Ingakanani ebhaliwe malunga neengqondo zentsebenziswano phakathi kwowesifazane kunye nendoda: ulwandle lweencwadi, ulwandle lwamabhunga, kwaye ingxaki yokwakha ubudlelwane phakathi kwesondo iyahlala ifanelekileyo. Kutheni kunzima ngathi ukuba sifumane ulwimi olufanayo kunye nesini esahlukileyo? Sinokuqonda njani omnye nomnye, kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi, samkele into esiyiyo kwaye singazami ukulungisa nokuvuselela iqabane lethu? Ukuba ngokwakho kuyinto yokunethezeka ayifumaneki kubantu abaninzi. Kule nqaku, ndifuna ukuchukumisa kwenye into ephathelele ubudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nomfazi-ukwesaba ukuba ngokwabo.
Emva koko, kwenzeka, ngoko i-sweet-buketny iqalisa ixesha, oko kukuthi, ixesha lokuthandana nentombi okanye intombazana (nakhona kuya kwenzeka). Siyavuya kunye neqabane lethu: kwaye yonke into efana nayo, kwaye uyayimangalisa kwaye inhle, kakuhle, yindoda efanelekileyo okanye umfazi ongenanto. Kodwa kufuneka siqalise ubomi obumbeneyo, singene emtshatweni womthetho, njengoko uqala .... "Andizange ndicinge ukuba unguye ...", "kwaye andingazi ukuba ungo ...".
Kubonakala ngathi ngexesha leentlanganiso kunye neentlanganiso esizibona ziyimfama, kwaye iqabane lethu livela phambi kwethu ngenye indlela yokukhanya okugqibeleleyo, asiqapheli i-minuses yayo, sibona inzuzo kunye nezibonelelo zonke.
Kwaye konke kwenzeka ngenxa yezizathu ezibini: okokuqala kukuthanda uthando oluvuthayo, luthintela ingqondo kwaye lenze iqabane lethu lihle emehlweni ethu, kodwa isizathu sesibini kukuba ukwesaba. Ewe, ewe, ukwesaba. Sifuna ukuthandana kakhulu kangangokuba sinoyika nje ukubonisa umlingane wethu yonke imimiselo yendalo yethu, apho, njengomntu oqhelekileyo, kukho konke okuhle nokubi. Ngaloo ndlela, sizama ukufihla amacandelo angalunganga kwisiqingatha sethu sesibini. I-miser yexesha le-candy-bouquet liba nesisa, abaqhankqalazi bazinikezela, abavila bayasebenza kwaye banxinxile, izidakwa zixakile, kwaye abaxoki bazinyanisekile kwaye banyanisekile, njl njl. Olu luhlu lunokuqhubeka ngonaphakade.
Ixesha lidlula. Usuku lwentsapho luya kuqhelana, kwaye akukho ndawo yokufihla omnye komnye. Yilapho siqala ukumazana ngolwazi olupheleleyo lwegama, kwaye iziphoso zethu ziqala ukukhwela njengedemon ephuma kwibhokisi lokukhusela. Baya kuphi na, bayabuza, lonke eli xesha? Ewe bekunjalo, bekunjalo, sazifihla ngokukhawuleza, besaba ukubonakala bengaphelele phambi kokuba iqabane, ngelizwi, bekwesaba. Kwaye ngenxa yolu butyebi bethu ke kukho iingxaki ebomini bentsapho. Ngenxa yakhe, ngoko kukho ezininzi iziqhawulo, izahlulo eziphukileyo, iintliziyo eziphukileyo, ukudimazeka, iintsapho ezingaphelelanga. Kungenxa yokuba kunzima ngathi ngamanye amaxesha ukuba samkele umntu njengoko kunjalo. Emva koko, ngaphambi kokuba singaboni ukuba yintoni ngokwenene, kwaye ngoku, emva kokuyeka ukufihla, waba nje. Kwaye kuninzi kunzima ukuwamkela. Kubonakala kuthi ukuba oku kuluhlu lwabalingiswa, okanye mhlawumbi uthando lwethu lwalukhuni kakhulu, kangangokuba alukwazi ukumelana novavanyo lobomi. Kukho ukungquzulana, ama-scandal, kwaye, njengommiselo, kwizinto ezinobungakanani, ngenxa yezinto ezizahlukileyo, kwaye konke oku akukhokelela ekulungileyo, kodwa ngokuchasene noko, kubangela ukuhlukana nokuqhawula umtshato. Ngokuqinisekileyo, andinakuphikisa ukuba oku kwenzekayo kuzo zonke iintsapho, kodwa njengokuba amava endibonayo ngobomi abubonisile, oku kwenzeka rhoqo. Kwaye oku kubangelwa ngamanani.
Ungakuphepha njani lolu hlobo lophuhliso? Yonke ingqiqo ilula. Yiba wena ekuqaleni. Yeka ukuba nobuqili phambi kweqabane lakho kwaye, okokuqala, phambi kwakho, ungesabi ukuba ungamkeli. Emva koko, akukho bantu abalungileyo kwihlabathi. Sonke kunye neendlala zethu entloko. Kwaye amabango ethu komnye nomnye - isitha esibi kunazo zonke naluphi na ubudlelwane, ngakumbi ulwalamano nothando.
Ukuqhekeka - kulula ngakumbi ukwakhiwa, kwaye ukwakha ubudlelwane obuqinile kuthatha iminyaka. Okanye mhlawumbi bekungeke kube yinto ende kangaka ukuba sasingesabi ukususela okokuqala ukuba sibe yintoni - thina ngokwethu?