Uhlobo lwe-1
Uhamba esitalatweni, kwaye ubuhle obuhle bubhukuda. Nje ukugxila kweDiCaprio, Cruz kunye neDepp kumntu oyedwa. Unokwazi ukuvavanya ukujonga kwamehlo akhe kwi-$ 1000000, kodwa emva kokuba ubumfama beHollywood bamomotheka. Uyinto enhle kangangokuba akukho mculi ongenakukwazi ukulubonisa lo mhle kwinqwelo. Ngaba sele uncibilikile? Musa ukukhawuleza. Ngabantu abahle kangaka kufuneka ugcine amehlo akho evulekile. Bavame ukuthatha indawo yakho ngobuhlobo. Oku kuya kufuneka unamnake, wenze amanyathelo kwaye wenze izipho. Kungcono ukuba aye kwiprogram ye-massage kunokukubona. Ngoko, njengoko ekhangele ubuhle bakhe, akukho nhlobo lwabahlobo bakho abakhathalelayo.
Yonke ixesha labo elincinci Abasebenzisi basebenzisa imali yokunelisa iminqweno yabo, zonke iintlobo zee-salon, iivenkile ezidliwayo, amaqela amnandi kunye nemidlalo ehloniphekileyo. Kwaye, ke, konke oku kuhamba ngeepeni. Ngubani? Uninzi kunokwenzeka, nguwe. Abantu abanobuhle abanalo ixesha lokusebenza, kwaye imfuno yabo phakathi kwabafazi ihlala ikhulu. Ngoko ke, awulindelanga ukunyaniseka kweso sikhulu, ngokuqhelekileyo uhlala kunye nabesifazane abaninzi. Zizo, njengommiselo, i-egoists enkulu, kwaye akukho mfuneko yokubaxhasa kwiimeko ezinzima. Ewe, ewe, uhlasele umntu kwindawo emnyama, lakho iqabane liza kubetha zonke iirekhodi zomsebenzi omde.
Uhlobo 2 - Ziyolise
Ukwaziswa kwiqela, kwaye uhleka kunye naye ngokuhlwa. Ukususela emlonyeni wakhe rhoqo sypyatsya amahlaya, amahlaya kunye namazwi amnandi. Unonwabo kakhulu kangangokuthi awuqapheli ukuba ixesha lihamba njani, kwaye kusasa uye watyelelwa yimisipha ye-press ephantsi. Ngalona ubuncinane kwi-opera eneempawu ezintathu zokuhamba, yonke into iya kuba yinto efanayo. Uhlala engumphefumlo wenkampani, abahlobo bakhe nabasebenzi bamthandayo. Kodwa, ubomi bethu abuyinto ehle kakhulu, ngoko kuhlengahlengisa kakhulu. Umntu onolisayo akayi kuyenza. Uya kukuzalisa ngeqela leentsingiselo ezinokuthi "kufuneka uhambe ngokuhleka ubomi," okanye "ukuba unomomotheka ebomini, uya kubuyela." Ndifuna nje ukubuza: "Ngaba uhlale ulala-kakhulu?" Inyani kukuba loo nto ihlale ihlaziywa, ifihla ezinye izinto ezicacileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuwonakalisa ngokomzimba, mhlawumbi kwindawo ethile eyadlulayo ingxaki yomzimba, okanye mhlawumbi nje i-inferiority complex. Wonke umntu unayo, kodwa yena. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukulwa nale nto, kuba iqhawe lakho liya kuhleka kakhulu. Abantu abanjalo bahlala bodwa bodwa kunye nobubi. Inokuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba, ukuba uhlale uhlelekile kwaye ungaphazamiseki ukuhleka, umzimba uchitha amandla amaninzi. Yingakho ihlala iphelile. Ewe, ngenxa yokuphoxeka nokukhathazeka. Ngoko ke uqaphele. Loo mntu ulungile ixesha elide, ukuba unaphakade ... Khetha wena.
Uhlobo lwe-3 - Isifuba segolide
Ngomhla wokuqala uza kuza egijima kuwe nge-bouquet yeer roses ezityebileyo. Okwesibini, unike i-trinket encinci, enjengokhiye wesitshixo okanye isikhwama, okwesithathu iya kukukhawulela ngomhlobiso obiza. Kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo konke okuqinisekisiwe ngeendawo zokutyela kunye neeteksi. Ewe, nje iphupha! Kakade. Kuze ufike emandleni akhe. Ngokukhawuleza xa eziva ukuba ungowakhe, konke oku kuya kupheliswa. Xa sele ufezekisile oko ufuna, awusenomdla kuye, ngokungathi wayengazange aphoqeleke ukuba asebenze oko kwachithwa. La madoda aqokelela abafazi ngale ndlela. Bahlala benencwadana ephethe iifowuni zamantombazana othandweni, belungele ukukhawuleza imini nobusuku, ubuncinane kwiiyure ezimbalwa. Le propati ixhomekeka kubasandul 'ukuvela kwamanye amazwe, kodwa amadoda asemakhaya nawo afana nawo. Yena ubonakala edala i-sherem ngokwakhe, kunye nezinye iingqungquthela zikhona kuye, kunokuba uzive ethembele kwaye uyindoda.
Uhlobo lwe-4 - I-Shirt Guy
Unayo iinyembezi emehlweni akho ngenxa yokuba umphathi angakhulumi ngokucokisekileyo ngecala lakho, okanye umthandi wakho waqhawula ubudlelwane naye, kwaye ke, ngaphandle kwaphela, lo Mhlobo omangalisayo ubonakala. Uyayiphulaphula, isula impumlo yakhe ngebheki, iphuza itiye eyancwisayo, kwaye kusasa uyakuhambela. Ewe, kungcono kunabo bonke abahlobo kwihlabathi. Ukuba lo mhlobo ulwabelana ngesondo, kuyafaneleka ukuqiqa ngesihloko: kwaye kutheni ndibethelelwe emnqamlezweni? Ngaba ucinga ukuba lo mntu unezinga eliphezulu kakhulu lokuvelana? Kakade kunjalo! Kwaye kunokuba le nqanaba liphezulu kunokuba isifuba sakho sisisigxina. Ungalindele ukuba aqonde emva kokuba ujoyine naye kwisini. Nangona kunokwenzeka kwaye ulinde, kodwa kuphela xa unesondo esifanayo kunye nawe, wayethanda ubuhlanya. Ngoku kukho ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo malunga nombuzo: ngaba kukho ubuhlobo phakathi kwendoda nomfazi, kodwa lo mfana akawa phantsi kwinqanaba labahlobo. Ngaphantsi kwesigxina somlingane othembekileyo noqondayo, kukho i-predator engumntu oqhelekileyo, ofuna ukukhawuleza ukuzaliswa nexhoba lakhe. Ibhizinisi apha lisezantsi. Uyakuyonwabela kwakhona, kodwa awuyi kucasulwa xa ulandelayo umnxeba wakho uyaphendula: "Musa ukundibiza kwakhona."
Uhlobo lwesi-5 - I-Sad Melancholy
Ulwahlukileyo olupheleleyo lohlobo lwangaphambili lwamadoda kukuba lo akasoze akuthuthuzele. Oku kufuneka umthuthuzele! Yonke into ephosakeleyo kuye. Kwaye ekusebenzeni akuhambelani, kunye nokuxabana nabahlobo, abazali abayiqondi okanye abayiyo yonke into (akuyiyo yonke into). Kwaye wena, njengoMariya onguMariya, uzama ukunceda amanye amahlwempu, ngandlela-thile uyithuthuzele, aze afune ukuzibulala. Uya kukukholelwa ukuba ungoyena uninzi kakhulu! Enobubele, obona bunzima, obona buninzi. Ngexesha elifanayo, uya kugxininisa ukuba unina wayengumfazi onobukrakra kwaye okhohlakeleyo (oku kushukumo sengqondo apho ufuna ngokuzenzekelayo ukuthatha indawo kamama kwaye uyilungele imeko.) Ukuba ngumama ontle kule nkwenkwe. Ubonakala sengathi uyaphila, kodwa i-vampirchik yakho ifumaneka ngamandla akho, nokuba yintoni, imali, inkxaso, umsebenzi. Yaye ngokukhawuleza xa unqumle ukukhawuleza, ukhawuleza kwaye ubeka intloko esifubeni sakho, esithi, ndiba nosizi kum, nzima kakhulu. malunga nantoni na ukuba kwakungengenxa yokuphathwa kakubi, qiniseka ukuba oku akusixinzelelo lwexeshana, kodwa indlela yokuphila, uya kukusebenzisa uze udikeke kwaye akafuni ukuhluka. uya kubona indoda epheleleyo, egcwele amandla ngokukhanya okucacileyo kwixesha elizayo ... Kodwa ... awusekho endleleni, uya kukubulela aze aphendule aze avume umnyango.
Yiyo indlela abahluke ngayo, la madoda. Yaye ukuba ufunda ukuzibona kude, unokuphepha iimpazamo ezininzi. Okanye mhlawumbi omnye wabo uthanda. Ndiyathemba, ngenxa yalezi ngcebiso, unokuzikhethela phakathi kwabafaki zicelo kwinhliziyo yakho.
Umbhali: Elena Sukacheva-Il'inykh
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