Yitsho into oyifunayo, kwaye isondo sithatha indawo enkulu ebomini bobomi. Oo, zingaphi ubudlelwane bexakeke ngokukhawuleza xa befuduka ukusuka kwinqanaba ukuya kwelinye iqonde! Enye intombazana yayithandana nomtsha wayo omtsha kwiiveki ezimbini, kodwa ngokukhawuleza xa zenza uthando, njengaye ... "Kulo hlobo lwesibindi," esathi, "xa sasiya kulala, wandilibala ngoku." Ubusuku bobusuku bendizwa njengeoli, ngaba abaneminyaka engama ubudala bayakwazi okokuqala? " Ewe, abahlali bahlala behlala bebancokola kakhulu ...
Egoist
Vala. U-Egoist, ungokoqobo e-Afrika. Kwaye ebhedeni, naye. Ndiyathetha, umntu ocinga nje yena ngokwakhe. Leko ikopi ayiyi kuchitha ubusuku ukufunda iincwadi ngesondo ngethemba lokukhipha ulwazi oluvela apho eliya kumnceda ukuba athathe isitshixo kwi-orgasm yakho exabisekileyo. Ukuzonwabisa kwakhe yinto ephambili!
Kwaye uza kuba nexesha lokufumana into, into yeshumi. I-egoist ngokuqinisekileyo ikholelwa ukuba ufumana ukukhutshwa ngokuzenzekelayo ngeli xesha xa echukumisa umlomo wakho ngokumanga.
Into engathandekiyo kwindoda efanelekileyo ekufuneni indoda efanelekileyo kukuba ukuba engathandekanga, ezama ukufikelela entliziyweni yakhe nangengqondo yakhe, ukucacisa ukuba oku akusiyo into ayifunayo ukuyifumana ebhedeni, impendulo imangaliswe ("kwaye, ubungenayo i-orgasm?! ") okanye ubugwenxa (" Ndiyicinga nje ukuba uyaphila, nabanye abafazi ndihlala ndikhulu! "). Ngokubanzi, ukhetho - umthandi, njengomthetho, ufanelekile kwabasetyhini ngomgaqo-siseko wesini, ongathinteli ngokwesini.
Isibikezelo sesondo. Ngaba ufuna iNarcissus enjalo, zigqibo kuwe.
Kwimeko enjalo yobuntu, ngokuqinisekileyo, kungcono ukuhlala kude, kodwa ingxaki kukuba abanye babo bafihliwe kakuhle, ngakumbi ekuqaleni. Ukongezelela, abaninzi abafazi bayazixhaphaza benethemba lokuba baya kuba nako ukufundisa kwakhona "inkwenkwe embi." Ngelixa siza kuthi: le nkqubo inomdla ingagcinwa ixesha elide. Ukungathethi nto yokuba impumelelo yale shishini elithandekayo nelobunzima libuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye umphumo, njengommiselo, uphila ixesha elifutshane.
Ngaba ufuna ukuzama? Ndiza kuzisa kubakhethiweyo ingcinga yokuba ukuba akayinyamekeli iminqweno yakho, awuyi kuqhubeka malunga neengcingo zakhe. Ewe, uhlobo oluthile lwe "barter" alukhoyo wonke umntu, kodwa kwimfazwe zonke iindlela zilungile. Kutheni ufuna le qabane, kufuneka ufune indlela yokutshintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo ngesini.
Into ephambili - ungalokothi uxelise i-orgasm - le yindlela eya kuyo. Kule meko, kufuneka ufikelele kwisigxina esingapheliyo, esichaphazelekayo kunye nezilonda ezininzi zezilwanyana.
Unyana kaMama
Okanye: "Masidlale?" Vala. Okokuqala, mhlawumbi wayekuthanda - enesidima, enomdla, enothando, echanekileyo, enokuphulaphula ... Wayebamba isandla, wanikela iintyatyambo, wabamba umnyango - umlingani opheleleyo (ukukhuliswa ngumama, kodwa ke wayengazi ngako okwamanje). Kuphela ... into encinane kwaye ingenakunqununu, uya kucingisisa, iyenze imnike i-charm, ucinga! Kodwa ingxaki kukuba, ukuba ujwayele ukuthatha indima yomntwana, unyana ka-mama ulungele ukuyidlala ubomi bakhe bonke.
Ufanelwe kuphela loo mfazi ococekileyo ekufuneni umntu ofanelekileyo, othanda ukuzilawula ngokwakhe, kwaye uhlala ethatha indawo esebenzayo kwisini. Kodwa ukuba ufumana amadoda aqinileyo aziphatha ngendlela yokulala njengabanqobi nabanamandla, ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nendodana enomtsalane nonomama ekugqibeleni kuya kuba yintlungu. Kutheni? Ukuqhaqhazela, ukutshabalalisa, ukuzithemba, ukuthobeka, ukuthandana, kodwa ... ayithinti. Yaye xa ubulili buyeka ukuvuya, kuba ngumthwalo.
Isibikezelo sesondo. Umama kaMama udla ngokukhetha abesifazana abamkhumbuza ngonina - kaninzi abafazi abanamandla nabanamandla. Kwaye, kwakhona, ukuba inxalenye yakho ifana nokulawula ebhedeni, ngoko ulwalamano olunjalo lunalo lonke ithuba lokuvuyela. Nangona kunjalo, ngokwenene kudla ukuba kwenzeka ukuba usebenzise isidima "somzali", isini esingaphantsi kobudlelwane bakho. Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba "inkwenkwe yakho ekhulile" ivukele ngokukhawuleza ngexesha, idinwe ukungahambi kwakhe, kwaye ifuna ukuziva ilindile, ifudumise ezandleni zayo intombazana engenamava. Ngokwemvelo, akunjalo. Ungakhankanyeli ukhetho lokuphuhlisa ubudlelwane, xa ekuhambeni kwexesha unokukhathazeka ngezinto zonke, kwaye, xa usondliwa ngeentlobano zesini zesondo, uza kuqala ukukhangela i-adventure kwicala lakho.
Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze ngandlela-thile inqwaba yokulwa neentlungu ezingathandekiyo? Okokuqala, khuthaza ukubonakaliswa kokuzithembela kwinqanaba lomntu wakho ngendlela enokwenzeka. Kungekhona kuphela embhedeni, kuya kuba luncedo ekwenzeni ubomi-intlalontle kunye nosapho. Musa ukunyamekela nokunyamekela, awuyena unina! Watshata watshata nomntu omdala, ababeza kuba njengodonga lwamatye. Inkwenkwe yakho ikhula ngokukhawuleza, amathuba amaninzi ukuba ubuhlobo abuyi kukhula bube buhlungu.
Oo, yintoni i-macho, yintoni umdlali womdlalo!
Okanye: "I-hero-lover" Vala-up. Njengomthetho, amadoda asebenzayo ane-libido ephezulu anesimo esibi. Bavela kulabo "izinto zonke akwanele." Ngelixa ulalana, isondo kunye nomntu onjalo kubonakala ngathi yintando yesimo: i-temperamental, inventive, inomdla, ingakhathali ... Iphupha, kungekhona indoda! Ufuna ukuba uphelele ngamanye amaxesha ngosuku, umchukumise ngokudlala, kwaye sele sele ekulungele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhawuleza kakhulu kumfazi - uziva ngathi ubuhle obunobungozi obunokubangela ukukhwabanisa okukhulu. Kodwa, njengokuba kunjalo, uyazisola, kaninzi akukuthi ngawe nonke, kodwa malunga nokuba unjalo-uyakwazi kwaye ufuna kakhulu! Yaye uya kufuna ngomso, nangomso emva komso, nangonyaka, nangethuba lokukhulelwa kwakho, nangemva kokuzalwa komntwana ...
Yaye ukuba iimoya zakho azifani kangako, ngokuhamba kwexesha, ungaqala ukuziva ungakhathazeki ngolu hlobo, ngokungafani nokuphepha kwemisebenzi yomtshato. Yaye yintoni indoda enokuyenza kulo mzekelo? Akakwazi ukuzilungisa! Kwaye ngoku iinjongo zokungazinzi zilungele. Kwaye naphambi kokungcatsha ngabantu abasondeleyo.
Isibikezelo sesondo. Ukuba umntu onemfungu-moya ufike kuwe njengeqhawe leveli yeholide, ujonge nje! Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukhumbula le ntengiso ixesha elide. Kodwa, ukhetha iqabane lomntu, qhathanisa yakho kunye nekhono lakhe. Ewe, ekupheleni kwentsapho yobuhlobo naluphi na ulwalamano lunomkhwa wokudibana, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba baya kutshintsha ngokuphawulekayo. Kwaye ukuba xa uqala ubuhlobo ubulala ngesinye isihlandlo ngemini, kwaye unayo ixesha elaneleyo kwiintsuku ezingama-2-3, ungazitholi okanye uzithuthumele. Ewe, emva kwexesha zonke izinto ziya kuzincama kwaye ukuthanda kuzakuwela, kodwa ke uya kufuna umbhede kanye ngosuku, kwaye nawe-kanye kanye ngeveki!
Mhle
Okanye: "Ndiyakugweba!" Vala. Nantsi kucelwa ukuba yintoni engalunganga ngokukhuliswa kakuhle? Akukho nto! Yiloo nto inzima kwimida yangaphakathi yento umntu angayenza ngayo, isondo esithandayo. Ngelishwa, i-echoes yemfundo ye-Soviet ye-ascetic idlala ihlaya elibi kungekhona kuphela kumantombazana, kodwa kunye nabameli bezesondo ezinamandla. Bafundiswa ngale ndlela: imizwa ayilungile, yancinci kwaye iwanga - kubi, ukuthanda - iintloni. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, ekulala kunye nawe kuvela kwisigxina esingenakuqondakala, ukuxhamla kwi-caresses kunye nengqalelo. Akunamagama amathenda, okanye amabanga angalindelekanga, angabonakali. Yonke into ifanele ihambe ngokwecebo - ngokukodwa ngaphakathi kwemida yokuziphatha. Naliphi na imizamo yokwenza iindidi kwimibhozo yokulala kwindawo ethile yowesifazane ibonwa ngonya kwaye ilumkile. Yithi, kodwa yintoni na?
Isibikezelo sesondo. Ukuba umthunywa wezithunywa zevangeli uyintandokazi yakho, kwaye kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo ebhedini uhamba njengesibetho, ke umfana omhle uyenzelwe wena kuphela. Kuzo zonke ezinye iimeko, izibikezelo azikhuthazi ngokukodwa. Kutheni? Ewe, kuba nangona ukhethiweyo wakho unokwenza ubuchule bokuba le mibini yeemeko ezamkelekileyo, ekuhambeni kwexesha baya kukuzalela. Kwaye ufuna into ekhethekileyo! Akunjalo nabani na. Ngenxa yokuba yonke into engcolileyo, kwaye ngoko ayimkelekanga.
Omnye umhlobo onomvandalo wesini kunye nomntu onjalo ngumntu ongenomdla kwi-orgasm yakho. Hayi ngenxa yokuzingca. Kubonakala nje kuye ukuba awuyidingi. Ukongezelela, ngamanye amaxesha abafana abalungileyo abathandi kakhulu. Ngamanye amagama, mhlawumbi, bangathanda ukukholisa, kodwa abazi ukuba njani. Futhi musa ukutshisa ngokukhethekileyo ukuze ufunde. Ngoko kuvela ukuba iinzame zakho zokutshatyalaliswa kwesondo zibonwa nguye ngokungenasiphelo, umnqweno wokufumana "izinto eziphezulu" - umzekelo, ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abaziphatha kakuhle kodwa abafundanga ngokungafanelekanga, befumene intsapho kunye nabantwana, ngokubanzi balahlekelwa ngumdla kwisini, bezisa ubuninzi babo kwi-smallest anecdotal. Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba, "bathi, ngexesha lethu, akusabi budenge." Kwaye ke uhlala uba novelwano kunye bobabini, kuba kwakhona kukho isizathu sokunganeliseki.
Uya kukhwela okanye uhlale naye, ufuna iinguqu enkulu? Uzimisele kwaye ungenakuphikiswa? Okanye usenayo imvakalelo yeqabane lakho? Ukuba unomdla ngakumbi kunokuba ukhangele enye indlela, kwaye, siqaphela, ngokuthe rhoqo, sinokungathandabuzeki, sebenzisa indlela endala, enokuthi ichazwe ngamaphuzu amathathu kuphela:
1. Yeka ukugxeka iqabane lakho zonke izono. Ekugqibeleni, nawe, awufezekanga. Ukongezelela, ngokuqinisekileyo unamathuba amaninzi. Apha, gxila kubo, utshintshe isimo sengqondo esinobudlova ekwakheni.
2. Ngexesha lesini, gxininisa kwiimvakalelo zakho kwintsimi yesini-sexologists ithi inceda ukuzisa i-orgasm. Kwaye akukho zizathu malunga nokungabonakali kwelineni, ukuhlambalaza kunye nendodana yakhe kunye neengxaki emsebenzini - iqabane elingaphantsi kwezinga elingaziwayo lifunda isimo sakho sengqondo. Yiba nomdla kwaye ukhululekile - njengokuba wawukho ngexesha lokutshata.
3. Vula ubungqina obusondeleyo kwinkqubo yokudala. Akuyimfuneko ukuthenga isigxina sesitolo sezesondo (nangona le nto ingekho embi), kwanele ukuhlukana ngesondo kunye nemidlalo yokudlala indima. Kwaye unokuvumelana nentanda yakho, ukuba namhlanje uvela into enomdla, nangomso - yena.
Tune kwi-positive positive!
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ungangeni ekuphelelwe ithemba. Iingcamango, apha, into endiyonwabileyo, iquka konke-wonke, wonke umntu ufumana into efanelekileyo, kodwa kum-oku, ubomi abuququzeleli, imizwa ayivuki. Apha, kwaye ubaxoshe kude nawe ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuqhelekileyo bonke abafazi baneemeko ezifanayo, kuba unyana ka-mama okanye umdlali womdlalo wokudlala (nokuba mhlawumbi zombini), umntu ontle okanye ogoist (kunye nobunzima obuhlukahlukeneyo "isifo"), ungabonakaliyo kummeli ngamnye okhethiweyo. Ngoko wenzani ukuba unomthandi ongeyena mhle? Khangela enye entsha okanye ubuyise umdala? Ukuba unqumla kwisibini, kuya kufuneka uqale ... kunye nawe. Khumbula ubulumko obudumileyo: ufuna ukutshintsha ihlabathi - tshintshe wena!