubi komntu. Uya kuqala ukukhusela loo ntokazi, ezama ukubonisa ukuba ngubani inkosi yaloo ndlu. Ubuchule bomfazi ukufumana imali buya kukhubekisa abantu, bangela umona. Umnqweno wokugcina yonke into ekulawulwayo ngokuqinisekileyo iya kubangela ukuxabana kunye neentlanzi.
Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokuphuma kule meko iya kuba ukuyeka umsebenzi ekuthandweni kwintsapho. Okanye uya kufuneka ube yidiplomat enesibindi. Xa ubuya emsebenzini, gwala umfanekiso "omkhulu boss". Ngendlela enokwenzeka ibonisa umyeni wakho ukuba nguye oyintloko kwintsapho yakho. Buza icebiso lakhe ngokuthenga enye okanye enye into ngokufundisa abantwana bakho. Chaza umyeni wakho ukuba umsebenzi wakho ubalulekile kuwe, kodwa awukwazi ukufikelela eziphakamileyo ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba, inkxaso kunye neengcebiso ezinengqiqo.
Efanelekileyo.
Indoda iyabelana ngempumelelo yomfazi wayo, iyamxhasa kwaye iyayiqonda, iyavuya ngokukhuthazwa. Lo mzekelo wokuziphatha ufumaneka kuphela kubantu abazithembayo. Njengomthetho, kwiintsapho, imisebenzi yasendlini iyahlula ngokulinganayo. Musa ukuphumla ngokwakho ukuzimela. Kubalulekile ukuba umyeni wakho azi ukuba uyaziqhayisa ngempumelelo yakhe kwaye uyayihlonela umsebenzi wakhe.
Ukuba ufumana imali engaphezu kwendoda yakho, kodwa akukho nanye kwezi zikhethi zingentla zilungele imeko yakho. Sebenzisa izicwangciso eziqhelekileyo zokuzisa ubudlelwane bakho bosapho.
Qhagamshelana nomyeni wakho malunga nemicimbi yakho, malunga nokufunda abantwana, ngokuthenga into enkulu, malunga neziganeko zentsapho eziqhelekileyo. Mxelele ukuba ubalulekile ekuxhaseni kwakhe, umbono wakhe nokuthatha inxaxheba.
Yahlula indima yomfazi kunye "nomphathi omkhulu". Ungalawuli ekhaya. Makhe umyeni wakho abe yinto ephambili.
Ukubhiyozela impumelelo yomyeni wakhe. Yithi uyaziqhayisa ngaye.
Yeka ngisho ncinane kancinane. Umyeni wakho makakukhathalele, ube "udonga lwamatye" kuwe.
Akukho zisebenza kunye nabaphathi kwiintsapho, kukho indoda kunye nomfazi phakathi kwabo kufuneka babe nothando kunye nokuqonda kunye nokuhlonipha