Intombazana nganye ifuna ukubonisa isipho esingaqhelekanga nesingavamile kumntu, ukuze akhumbule eli thuba ixesha elide. Kukholelwa ukuba izipho kufuneka zinikezelwe kuphela ngeeholide, kodwa ngokwenene zibonisa iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokukhathalela akufuneki kanye ngonyaka, kodwa kuninzi kakhulu. Emva koko, ukuba nangona kungakhathaliseki iholide zekhalenda, ngexesha elizeleyo lithande isithandwa sakho ngezipho zangaphambili, oku kuya kuqinisa ulwalamano lwakho. Ngaphezu koko, indoda iya kuba nemihlali kakhulu ukuziva unonophelo lwakho.
Izigaba zezipho
Izipho zamadoda zingabelana ngezigaba ezi-3: eziqhelekileyo, eziqhelekileyo, iziphi izipho ezingabonakaliyo, okwesibini - ezibizayo, okwesithathu-okokuqala. Kanye malunga necandelo lokugqibela kunye nentetho yethu iya kuhamba. Ezi zipho azikwazi ukuthwala naluphi na olubalulekileyo, kodwa zifanele zibe mnandi, zithokoze (zenziwe ngokwayo) kwaye zinikezwe ngentliziyo yonke. Kuluhlu lwezipho ezingavamile zendoda kunokuthiwa ngummandla oyingqinileyo wothando, owenzelwe ukwenzela ukuba ummangalisa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba ukukhetha isipho somntu akuyona into elula, ngakumbi ukuba isipho esingavamile. Kwaye akukhathazeki ukuba yeyiphi indoda ebhekiselwe yona: indoda okanye iqabane. Yingakho kufuneka uqaphele isipho kwangaphambili.
Indlela yo kuqala
Kwizipho ezininzi ezingavamile, njengomthetho, kuthetha intsingiselo yamahlaya okanye i-bauble ehlekisayo. Kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba isipho esinjalo kufuneka sikhumbuze okungenani ixesha (mhlawumbi ngaphezulu kweminyaka elishumi). Umzekelo, ingaba yidiski yomculo, ukuphulaphula apho umntu uya kucinga ngomniki-mnikelo. Into ephambili apha ayiyikulahleka kunye nezinto ezikhethiweyo zomculo. Ngendlela, umculo - le yindawo ehambelana neemvakalelo zomntu, iinkumbulo zakhe. Ewe, ukuba intombazana inokuva kakuhle kunye nelizwi, kutheni akufanele ukuba ibhale i-albhamu yakhe kumthandi wayo kwaye imnike yona. Ukuntula kwedatha yezwi akusiyo isizathu sokucaphukisa. Bhala phantsi umntu ohambelana nomculo omnandi isibhengezo esingokomoya sothando.
Ukuqwalasela ubudlelwane
Okokuqala, ukwenza isipho sakho kungekhona nje kuphela, kodwa sinqweneleka, sisondele ekukhethweni kwayo ngokubonakalayo, ukuba ubonise umkhosi. Khangela oko kuya kumangalisa.
Siyazi kakuhle
Akuyimfuneko ukuchitha imali eninzi kwizipho ezingaqhelekanga, zinokuthi zenziwe ngezandla zakho. Ngokomzekelo, ikariti yesibingelelo engaqhelekanga kunye neprose okanye izibongo zomsebenzi wakhe ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuxabiswa. Into ephambili ukulungisa iindinyana kumntu othize kwaye ubeke inxalenye yomphefumlo womnye kule migca.
I-albhamu yezikhumbuzo
Njengomthetho, ezininzi izinto ezimnandi zobomi zifakwe kwiifoto. Ngoko ke, ukuze ukhumbule kunye nentanda yakho yezona ziganeko ezintle ebomini, mnike i-albhamu yezikhumbuzo. Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uthenge i-albhamu eqhelekileyo, kwaye esikhundleni sezithombe ukufaka kuyo amaphephancwadi, apho ubhala khona iimemori zakho ezidibeneyo kunye nemizuzu evuyayo oye wachitha kunye. Kwiqabunga ngalinye kufuneka ubhale imemori enye. Le albhamu ingaboniswa kuphela kumntu othandekayo, kodwa kunye nomhlobo, umzalwana.
Akuyinto eqhelekileyo engavamile
Njengesipho sokuqala kwisiqingatha sakho sesibini ungakhetha indawo ethile yothando kunye nokuyilungiselela. Ngokomzekelo, isipho esinjalo esingavamile singenza igumbi lidubule ehotele, ekufuneka uyenze ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyihlobise ngesitayela sothando. Emva koko, phosa izitshixo zakho kwi-knight ngenqaku elifakwe kwi-perfume yakho, ebonisa idilesi apho kufuneka ulinde khona. Okanye ungahamba ngenye indlela uze upheke umthandi wakho isidlo esimnandi nesinxanelekayo ekhaya, ugcwalise ngokuhlwa kunye nomoya osondeleyo. Zithenge iiflethi ezincinci ezincinci ezisezantsi kwaye uziphelele kumthande wakho njengesipho esiqhotyoshelwe kakuhle, efuna ukuba "siphume". Isipho esinjalo ngokuqinisekileyo siza kuba sisona siqhelekileyo kwaye siya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide nge-knight yakho.