Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuphinde uphinde ufundise i-femanizer kwi-monogamy?

Yonke intombazana iphupha elimhlophe, eliqaqambileyo nothando oluqotho. Yonke ubomi bethu siyondliwa ngeendalana ngeendoda ngehhashi elimhlophe, i-knight enobuqili kwaye iya kukhanda entloko ngumfanekiso othile okhethiweyo. Kwaye ngoku, kuya kubonakala, ufumene ukuba uyingqayizivele kwaye iyingqayizivele, eya kuxabiswa kwaye ixabiseke kuyo yonke imihla, kwaye ke bam! Wagijima emva kweengubo ezityumkileyo. Hayi, amantombazana abathandekayo, ihlabathi lizele abantu abanjalo, belungele ukutshintsha umzuzu olandelayo wokuthandana. Benza, okubizwa ngokuba yi-category ye femanizer. Yintoni, zimela zona kwaye ingaba zinokwenzeka ukuba ziphinde zifundise i-femanizer kwi-monogamy, sizama ukuxelela kule nqaku.

Iimvelaphi ziyinto ebalulekileyo.

Ngokudabukisayo, zikhona. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ungakhange uqikelele, ungabiza bonke abantu ukuba babe ngabafazi. Njengoko bathetha, awukwazi ukunyathela kwizilwanyana. Bona ngokwabo bafihla imicimbi yabo emnandi, bathi, iigulo - into ebalulekileyo. Nangona, kukho, kuthetha njalo, amadoda angamaqabane angamadoda awamkelekanga kwimfundo. Ngazo kwaye ziya kuxutyushwa.

Iingcali zengqondo zixela ukuba abafazi beentombi bakhula ngoonyana baka-mama, bekhuliswe ngaphandle koyise. Umama wayesoloko esabisa aze ahlukumeze umntwana ohluphekileyo, ephinda athi ngaphandle kwengqalelo yakhe kunye neengcebiso, akayi kuzuza nantoni na ebomini. Emva kokukhula, uzama ukulahla ukunakekelwa kukaMama, kodwa akukho nto iphuma kuyo. "USonny" akanakuyicombulula imiba yasekhaya, kwaye ngokukhawuleza kwakheka ubudlelwane nomfazi omdala kunabo, ngaloo ndlela bekholelwa ukuba uye wazikhulula kwimpembelelo kanina. Ezinzulwini zobomphefumlo wakhe, uloyiko lokuba lo mfazi uya kumlawula njengomama, kodwa, enyanisweni, akafanelekanga nantoni na into.

Abafazi besetyhini abazalwanga, kodwa kuba nje.

Nangona kunjalo, kukho isikhundla esinjalo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi.

Okokuqala, ukuzithoba. Ekubonweni kokuqala, kubonakala ngathi umfazi unesiqiniseko sokuziqinisekisa, ukuba uyazibona ukungahambi kakuhle kwaye ukholelwa ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka aguqe aze awe phantsi phambi kwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, yonke into ibuhlungu kakhulu. Ukuba yinkimbinkimbi, kunye nokuzithoba, i-femanizer idinga ukuqinisekiswa ngokubaluleka kokubaluleka kwayo, idinga ubungqina, ngohlobo lwabasetyhini abawunqobileyo, ukuba uyona mhle. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwexesha elingapheliyo, ngendlela yokuqwalaselwa kwabasetyhini. Ukuphinda ufundise i-femanizer kunzima.

Okwesibini, ukugqithiswa kwengqalelo yabesifazane. Nasi thina ngokwethu sinokubeka ityala. Amadoda asondeleyo ngononophelo olunzulu kunye nenkathalo ukususela ebusheni, asiwashiyi nxaxheba kwaye bona baqala ukukholelwa ekuziphatheni kwabo. Kule nto bayonakalisa umlingiswa kwaye ke, baya kutshabalaliswa ukuba babe ngumfazi. Isiphetho - konke kulungile kumodareyitha.

Udidi olukhethekileyo lwe-femanizer.

Iqela lokuqala lenziwe ngamabhinqa anenhlanhla kwaye asebenzayo. Bayakwazi ukwenza intombi evuya, okwenyaniso, ngexesha elifutshane, ngokuthetha nje - iCasanova.

Udidi lwesibini ngamadoda angamaxabiso amantombazana. Banikezwa ngothando kunye nobudlelwane kuphela kumaphupha.

Iqela lesithathu libandakanya amantombazana abhinqa abafazi abangenzi imizamo ekhethekileyo yokuphumeza umfazi, ukuthatha oko kulula ukunikezelwa.

Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uhlobo lwesine lwe-femanizer lusebenzayo, aluphumelelanga. Uthatha inyathelo, ubonakala ekhangeleka, kodwa ngenxa yezinye iimpawu ezingathandekiyo azinalo ukuthandwa ngabafazi.

Ngoko, unokuzigcina njani kubasetyhini bafazi? Unokukhusela njani intliziyo yakho ebuthakathaka?

Okokuqala, zinike ukufakela: "Musa ukuwa nantoni na." Uthando luyinto entle, kunzima kakhulu ukuyilahla, kwaye ukunxibelelana nomfazi kungabangela nto ngaphandle kokubandezeleka. Ukuphinda ufundise loo mntu kwi-monogram akusiyo injongo yakho.

Okwesibini, ungayithathi njengomntu, oko kukuthi, ungazami ukuzithoba naye, ucekise. Amanye amantombazana anzima kakhulu ukumelana nawo, kuba uphuhliswa kwinqanaba le-reflex. Ungamvumeli ukuba uyamjonga njengongqongqo kwaye engenakuphikiswa. Kodwa musa ukuyiqhayisa! Ukuhlazisa kunye nokunyathela kwidaka akudingekile.

Okwesithathu, zama ukwenza abahlobo naye.

Yaye khumbula: de uze umbonise njengomntu, akayi kuba yingozi enkulu.

Hlala naye ungenakuvinjelwa. Yenza izinto eziyiziphukuphuku ndawonye, ​​xubusha yakhe yangaphambili, wakhe izicwangciso zokunqoba amaxhoba akhe amatsha. Emva koko uya kuphumla kwaye 'akayi kukubuthela'. Zama ukuba ngumhlobo wakhe, kuba abahlobo banamantombazana athile kunye nabangqingili. Kwaye wenza ubuhlobo nomfazi. Ngaphakathi, unokuba ngumntu ontle, onomdla. Ukubonakala kuyimiski apho aphula iintliziyo kubafazi.

Ukuba ufuna ukumfundisa kwakhona, unengxaki enkulu. Ngubani ofuna ukuhlula nomfanekiso womnqobi weentliziyo zeentombi? Ngokona nxalenye, konke oku kukukhuseleka, kwaye ngaphakathi kungumfana onobuhlungu, osengozini, okhutshwe ngumama ebuntwaneni bakhe, oyika uxanduva. Kwaye ibinzana elithi: "Andiyi kudalwa ngobudlelwane obunzulu" sisisisulu, indlela yokufihla inkathazo yakho ngaphambi kokuba into enzulu kwaye ingaziwa. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukuguqula umfazi kwi-monogamy, cinga ngenyameko: "Ngaba uyayifuna le nto?".