Indlela yokwenza amandla amabhinqa

Kukho iintsuku apho kukho amandla eentaba ukuwa. Kwaye maxa wambi kufuneka uziphophe ngokusemthethweni ukuvuka ekuseni kwaye wenze izinto ozithandayo.

Ngaba kukho ukungafani phakathi kwamandla amabhinqa namadoda? Ewe, ewe! Konke akulula ukuchaza, njengawo nawuphi na umbandela onobomi bethu, kodwa kulula kakhulu ukuziva. Bonisa oku kungumzekelo: cinga ukuba unengubo enhle ehamba ngayo. Phendula ngokunyanisekileyo umbuzo, ngaba uya kuziva uhlala kuyo ngokuphelela? Inyaniso enomdla: ngamanye amawe, ewe, ngamanye amaxesha ayikho. Kodwa luluphi utshintsho? Ukugqoka okulinganayo, ukwakheka, i-hairstyle ... Kodwa imizwelo eyahlukileyo kwaye, ngenxa yoko, imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo kunye neemvakalelo. Ukuba siyakwazi, ngendlela efanelekileyo yegama, ukusebenzisa ubufazi bethu, kusinceda singalahleki kwimpilo enzima. Ukuba amandla okugcina amandla akhathele kwaye asicingi ukuwazalisa, imeko ilandelayo: yonke into ibonakala yenza okulungileyo, kodwa akukho nto iphuma kwaye siyayeka ukuzonwabisa ubomi. Uvela phi uvuyo?
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ngamnye wethu unendlela yakhe yokubakho kwihlabathi elisijikelezayo ngamandla ethu konke okufezekileyo. Kodwa kukho umgaqo jikelele: kufuneka uphulaphule, ukuqonda ukuba yintoni enye into enokuthi ibe yintlawulo. Kuzwakala kulula, kodwa kungekhona lula ukuyisebenzisa. Ngokomzekelo, le meko, echaphazela ininzi yesini efanelekileyo. Ibhinqa ivakalelwa kukuba kufuneka idibanise into ethile. Mhlawumbi ukhathele kwaye ukuba uzama ukuphendula ngokunyanisekileyo oko akufunayo ngokwenene, uya kuqonda ukuba uyayidinga usuku lokuchitha ingcwele. Kodwa engayikuva ngokupheleleyo ilizwi lakhe langaphakathi kwaye enqwenela ukuzithoba, intombazana iya kuthenga ikhekhe. Ngaba uya kunandipha ubumnandi? Ngaba iya kuphinda ihlawule ibhetri yangaphakathi? Ewe akunjalo, kuba ufuna ukuphumla okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, umsebenzi, ubumnandi okanye unxibelelwano, ifilimu enhle okanye incwadi, ingubo entsha okanye indoda entsha, kodwa akusoloko ikhekhe. Ngendlela, ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yokuba ukutya kuyinto elula kakhulu kunye neyona nto ifikelelekayo, okanye mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba asazi ukuphulaphula iminqweno yethu okanye nokuba ihlazo ukucinga ngathi kunye nendlela yokuzikholisa ngayo, asikwazi ukwenza amandla ethu. Iziphumo zeso simo sengqondo asikho nzima ukuqiqa.

Unqwenela kunye namathuba
Ukufumana amandla amancinci amabhinqa, kufuneka ulandele iminqweno yakho. Hayi, abaninzi abafazi bayesaba le nkqubo. Kubonakala kubo ukuba ukuba bacinga nje ngo "Ndiyifunayo", ngokuqinisekileyo baya kungena engqondweni yabo kuphela ukuya kwiiqithi ezingaqhelekanga, ingxowa engayi kukhangela umvuzo omnye, isangqa elinelitye elinjalo elibuhlungu ukuba likhangele amehlo ... Le ngcamango malunga iminqweno. Enyanisweni, ukuba ucinga malunga nento oyifunayo apha kwaye ngoku, izinto ezilula, kodwa ezintle kakhulu ziya kuza engqondweni yakho: itiye elitshisayo kwimozulu ebanda, ithuba lokulala emini emvula, ncokola malunga nantoni na umntu kwaye akukho ndawo ukukhawuleza, uhambe ngeenyawo, uchithe usuku ekuphambeni. Kukho iindlela ezininzi. Unokubuyisela ubungqina bakho kuphela ngokuqhagamshelana nawe. Kwaye unokujonga ukuba konke kulungile. Ukuba uyonwabile, ke oku kanye kanye oku kuyidingayo ngoku.

Shershe la ... indoda
Abameli bobulili obuhlukile besichaphazela indlela esiziva ngayo, vumelana. Ayikho imfihlelo yokuba xa umfazi ethanda kwaye ethanda, uyamthabatha, xa abafazi bethetha ukuncoma, utyhuqa njengoMeyi, xa beyinyamekela, uyaphuma ngaphezu komhlaba. Kodwa kukho umgibe apho siqhuba khona kwaye sichitha izinto zethu. Abasetyhini abaninzi abazi indlela yokuthatha isithunzi sabo, ukuncoma, ukulungisa abantu. Umzekelo, kukho abafazi abanjengoba bahamba nje ngamaphiko abo, ukuba umntu uyasondela, kodwa aphelelwe yintliziyo xa kungekho mntu uyamthanda okanye xa engayithobeli ingqalelo ... Iphutha eliqhelekileyo kukuva ukuncoma kwaye uyilibale ngalo, ulinde elitsha, ungalindi kwaye uphazamise. Ukuba ubuxelelwe izolo ukuba ukhangeleka kakhulu, zinike lona usuku olulandelayo, khumbula ukuba uyathandeka, nokuba akukho mntu uza kuthetha njalo. Kukho "chip" ekunceda ufunde ukungaziphosi. Cinga ngesikhwama esincinane sokucinga. Hayi apho yonke imihlali, amagama amnandi avela ngesini esahlukileyo. Ngokukhawuleza xa uvakalelwa kukuba amandla aphelile, hlola ephaketheni kwaye "uphuma" okuphakathi kwayo, uya kubona ukuba ezo zikhumbuzo kunye nokubuyisela kwakhona kwimemori yeemfanelo zakho ziya kuba yintlawulo enamandla yokwenza okulungileyo. Kulula kangaka? Ewe, kwaye isebenza!

Ngamanye amaxesha kuzingca
Ixabiso elincinci ngokwemali, kodwa indlela ebaluleke kakhulu yokuzalisa imikhosi yamabhinqa kukuzivumela ukuba ube yedwa. Kubonakala ngathi oku kulungile? Emva koko, sifuna ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nosapho, kunye nabathandekayo kunye nabathandekayo. Ewe, kunjalo. Kodwa nangona ube kanye ngeveki uza kufumana ixesha kuphela, akuthethi ukuba uthengisa umntu okanye ungathandi esinye isiqingatha kunye nabantwana. Uyazi, njengentlonelo: omnye umfazi, onobuqili, omhle, umfazi omhle nonina wabantwana abaninzi, bonke babe nexesha, kodwa babenobungangamsha. Kanye ngeveki wabiza umntanantsana weintsana, wathatha ibhokisi yeetyhilethi ezithandayo, inkomishi yekhofi waza wavala isiqingatha semini egumbini elinenkampani yeTV. Xa abantwana babemnqongophe, wamemeza wathi: "Musa ukukhathaza, bantwana, ndiyakwenza unina omuhle ..." Musa ukothuka abo bafuna ukuba bodwa. Oku kubalulekile ekubuyiseni kwamandla.

Iifutho azikho! Ngaba oku kuyaziwayo?
Musa ukwesaba kakhulu oku kwaye uzame ukuzityhalela nayiphi na intengo. Mhlawumbi, kunye nokumisa umzimba umzimba uyazisa ukuba kufuneka uguqule into ebomini kwaye uyilungele. Iingcali zengqondo zithi utshintsho luvele ngexesha. Kwaye kunjalo ngokwenene. Akunakwenzeka ngexesha lokuxhatshazwa nokuxhatshazwa. Ngaloo ndlela, ngaloo mizuzwana xa uphonsa izandla zakho kwaye uqonde ukuba awukwazi kwaye awufani noko uhlala khona. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kukhwankqisa ukuba inguqulelo entsha yophuhliso lwengcipheko engazange ibonakale, kodwa musa ukuhamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, linda, ubukele kwaye unqume indlela yokwakha ngayo ubomi bakho, iya kufika ngokukhawuleza.

Emzimbeni ophilileyo - ngengqondo ephilileyo
Njengoko uyazi, ibhinqa inhle kwiimeko ezimbini: namhlanje kwaye rhoqo! Umzimba wethu, impilo, ubuhle bubonakalisa oko kwenzeka ngaphakathi. Kodwa ke, kungekhona nje iimvakalelo zethu, iimvakalelo kunye namava - isibonakaliso sokubukeka, imeko yomzimba inokuchaphazela isimo sengqondo. Zama ukufumana umdlalo (okanye nje umsebenzi owenziwe ngokomzimba) owuthandayo: idama lokubhukuda, uhamba ngelokuhlwa, uqhuba nge-hula hoop, uhamba ngebhayisikili, intaba okanye ukuphuphuma kwamanzi, ukuhamba nge-skateboard okanye i-skateboarding. Qinisekisa ukunika ubungqina bakho ubuncinane iyure ngeveki. Uya kuphawula ukuba ukwehla kweyure nje kuya kuba ngumbane. Nawuphi na umfazi uya kuhlala enamandla amaninzi okudala, onamandla, uthando, ade alahleke ukwazi ukumangaliswa. Kwanamhlanje, yonke into iyaqhelanisekile, yinto eqhelekileyo, ecacileyo. Kwaye kutheni amaxesha athile ubomi buba lula. Khumbula wena njengentombazana encinane, jonga ihlabathi ngamehlo akhe. Yeka indlela ekumangalisa ngayo ilanga ebonakalayo, yintoni ingca eqaqambileyo entwasahlobo, indlela ehlaba umnandi ngayo ekhaya, indlela ovuyisa ngayo ufuna ukuhleka ngasemva kwabahlobo bakho abasondeleyo. Vumela intombazana ukuba idlale ixesha elithile. Akangesikhalazo malunga nokusilela kwamandla kwaye uya kuvuyela ngokutshatyalaliswa kwakhe nomoya kunye nawe amandla!

Ubomi obunentsingiselo kubalulekile
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba yiyo leyo inzala iya kuthetha ngathi. Enyanisweni, intsingiselo yinto eyenza ubomi buvelele yonke imihla. Zigcwalise ngokwakho: upheke umnandi, wenze ubuchule, uhambe, uthandaze, ucinge ngezinto ezilungileyo, bulela indalo yonke into onayo. Kulula kakhulu, akunjalo? Kodwa ukuba uzama ukuhlala, ujabulise yonke imzuzu, ekupheleni kosuku oziva ukhululekile, kwaye ungakhathali. Ngoko sihamba ngendlela efanelekileyo.