Ungayitshintsha njani imbonakalo ukuba ungeyinto enhle

Ngokuqhelekileyo, intombazana encinci, mhlawumbi ngenxa yobutsha bayo, okanye ukungazi kakuhle, okanye esinye isizathu, siza kumbuzo wendlela yokutshintsha imbonakalo, ukuba awuyinto enhle.

Yonke into ngokukhawuleza ayiba njalo, yonke into ekungahambisani nayo, kukho ukungaphumeleli kangako kuwe kwaye awuyikuzibona uhle. Kukho zonke iintlobo zezinto eziphambeneyo, kufuneka ulahlekelwe isisindo, kufuneka uguqulwe umbala weenwele zakho, kwaye iimpumlo zakho zinkulu okanye iindlebe zakho, kakuhle, ubunzima bonke. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uguqule ukubonakala kwakho. Le ngxaki ingavela kuphela ngenxa yobuncinane, kodwa ngenxa nje yenkxalabo kunye nokungaqiniseki. Izizathu zinokuba kakhulu, kakhulu, kodwa ngokuyininzi zonke izinto ziwela ngaphandle.

Kodwa zonke ezi zizathu kwaye zikhohlakele "izizathu" - esi siqhamo sesicinga sakho. Ngaba wakha wazibuza ukuba kutheni amaninzi amantombazana enqwenelekayo, abafazi baba ngamanye amaxesha nabafazi abathandekayo nabathembisayo? Indoda ngokuyinhloko ukhetha intombazana enokuzikhulula, ukuzola, ukuthakazelisa ukuhlala, nokuthanda kuphela kwaye ufumane ngokuphindaphindiweyo nokunyamekela.

Amagama amahle omdlali omnye owaziwayo, eqinisekisa ngokupheleleyo into ekhankanywe ngentla, ukuba nayiphi na indoda ehloniphekileyo iya kujongela intombazana enomdla kubo, kunokuba intombazana enemilenze emihle kuphela. Oko kukuthi, nangona ungumntu omhle kwaye ungenanto ngaphandle kobuhle ngaphandle, akusikho umqondiso wempumelelo.

Kuthetha ntoni "ukubonakala okulungileyo"?

Kwaye amaGrike asendulo azama ukufumanisa izinto eziphambili ezibizwa ngokuba "ukubonakala kakuhle." Namhlanje, amagama omculi we-Renaissance, uAlbrecht Durer, aya kubonakala ngathi ukuhleka. Wayekhe wathola inkqubo ye-standard of beauty, ngokubakho ekukholelwa ukuba iindawo ezinjalo zobuso njengeempumlo kunye neendlebe kufuneka zibe nexabiso elilinganayo, kwaye ubude phakathi kwamehlo - amaxesha anesiqingatha ngaphantsi kobukhulu bomlomo.

Kwimiba eyahlukeneyo yexesha kwakukho imigangatho eyahlukeneyo kunye nemigangatho yobuhle. Kungaba "amahle" amaninzi, kunye namantombazana e-corsets, ngezinye amaxesha atyantse kakhulu kangangokuthi awela ekudleni. I-proletariat yayineengcinga kunye nemigangatho yokukhawulela, bebesetyhini abanesimo "sokuqonda" sogonyamelo. Umbutho uhlala unombono wayo ngokuhle kobuqhetseba, kwaye akalokothi uqonde.

Amadoda atyhulwa phakathi kwamabhinqa amaninzi asemgangathweni, umgangatho, ohambelana kuphela nomdla kunye nokukhetha. Nabani na umntu uya kuba neyona nto, ukungathobeli, okungeke kulandelelwe ngamagama "indlela yokutshintsha ukubonakala, ukuba andiyinto enhle". Kwaye kukho nantoni na into, indlela, into ebenokuthi ilahleke indoda kwaye kungekhona isizathu sokuba oko kuza kubonakala. Emva koko, kukho intle kakhulu kwaye abantu abangabahle kakhulu emhlabeni.

Ewe, kukho uluvo oluthetha ukuba indawo yangaphandle inendima ebalulekileyo kwisixhobo kwindawo yokusebenzela, ngokukodwa ezo zinto zisebenza apho into yokuqala yokuthatha indawo kwindawo yokusebenzela ibukeka obuhle: imodeli, oonobhala, abancedisayo, umbonisi kunye n njl. Kwaye kuyaqondakala ukuba kutheni amantombazana athile anqwenela ukutshintsha ukubonakala, kwindawo ethile yokususa iimpazamo ezibonakalayo kwaye zisuswe ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha zize zenze utyando ukuba zitshintshe nayiphi na inxalenye yomzimba wazo. Kodwa musa ukucinga ukuba bonke abaphathi banokulungiswa kuphela kubonakala bembonakalo lwangaphandle, ngokusisiseko, imfuno ebalulekileyo iya kuba izakhono zobugcisa.

Ngokutsho kweminye imvavanyo eqhutywe nabantu abanomdla abangazicingeli ngokwabo. Iziphumo ezithakazelisayo zafunyanwa, ezathi ikhe yangaphambili yayigqibe ekubeni ingcono kunokuba yinto yokugqibela. Kodwa ke, owokuqala kubo babezithemba kakhulu xa kuthelekiswa nesibini, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kubaqeshi. Oku kulandela kwesi sigqibo kukuba kufuneka uqiniseke ngokwakho, kwaye kungekhona nje ubuhle bakho!

Kwaye uyazi ukuba kukho iNhlangano yeMhlaba yehlabathi eyaziwayo ngokwabo. Kukho abantu abangaphezu kwamawaka a-25 abazibiza ngokuthi "izilo" kunye nabo bonke behlabathi lonke. Itholakala kwisixeko saseNtaliyane sasePibicco, ekhokelwa ngu-Telesforo Jacobelli oneminyaka eyi-68 ubudala.

Emuva kwixesha la mandulo, kwakukho umlando malunga neentombi ezili-128 ezaludala ezazizicingela "urodynes", ngenxa yezinto abangazange bazifumanise amadoda abo. Kwakungenxa yabo ukuba bavula i-agency ebizwa ngokuba ngumtshato, eyabancedisa ukuphucula ubomi babo.

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Yiba nethemba ngokungahambi kakuhle!

Kodwa yonke into ayibuhlungu gqitha njengoko aba bantu banayo kunye nombutho. Abaninzi nje aboni "ekude kunemitha" ukusuka kwi-nekrasota yabo kwaye bazame konke okusemandleni abo ukutshintsha ukubonakala kakubi kumhle.

Mhlawumbi ufuna nje ukutshintsha umfanekiso wakho, vula utshintshe iingubo zakho kunye nokwenza izicathulo, iinwele zakho. Kuye kube yinto ekhethekileyo, ehle kwaye ehle. Imithetho elula kwaye engaqondakaliyo, into eyona nto kukuba iingubo zibukhulu ngokukodwa, i-stroke iyathathwa kwi-oval face, kwaye i-make-up ihambelana nesikhathi semini (imini, kusihlwa), kwaye ngohlobo lweenwele (nge-brunette, i-blondes, i-brown-hair). Ungesabi ukuthabatha uncedo kubantu abangabaziyo, kodwa kunokuba ube neengcali kwintsimi yabo. Ingaba ungumgcini we-stylist, umgcini wezinwele okanye umculi wokwenza izinto, njalo njalo.

Kodwa into enamandla kakhulu eyokukunceda ukuba ube mnandi, ngokuqinisekileyo uyazithemba. Lahla zonke iintlobo zeengxaki kunye neengcamango. Emva koko, ukuba unesiqiniseko sokuthi umntu akanakukuhluleka ukunyamekela, oko kuyaqinisekileyo kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba njalo!

Kwaye ke zonke iingcango namathuba aya kuba ngawe!