Izizathu zokubuyela emva kwexesha lomyeni zingabaninzi. Akuxhomekeke kakhulu kwiimeko ezifana nemikhwa ngenye indlela okanye enye isabela kwishintsho ebomini. Kukho imikhwa embalwa, kwaye siya kuqwalasela izinto ezisisiseko, ukuze ukhethe ukhetho olufanelekileyo kumyeni wakho. Ngokuhambelana nale miba yamadoda ingahlula kwiindidi eziliqela.
I nciniba
"Incini" inqwenela ukufihla intloko yakhe entlabathi kwaye ilinde ixesha elibi. Inxaxheba entsha yobawo yentsapho yakhe iyamthusa, ufuna ukuthetha nabahlobo abakhululekile, kuba uyayesaba "indlu yokubanjwa" emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Kule meko, ingxoxo eyimfihlo inganceda. Tshela umyeni wakho ukuba emva kokuzalwa komntwana bakho ubomi buya kuba neentlanganiso ezinomdla kunye nokuhamba, kuba xa usana luzalwa, uya kuba nabancedisi abanoncedo: oomkhulu, oomkhulu okanye mhlawumbi nangomntwana.
UMole
"I-Mole" ayiboni ithemba elihle emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Uqinisekile ukuba ukuqokelelwa kwemali kuphela kuqiniseke ulonwabo nenhlalakahle yentsapho. Uya emsebenzini, ekhohlwa ukuba umfazi ufuna ukuxhaswa kwakhe kokuziphatha. Umsebenzi wexesha elidlulileyo unokuphazamisa impilo yakhe, ngoko kungcono ukuba nonke nenza isabelomali seentsapho. Musa ukuwufaka, ukulinganisela ukutya kwakho. Engxoxweni engathethekiyo nomyeni wakhe, xelela ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna uyise ophilileyo. Sebenzisa iveki ukuchitha ixesha elingakumbi emoyeni omtsha, hamba ujikeleze echibini, usebenzise amanyathelo ambalwa e-gymnastics ebini, mhlawumbi umcebisi weengcali. Le gymnastics ayiyi kunceda kuphela ukuqinisa ubudlelwane bentsapho, kodwa ukulungiselela ukubeletha.
Umhloli
"Umhloli" uhlola amandla omoya wakho kunye namandla enkqubo yesantya. Lo mkhuba unokuveliswa ebuntwaneni bakhe, xa ebona ubudlelwane babazali: ukuba uyise wayedlulile emsebenzini, ngoko ubomi bentsapho bume. Ufuna ukuba ngumntu obalulekileyo kwintsapho yakho. Ukuba usabela ngokukhawuleza ukuya ekuhambeni kwexesha kwaye uhlambalaze indoda, i-subconscious yakhe iya kufumana isiginci - "Uyayithanda!" Andikukhuthazi ukuba ungabi namdla, kodwa ndincoma ukuba uzibuze: "Wenzenjani ukuba ubenokuthi uhambo loshishino?" . Ewe, iimpendulo zingahluke kakhulu, kodwa ndincoma ukuba uthathele ityala. Funda incwadi ongenayo ixesha ngaphambili. Ukufika ekhaya kwaye kukufumanisa emva kwengcamango enomdla, enokumxelela ngokuvuya, umyeni wakho akayi kufumana ukuqinisekiswa okuqhelekileyo kokulindelekileyo kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba ukuvavanya uthando lwakho alunanto.Ukuba umyeni efika ekhaya, khawuleza ushiye umsebenzi wakho, xelela indlela owamkhumbula ngayo kwaye uchithe ngokuhlwa kunye.
Umphindezeli
"Umphindezeli" ujezisa "ukuziphatha okubi". Wayeqonda ukuba uncike ngokupheleleyo kubukho bakhe, awukwazi ukuzicwangcisa uze wenze ishishini. Kwiveki eledlule wayengafuni ukuba uthetha ixesha elide kwifowuni nomama wakho. Uya kuziphindisela ukungabikho kwengqalelo kumntu wakhe ngokubuya emva kwexesha ekhaya. Ukuba loo nto ihlala isenjalo, kuyisignali eshaqisayo - awuzange ukwazi ukuba ngumntu ohlonelweyo kwintsapho yakho. Kwixesha elizayo, unokuhlakulela ubudlelwane obufanayo kunye nabantwana, baya kukugubungela kwaye bawasebenzise njengompheki okanye ucocekileyo. Ngexa iqhubeka, yenza i-self-education. Funda iincwadi malunga nokukhula komntu, qalisa ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle okanye ukubethela umnqamlezo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ziphi iindlela ozikhethayo, landela umgaqo: umntu ungomnye umntu. Indawo yakhe emphakathini imiselwe yimpawu ezibonakalayo zeengqondo zakhe. Amanye amabhinqa kubonakala ukuba ubomi babantu bulula, hayi, buhluke.
Indoda ngumdali wezinto eziphathekayo kwisiseko somoya, esakhiwa ngumfazi. Ngoko ubomi bethu, bathandekayo bafazi, beyidalwa ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba uhlala kunye nje, khawucinge ngempembelelo kwindoda ethandekayo yonina, udade, enye into ebalulekileyo kuye (ungesabi!) Abasetyhini. Hlangana nabo okanye ubuze malunga nabo ngokubanzi. Mhlawumbi wayebuyiselwa ngumakhulu? Thatha kuye iresiphi yamapeyi ngamanye amaxesha.
Bathi umyeni uhlala engumntwana omncinane kwintsapho. Abasetyhini abaninzi bahleka ngento enjalo emva kweminyaka emininzi ngaphambi kokuba bafumane "inyaniso yale nkcazo. Ukukhokelwa yile nkcazo, uya kumthanda umyeni wakho ngendlela afuna ngayo. Isaziso, kungekhona wena, kodwa yena!
Gcina uthando ngokulula, ukuba uyaqonda ukuba akukho mntu uhlawula nayiphi na into, kodwa unokukwenza ukuba ufuna. Yakha umoya onobungane kwintsapho. Yakha indlu apho umyeni wakho uza kubuya imihla ngemihla.
Jabule!