Umbuzo wendawo yokuphumla nomntwana ngosuku, ubeka abazali abaninzi ekufeni. Xa ukhetha indawo yokuzonwabisa, mamela iinqweno zomntwana wakho. Ngenxa yokuba ukhetha indawo yokuzonwabisa ngaye, igama eliyimfuneko lihlala kuye. Kwaye ngenye yexesha elibalulekileyo xa umntwana evakalelwa ukubandakanyeka kwakhe nokubaluleka kwintsapho, akhula ngokuzithemba nokuzola.
Kuninzi kuxhomekeke kwimibutho yeveki, malunga nokuba abantu abadala baqwalasela njani iimpawu zobuntwana bomntwana kunye neminqweno yakhe. Ngokuqwalasela kubalulekile ukuwamkela urhulumente womhla womntwana, ngakumbi kubalulekile kubantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu yobomi. Kule nto, kuyimfuneko ukucwangcisa yonke imisebenzi eqwalaselwe yinkqubo yayo yemihla ngemihla. Ukuba kukho ukuhamba kwi-kindergarten kubantwana emva kokutya kwasekupheleni iiyure ezimbini, ngosuku lokuphuma komntwana kufuneka uhambe ngelo xesha. Ukutyelela epakini, hamba ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo, uyeke kwindawo yokudlala, ukuze umntwana akwazi ukudlala ngesanti, kunye noontanga bakhe, abalungiselele umdlalo olula ohambayo. Musa ukuthatha umntwana wakho kunye nawe xa uya kwimarike okanye kwiivenkile. Uya kufumana ukuhamba nje ukukhathala kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukusuleleka.
Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bakhokela abantwana babo kwi-zoo, kwindawo yokuzonwabisa okanye kwindawo yokuzonwabisa. Kuloo ndlela kubalulekile ukubala ixesha kwaye kungabonakalisi ukuba umntwana unako, njengoko ukutyelela ezo ndawo ngokukhawuleza kumthandayo. Ukukhokelwa ngumgaqo: ukuzonwabisa okuhambelana nokuhlala kwindawo engaziwayo kufuneka kuqhutywe ngosuku lokuqala. Usuku lwesibini lenzelwe ukuzinzisa umntwana kwaye ukuze angene kwisigqi sokuphila ngaphambi kokutyelela i-kindergarten.
Kungcono ukuqhuba isiganeko kusasa, ukwenzela ukuba ukugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo kubonakale ngokuhlwa. Kanye kunye nendlela, ukuhlaziywa akufanele kudlule iiyure ezingama-3.
Akunconywa ukuqhuba abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka emithathu ubudala ukuba benze imisebenzi, imithi yeKrisimesi, i-matinees, iisksi kunye neyatrethi. Iimpawu zazo zenzelwe abantwana abadala. Umntwana omncinci mhlawumbi akayi kuqonda into, uya kudinwa kwaye mhlawumbi uyothuka. Izingane ziyakwazi ukubona amava amatsha kunye nolwazi malunga nemizuzu engama-20 kwaye kuphela ngoncedo lweenkcazelo zommama. Ukubonakaliswa kweseksi, i-theater, kwisihlahla sikaKrismesi sinokuhlala kwiiyure ezingama-2-3, ezingaphezu kwamandla omntwana.
Xa uqala ukutyelela i-zoo, bonisa iintaka zezilwanyana kunye nezilwanyana eziqhelekileyo kuye ezivela kwimifanekiso, iimifanekiso kunye neenganekwane. Abantu abadala kufuneka bahlawule umthwalo wolwazi lomntwana. Yeka ityeba ukuba ithe yahamba kwaye ayikhathaleli, okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ihamba kakuhle kwaye ilukhuni, ebonisa ngokugqithiseleyo.
Ngemva kwemini, khula iiklasi. Funda incwadi yezingane yabantwana, tyelela indawo eziqhelekileyo, indawo yokudlala okanye ipaki. Kuhle ukuba uhambehamba kunye nentsapho yonke.
Akuyimfuneko ukugxininisa ukuba umntwana udlala nabanye abantwana okanye axhumane nabantu abadala. Akukhuthazwa ukumema iindwendwe okanye ukuya kutyelela, bukela iTV. Endaweni yoko, mxelele ebusuku ebusuku.
Indawo enomdla kwaye inomdla apho ungeke ukhulule kunye nomntwana wakho, kodwa uchithe ixesha kunye nenzuzo, kunokutyelelwa kumyuziyam. Kubafundi besikolo, imbali yolondolozo lwembali yendalo imnandi. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana akakwazi ukubona yonke into kumyuziyam. Musa ukuhamba rhoqo ukusuka kwikhombisi enye ukuya kwelinye, ukhathaza umntwana. Kungcono kwaye kunokuba luncedo ukukhetha enye into, uhlolisise imiboniso kwaye ufunde kabanzi malunga nabo. Khetha iziboniso ngokwezinto ezithandwa ngumntwana wakho, umzekelo, ezinikezelwe kwizixhobo ezindala, izikhwama, izitsha zasekhishini, ifenitshala, njl njl.
Abantwana babonisa umdla omkhulu kwizinto ezifunyanwa kwizinto zakudala: izikebhe, ezixutywe ngaphandle kwesiqu somthi, izitye kunye namatye.
Usuku oluzalisiweyo lweziganeko lubuhlungu kakhulu umntwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bacinga ngokugqithiseleyo ukuba umntwana olele ukhala lula. Kodwa ngokwenene umntwana ovuyayo ukhululeke kakhulu, unentloni, ehlala engenangqondo, ekhala kungekho sizathu kwaye akakwazi ukulala ixesha elide. Abazali bafanele bakhumbule ngolu hlobo olukhethekileyo lwe-psyche yabantwana abancinci, baququzelele iimeko ezizinzileyo ekhaya, musa ukuyilayisha ngaphezulu ngolwazi kunye nemifanekiso.