Kodwa akusiwo wonke umntu owaziyo ukukhetha iimpahla ezifanelekileyo, izesekeli, ukubaluleka kwekhanda ukuze benze umfanekiso opheleleyo, njengeziqwenga zomfanekiso omkhulu. Abanye banokuba nesimo sengqondo esingaqhelekanga: bakhetha ngokukhethekileyo ezo zinto zigciniweyo ezigcizelela ubuhle, zifihlile iimpazamo kwaye zibonise ihlabathi elingaphakathi kwelifazi. Ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda isitayela, kwaye imali ivumela - ungajika kubafundi. Abathengisi, abaculi bokuzenzela, abalungisi bezinwele baya kuthatha umfanekiso ofanelekileyo kuwe, baya kukufundisa ukuba uzive ukhululekile kuyo.
Kuthekani ukuba ungeke ukwazi ukugcina ipolisi yangasese ephaketheni lakho, kodwa ufuna ukubukeka umhle kunye nenhle? Kukho indlela yokuphuma - kufuneka ufunde indlela yokwenza isitayela sakho.
Ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukugqiba ukuba yeyiphi isitayela othanda kakhulu: ezemidlalo, ezintle, eziqhelekileyo, ezithandwayo, ezithandanayo okanye ezingabonakaliyo. Ukuba uthabatha amanyathelo okuqala, ungakhethi iindlela ezinzima ezifana ne-eclectic, i-ethno, izitayela ze-subcultures, njl. Kufuneka uqwalasele indlela oza kuziva ngayo kwiingubo zesakhethiweyo. Omnye umqathango wokukhetha isitayela ubudala. Oku akuthethi ukuba ukuba uneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, kufuneka ugqoke imibala emnyama kunye neendlela eziqhelekileyo. Hayi, ukuqwalasela ubudala kuthetha ukuthintana, ukudonsa izinto ezinobutsha zemibala yasendle, kodwa ukujonga iminyaka eminci emibini ngenxa yeengubo ezikhethiweyo kunye nemibala.
Emva kokuba wenze ukhetho ngokukhetha isita esisodwa, lixesha lokuya kwivenkile. Cinga, mhlawumbi zonke iingxaki zakho ezidlulileyo ezibonakalayo zenziwa ngokuchanekileyo ekungakwazi ukuthenga nokuthenga. Ukuba isigqila sakho sonke sinezinto ezithengwe ngandlela-thile eyokuqala ukusibamba isohlo, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukumema kwintombazana enokuthengwa kunye, othemba ngayo. Xa ukhetha iimpahla, cela umhlobo wakhe: ingaba le ngubo ihamba kuwe, indlela egxininisa ngayo izicwangciso kunye nokusilela. Khumbula oko umhlobo wakho ekucebisa khona: unokuyixabisa imbonakalo yakho ukusuka kwicala kwaye ubone ukuba into ekhethiweyo iza kuwe.
Ukuze 'uqeqeshe' umvakalelo wesitayela, amaphephancwadi obukeleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kukho iirubriki kuzo "isitayela / ingabonakaliyo", apho, kumzekelo wabantu abathandwayo, iimpazamo kwiingubo zihlulwa. Kunceda kakhulu ukuqaphela indlela yokugqoka iinkwenkwezi ze-movie kunye nomculo. Imifanekiso yabo, njengomthetho, bacingwa ngabachwephesha bezobugcisa, ngoko ke bahluke kwiingcamango zabo. Ukuba uthanda umfanekiso weenkwenkwezi, ungazama ukuyikopisha. Umzekelo, kukho uhlobo lukaSarah-Jessica Parker, uGwen Stefani, uFergie kunye no Kate Kate. La mabhinqa ahlonishwa iimpawu zesitayela e-Hollywood, ukulinganisa amawaka amantombazana nabasetyhini emhlabeni wonke. Ndivuma, baninzi ukufunda! Thatha ingxowa yezinto ezininzi zeendlela zabo, umzekelo, indlela yokudibanisa izixhobo phakathi kwabo okanye indlela yokugqoka izambatho ezingavamile kwimihla ngemihla. Ukuqwalaselwa okunjalo kuya kuba luncedo kuwe xa udala ukujonga kwakho.
Xa uqala ikhabethe entsha, kufuneka uqale ngezinto ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezisisiseko. Bamele babe ngabameli abakhanyayo besitayela esikhethiweyo, kufuneka badibaniswe kakuhle kunye nezinye izinto. Ingaba ibhulukwe, i-skirt, i-blouse, igqoke okanye i-jeans-konke kuxhomekeke kwisitayela. Ukusekela izinto ofuna ukuzisebenzisa: izicathulo, isikhwama, i-shawl, ibhande, iingubo, amabhonceli, i-hat - konke kuxhomekeke kwingcinga yakho. Xa ukhetha oko kukufanelekile ukukhumbula umgaqo obalulekileyo: ukuba iimpahla zigcinwe iitoni kunye nezicucu ezilula, ngoko kukufanele ukhethe izixhobo eziqakathekileyo, ezikhunjulwayo eziza kubeka ingqalelo kunye nokubeka ingqalelo kumntu wakho. Ukuba ukuhlanganiswa kuyinkimbinkimbi, i-multi-colored, iqukethe izinto ezininzi, ngoko ke izixhobo mazibe ziyingqondi kwaye zingabi ncinane ukuze ungabi mfanekiso wengubo yepayipi.
Emva kokuqulunqa isitshixo esisisiseko, musa ukuyeka apho. Njalo ixesha xa ukhetha into entsha, kuyafaneleka ukucinga ukuba kuya kudibaniswa njani nezinto ezisekugqweseni sakho. Kufuneka ukhethe into ehambelana nesitayela esele ikhona, uyizalise. Ungathengi i sweatshirt yeshumi kunye nejey blue elandelayo. Khetha into entsha, engalindelekanga kuwe - kukuthabatha ukuthabatha ingqalelo, okwenyani, ukuba le nto iya kuwe.
Ukufumana isitayela sakho akulula, okokuqala akukwazi ukusebenza. Kodwa khawucinge indlela oza kujonga ngayo emfanekisweni wakho omtsha! Yaye umvuzo oya kukumkela iimbono zabanye.