Ebomini sidlala indima eyahlukileyo: i-Innovator, uMfunayo, Umxhasi, u-Usomashishini, uMququzeli, u-Analyst, u-Critic, Umcebisi ... Unokuqhubeka ngonaphakade. Endleleni eya ekuphumeleleni kweenjongo zethu, sifanele sifunde ukukhawuleza ukuba yiloo nxaxheba echaphazelekayo ekuncedeni ukulungelelanisa imeko eguqukayo.
Kwimeko apho ukutshintshwa kwimeko entsha kuqala nangomnye umnqweno onomdla, ke indima yethu kule nqanaba kufuneka ibe yinto ekhuthazayo, ekhuthazayo. Emva koko siphendukela kwizenzo ezihlaselayo, ngokufanelekileyo, indima yomntu osisigxina kunye nomdlandla uyafaneleka. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimisebenzi emitsha ephakamileyo phambi kwethu, siza kuzama ngokuzenzekelayo ukufumana iimbopheleleko ezifanelekileyo thina, kwaye oko kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuza kuhamba nomoya kunye nendlela echazwe kule midima.
Ungakhetha njani indima efanelekileyo kwaye ufake umfanekiso?
Okokuqala kufuneka uqaphele ukuba zeziphi uziva uzikhululekile, apho, ngokuchaseneyo, akunakukhathazeka. Emva koko siqalise ubuchule bethu, obunjengobunzima, obangela umngxuma ekuqheleni kwethu kunye nokugqithisa kwizinto ezinokubakho, ukufikelela kumandla ethu okuhamba, kunye kunye nathi siphume kwimida yokuzijonga kwansuku zonke.
Thelekisa kunye namashishini amatsha. Ukuqhuba imibutho nezinto, izilwanyana, iziganeko zendalo, nabanye abantu. Umzobo ngamnye omtsha ukwandisa ulwazi lwezakhono zakho kunye nemiboniso. Inkqubo yokwandisa kwi "I" yodwa iqala ngosebenziso lwe-intuition, edla ngokuchanekileyo ekuboniseni apho umthombo ukhona khona.
Konke oku kuya kunceda ukuvavanya wena ngaphandle kwe-hypostases ezahlukeneyo. Ngaphambi kwakho uza kubona umntu omtsha ngokupheleleyo.
Emva kokuba uqhube indima yakho, oko kukuthi, ukwazi wena, kuya kuba lula ukuba uqale ukufunda ngabanye. Kubaluleke kakhulu kwaye kunomdla ukwazi abantu.
Ngayiphi indima ngoku?
Ngamnye wethu uye waba yinto yokuthelekisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo. Makhe sicacise imifanekiso emininzi yamancinci.
I-Predator: "Ndifana nengonyama, ndiqhankqalaza, ndiphambi kweebhokhwe, iinkunzi zeenkomo, izimvu, iinkuku, iinambuzane kunye neentonga. Ndiziva - kungekudala ukuzingelwa kuza kuqala! ".
Uxhoba: "Mna, onobubele, onobuhle be-collie, bajikelezwe yi-slobbering, abesilisa abalambileyo, banqwenela ukundibona, kwaye banokundinyamezela phantsi kwenkqubo epheleleyo, kwaye nakubonke-ukuba badle."
Ukufanisana kungenziwa kuphela kwilizwe lezilwanyana. Izinto ezizungeze nathi zivumela ukuba siphumeze kwaye senze iiprogram zethu zenxaxheba.
Apha, umzekelo, ibali le ntombazana eyayifuna ukulahla umlutha wakhe kwigigolo. Wayecinga ukuba intliziyo yakhe yayiyi-casket ekuthi, kwimbono, uthando kunye nothando kufuneka zigcinwe. Ngaphambili, i-casket yayigcwele, kodwa ngoku, xa umphefumlo wentombazana inomntu ongeyimbi ohlala evula i-paws yakhe engcolileyo ebhokisini, uqobo nje "ukhawuleza" kuwo. Kodwa xa kuvela umntu olungileyo, intombazana iya kufuneka ibuyisele ubuncwane bayo ixesha elide, ihlambulule i-casket of impurities.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba usebenzise ukuthelekiswa. Khawucinge ukuba umzimba wakho uyindebe ekumele ibe yintlanzi ukuze umntu wangempela azalise yena. Ukuba unqumle ukuba umfana wakho okhoyo akakho konke othanda ukukubona kwimeko efanelekileyo, phawula ngaphandle kwekombe yakho yonke i-viscous, stale, spoiled, ephazamisayo, eyingozi, eyingozi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ulahle yonke into ongayithandiyo. Yenza indawo yokuphuza isiphuzo esimnandi, oko kukuthi, kumntu onokukholisa.
Ufuna ukuba yintoni?
Xa ufumene ukubonakala kwendima yakho yangoku, phendula ngokwakho kumbuzo: unelisekile kuwe? Ukuba akunjalo, vumela ukuba uphuphe kancane.
Kungenzeka ukuba indima yexhoba ufuna ukutshintsha indima yesidumbu. Mhlawumbi isilwanyana simele sibe negazi elingaphantsi. Mhlawumbi ukhathele ukuba utywala rhoqo, uhlambulule, udliwe, ungabi nantoni na ngokubuyisela.
Khawucinge ngomfanekiso apho unomthombo ongapheliyo, okanye uvume kuphela kuphela ezifanelekileyo, ukwanelisayo iimfuno zakho kwaye ukwazi ukwenza oko bathathe kuwe.
Khumbula iifrikhi eziyaziwayo nemifanekiso, zifumane indawo kuwe. Ndikholelwe, lo ngumsebenzi othakazelisayo kwaye onomsebenzi!
Qiniseka ukuba ukhululekile ngemifanekiso emitsha, ukuze bakhuthaze ukuba ufezekise iinjongo zakho.
Uhlobo luni lwesilwanyana?
Emva kokuba uziqonde, unako ukuqhubeka kumadoda.
Yimiphi imifanekiso yesintu ephikisiwe kuthi?
Asinomdla kumadoda, onokuthelekiswa nesisu esinomdlavuza, i-rust, i-acrosisive acid, isivuno esibolile, njl njl. Asinomdla kumadoda adlayo aze aphuze ngaphandle komkhondo. Asinomdla kubabhubhisi kunye nabahlaseli. Asinomdla kwiimvunguvungu, iziqhwithi, iinyikima kunye nezinye iintlekele zemvelo eziyingozi. Asinomdla kwizibonda kunye nezilwanyana, ummiyane kunye nezimpukane ezixakisayo, iimpengu ezinobuqili kunye namagqabi enkohlakalo.
Yintoni esiyifunayo ngokwenene? Ngubani na umntu onokubonakala ngathi?
Unokuba ngumnqobi ohloniphekileyo, umkhonto okanye umgijimi onqoba iindawo eziphakamileyo. Unokuba yingonyama ehlala ekulungele ukusinceda. Unako ukuba inyosi, emva kokuba sidle i-nectar, ingasiphumeli nje i-pollinates, kodwa isinika nobusi, into esinokuzidla ngayo. Siza kuthotyelwa ngeentsana ezinzima, i-squirrels ezimnyama kunye nama-hamsters, izindlovu ezinamandla kunye nokuthanda uxolo, iinkamela ezinamandla. Indoda inokuba yinjinjini, i-rudder, iivili kunye nokuqhekeza okusebenza ngokujika. Kwaye ikhomputer eneprojeksi enamandla engenayo iyancipha kwaye i-pragmatism ilungile.
Ngokomxholo kaFrud, umgaqo wesintu uqikelelwe kwiifom ze-phallic, oko kukuthi, kwi "protuberances", isetyhini kwimicu kunye nezinto ezijikeleziweyo, oko kukuthi, kwi "bulges". Oku kuvumela ukuba ubuchule bakho bube sisifo se-diagnostic.
Kwimeko xa ikamva elikhethiweyo likubona ngolu hlobo lweentaba ezingenakukhutshwa, oku kuthetha ukuba ukhangele indoda ebonakala ngokucacileyo. Ukuba lifana nebhedi elifudumeleyo elifudumeleyo, ngoko ufuna umntu osemncinci kunye nentle.
Emva kokugqiba imifanekiso yakho (ibhinqa kunye nendoda), qiniseka ukuba uphawule ibhali. Unokuthatha ibali elidumileyo. Oku kuya kunceda ukuvelisa iimeko ezinxulumene nobundlobongela, ukudala ngaphakathi kwakho indima yecandelo, apho kwizinga elingenalwazi liza kukhetha umdlalo okanye ukungafani nendoda kwiskripthi sakho.
Ngentambo yokudlala indima, ndicinga ukuba kuyaqondakala. Ngokuphathelele imeko yokutshintsha kwento ndiya kuchaza. Sibhekisela kuzo izigaba zokuphuhliswa komfanekiso (i-pawns inkosi) kunye nomgangatho wale ntuthuko (akuyiyo yonke i-pawn ingaba yinkosi) Ininzi yepelisi ilahleka kwaye ibe ngamanani angasebenzi. Abanye bangase bahlale entsimini, kodwa emva kokuhamba ngekhonkco ekhoneni baze baxhamle kwindawo efile, baba ngamanani angenangqondo.
Khetha inxaxheba kwaye ujabule!