1. Phunyezwa.
EHollywood, izibini ezinjengokubonisa ukuba zenziwa kuphela. Ukuba bathathwe ngokukhuselwa kwezilwanyana, ngokuqinisekileyo kunye. Omnye ndawonye uya kwiiseshoni zokomoya, umntu uyasindisa iintlobo ezinqabileyo zezilwanyana, umntu unceda abantwana, kwaye omnye umntu wenza i tattoos ezifanayo. Zama ukufumana into efana nayo eya kuba yinto enomdla kuwe nakumntu wakho-ngoko uya kuba sisinye isinyathelo esondela kwiinkwenkwezi.
2. Yiba nexanduva.
Isinyathelo esibalulekileyo esilandelayo sixhalaba ngokuqhelekileyo. Mhlawumbi sele unabo, kodwa ingxoxo edibeneyo yezicwangciso zobusuku obulandelayo akusiyo kanye into esiyidingayo. Izibini eziziwayo zifuna ukuqala izilwanyana - enye yeebini. Mhlawumbi yindlela abahlaziya ngayo indima yabazali, kodwa mhlawumbi bayathanda ukuba banento efanayo. Kukho nawuphi na, eli lihle lithuba lokujonga iqabane, kwaye sele sele lixesha lokusebenzisa i-Orlando Bloom, uKirsten Dunst nabanye abaninzi.
3. Yiba luncedo.
Ukuba awusayi kulwalamano lomtshato, kodwa ukhangelelwano olusebenzayo, unokufuna ukuthatha umzekelo kubantu abaninzi abadumileyo. Baqala amanoveli kungekhona kuphela kwintliziyo, kodwa kunye nokubala okubandayo, ukuqikelela ukuba luncedo. Akunjalo imali, kodwa kunye nabaqhelana nabo, ukudibanisa, ithuba lokuqhubela phambili kwi-career yakho kwaye ufumana izigidi ezilahlekileyo ngumsebenzi wakho. Kukho isivuno esilungileyo kulo, nangaliphi na imeko, kuya kubakho inzuzo enkulu kulwalamano olunjalo.
4. Ulibale ngokufanelekileyo.
Abadumileyo bathanda ukutshitshisa uluntu-isonka sabo, kuba, iphakamileyo inzala yabo, iphakamileyo imirhumo yabo. Iinkwenkwezi ezininzi zagqiba ekubeni zizimeleyo ngokupheleleyo kwimbono yoluntu kwaye zakhulelwa ngaphambi komtshato. Kwaye ungathatha umzekelo kaKathy Holmes okanye uGwyneth Paltrow, kodwa bafumana umntwana kuphela xa bephumelele kwaye nangona benqabile uncedo kubabawo, banokuyenza ngaphandle kwenkxaso. Kodwa ngaba ulungele utshintsho olunjalo?
5. Thumela.
Ukuba uhamba uhambo, ukuya kwii-Zag, ukuya epikiniki-ungayifihli, kodwa ngokukhawuleza mazise ihlabathi malunga nezicwangciso zakho. Kukho nawuphi na, iinkwenkwezi zakho ozithandayo zenza loo nto. Batshengisa ukubandakanyeka konyaka ngaphambi kokuba kwenzeke, malunga nomtshato iminyaka emibini kwaye akunandaba ukuba izicwangciso zitshintsha, into ephambili ayiyikulahlekelwa ngumdla woluntu. Kwimeko yakho, indima yabalandeli idlalwe zizihlobo kunye nabahlobo, bahlale bekwazisa ngeveli yakho yokudibanisa, makabe banento into yokuthetha ngayo, ngelixa ungekho.
6. I-Epatiruy.
Inombolo elula, ephikisana nayo yonke imizamo yakho yokwenza i-stellar, ikhokelela emtshatweni, iyamkhathaza. Iinkanyezi zangempela ziza kuzama ukuphonsa into ethile ukuze ulwalamano lwabo lube lukhulu. Kulo khosi zindlela ezahlukeneyo ezahlukeneyo: unokuthatha umyeni kumhlobo, kwaye unokutshintsha abafana, unokuya kuye kwiqabane lakho, okanye unokwenza uhlalutya olukhulu ngokubuyisela kwendandatho. Akunakwenzeka ukuba emva kwezi ganeko umntu uza kuza kudliwano-ndlebe nawe, kodwa ezininzi izihlobo zakho ziza kuxubusha nawe ixesha elide.
7. Chaza ikusasa.
Hayi, ungakhange ukhangele isiprofeto sakho ngokwakho, ayikho ingozi. Kodwa uluntu sele luqulunqa izivumelwano zomtshato eziza kukunceda uqikelele intanda yakho, kuya kwenzeka ntoni kuye kunye nepropati yakhe, ukuba ngokukhawuleza unquma ukuqhawula umtshato, utshintshe okanye uphathise uboya. Cingisisa zonke iinguqu zeengxabano ezinokwenzeka, nangona yonke into eyenziwa ngumlingane ozayo emva kokuphula imithetho yikho kuphela, kwaye kungekhona izigidi.
Ukuba ulandela le mizobo elula, uza kuziva ngokukhawulezileyo kwiingcathulo zabo: ukuvalela, ukunyundela, ukunyaniseka, ukuhlambalaza kunye nokusebenzela uluntu. Ezi zimbonakalo zisesigxina zobomi bomntu owaziwayo, kwaye kungekhona nje loo mizuzu emihle oyabona kwiTV. Ekugqibeleni, unokulinda ukutshatyalaliswa kokuthintela, okufanelwe ukulungiswa kwemifanekiso kwiintaba zaseHollywood. Kodwa ngaba le nto iya kukuthuthuzela?