Umlinganiselo wamadoda kubafazi abazimeleyo

Umlinganiselo wamadoda ukuya kwabasetyhini abazimeleyo unzima kakhulu. Emva koko, kwindalo yakudala yaseSlavic, ibhinqa lalifanele liholele indlu, ikhulise abantwana kwaye inamathela kumyeni wayo kuyo yonke into. Indlela yokukholisa nokuqhuba indlu ichazwe ngokucacileyo kwiDomostroi.

Ngendlela, amaJamani anamathela kwisithethe esifanayo, achaza indawo yabasetyhini kwindawo kunye nenqaku elithi "Iikhilo. Abantwana. Icawa. " Abasetyhini banamhlanje bahlala bezimeleyo. Oku kuhle. Kodwa ngaba ngamnye umfazi unakho ukuzimela?

Ukuzimela kuyakwenzeka kuphela kubafazi abaneengqondo ezibukhali, uphawu oluqinileyo kunye nesinye isiqhelo sobuqhetseba. Kufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba abaninzi baseRussia bajonga ukuzimela kwabo kwaye bazama ukukhusela ngazo zonke iindlela. Ngokumalunga namadoda kubafazi abazimeleyo, lo mnqweno unzima kakhulu.

Nabani na umntu omdala okanye ongaphantsi kwaye uyazimela uzakuzama ukwenzela ukuba isiqingatha sakhe - umfazi okanye intombi, sithembele kuye. Ukuba akunjalo ngengqondo yemali, ngokokuziphatha. Yaye uzakuzama ukugcina nokuqinisa lo xho mekeke kumagama athi: "Ndaphumelela kwisikolo esikolweni, kodwa awukwazi ukubuyela esikolweni sobugcisa!" Okanye oku: "Ndiyintloko yesebe, kwaye usengobhala onobhala. Phonsa umsebenzi, hlalani ekhaya! "Iintloko zeentsapho ezikhuselekileyo, ngendlela, zidla ngokugqithiseleyo kunabanye abazama ukubhalela abafazi babo abafazi. Okanye nzima nobunzima: indawo yowesifazane wesitofu! Okwangoku ngokuchanekileyo: Ewe, ulungele umva wabasemzini, udibana nomntwana esikolweni, ulungiselele isidlo .... Kwaye kukho, niyabona, baya kunqanda ngokupheleleyo ilungelo lokuvota: "Ndathi, uphulaphule." Yaye ke ingqwalasela, iya kuthi ihlawulwe kubasetyhini abazimeleyo!

Ukuze ungaphenduli into engenamagama kwaye uxhomeke ngokupheleleyo kumyeni wakhe wendlu, kufuneka uvikele imfuno yakho kwasekuqaleni. Ngomonde, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Abasetyhini abazimeleyo bakhangwa yiyo yokuba bona ngokwabo bagqiba okokufunda, okokugqoka, apho uya khona. Futhi ungalindeli imali kunye nezipho ezivela kubathembekileyo, ngubani, ngokuqinisekileyo, onokunyelisa ukulawula yonke into kwi penny. Kodwa ukuba yinkosikazi ye-destiny yakho ngumsebenzi othabisayo kwaye ohloniphekileyo. Emva kwakho konke, unesimo sakho, umvuzo wakho namathuba akho-ukufumana imfundo okanye ukuya kwiikhosi ze-cardio striptease.

Awuvumi? Ngaba ucinga ukuba isimo sengqondo esihle samadoda ngokwawo singanqotshwa ngokuthobela kunokuba abafazi abazimeleyo badibana nabo bebudala bekhala ngelifestile? Musa ukukholelwa, abafazi abanomdla bathetha oko kunomona. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo bashiywe bodwa kwimeko eninzi engenakukhunjulwa, kuninzi olungakhuselekanga. Ngenxa yokuba ukuzimela kukuxanduva, wena ngokwakho, kubantwana bakho, ngomsebenzi owenzayo. Kanti-umkhwa wokwenza izigqibo ezizimeleyo nezikwazisa. Umfazi oqinileyo, ubuncinane, unomsebenzi ozinzile kunye nomvuzo ozinzileyo kunye nezindlu.

Umfazi ophumelelayo uhlala ekwazi ukucinga ngaphandle kwebhokisi, imfundo enhle, igqoke kwaye yenziwe ngongcamango. Uyakwazi ukubeka ingqalelo kuye kwaye ukhange amadoda nje ngokuzimela kwakhe. Kwaye ukutshata nomfazi onobuqili kunye nozimeleyo akuyona ingxaki. Indoda ethandwayo kulula ukubopha ngakumbi, kubonisa ubuthathaka bakhe obuthathaka.

"Wonke umntu ukhetha ibhinqa, inkolo, indlela" ... kwaye ngamnye umfazi uya kufuneka akhethe ukuba ahambe emsebenzini wakhe ozithandayo ngenxa yentsapho. Okanye funda indlela yokudibanisa ubomi bentsapho kunye nomsebenzi. Ukukhumbula ukuba abahlobo, umsebenzi, izinto zokuzilibazisa zinceda ukutshintsha nokukhula ngokukhawuleza, ukuqinisa ubudlelwane beentsapho. Emva koko, abafazi abazimeleyo bafumana amadoda anamandla kwaye aphumelelayo abaxabisa ingqondo yabo yabasetyhini, ubutyebi bokomoya, obungavamile.