1. Kwimifanekiso yabaselula, emva komtshato, umfazi akufanele akhononde kwaye amkhathaze ngokulila. Nangona umfana ubusuku bonke ephuza ubhiya kwiqhekeza phambi kweTV okanye engaveli kwikhompyutha. Umfazi ofanelekileyo akafanele akhulise ilizwi lakhe, afunge ngamazwi ahlambalazayo. Intetho yakhe kufuneka ithambile kwaye ithande. Umfazi wesikhathi esizayo, ngokuya kubafana, kwaye inhloko ayiyi kubeka isohlwayo ngemvuzo ophantsi, ukungabikho kwezindlu okanye ukungabi nantoni kunina. Uziqhenyce ngomntu wakhe kwaye ukhusela kwimiphumo yobomi.
2. Naphezu kokunciphisa nokunyamezela, umfazi wesikhathi esizayo, ngokuya kubafana, kufuneka abe ngumntu. Akufanele alandele izinto ezintle, akufanele kuxhomekeke kwimbono yomntu (ngaphandle kokuba ngaphandle kwembono yendoda yakhe). Kwixesha elizayo, umfazi kufuneka athembele kuye nakwizenzo zakhe. Nangona into ethile engasebenzi, kufuneka ilahleke ukungathandabuzeki kwaye iqhubeke phambili ebomini.
3. Umfazi wexesha elizayo ubona abafana bechukumisa kakhulu. Akathandi ukuyothenga, akayisebenzisi umvuzo womyeni wakhe kwengubo yesikhumba seminki. Kodwa xa kufike ixesha lokuthenga, akayi kutsala indoda naye. Unemisebenzi ebalulekileyo kakhulu, umzekelo, umdlalo webhola kwinqanaba labangane (ukusela amakhoboka). Ukuthengwa, ngokwama-guys - ngumsebenzi wamabhinqa kuphela.
4. Umfazi ozayo uya kuba neentloni ukuba abe yinkohliso. Akayikuhlamba amathambo kamamazala, akaxubusha "iindaba zokugqibela" kunye nabamelwane bakhe kwaye akaxubushe iiyure kwifowuni. Iintetho zeengxoxo zakhe zizodwa kunye neengqondo: isiteji esitsha kwibala lezemidlalo, imimiselo yakutshanje yefashoni, kwaye (oko umtyholi akabiyo) ukuchazwa ngokutsha kwe-Pythagoras 'theorem. Okwangoku, wakhe othandekayo, akafanele akhathazeke ngento engenamsebenzi.
5. Kwixesha elizayo, umfazi kufuneka ahlangane okungahambelaniyo:
- ukufundela kakhulu;
- ukuba ube nomsebenzi ohloniphekileyo kunye ohlawulelwayo;
- ukwenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo;
Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo umsebenzi kufuneka ube ngowomfazi kwimvelaphi! Ubomi bakhe buzinikele kumyeni wakhe, abantwana, intsapho. Akasoze amshiya isilwanyana sakhe kwisithuba seentsuku ezimbalwa, ukuya kwintengiso. Ngubani na oza kupheka i-borscht aze ahlambe iisokisi? !! Umfazi kufanele akhuthaze umyeni wakhe, amkhuthaze kwizenzo, axhasane nomatshini wemoto kwintsimi yezobugcisa. Yaye ke, ukuthanda ngokuthembeka!
6. Umfazi ofanelekileyo makafanele ukugqibelela kuyo yonke into. Kwaye okokuqala - konke okulungileyo kunye nokukrazula. Kumele akhathalele yena, kodwa kungekhona kwindleko yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Akahambahamba egumbini egqoke isambatho esinesigxina kunye neenwele eziboyiweyo. Icocekile, iyakuthandeka, ihlale idibene kwaye iyenziwe. Uyayiqonda imfashini, ihlala ihle kwaye iphumelele. Kodwa ngelo xesha unako ukugcoba umenzi wezandla ezimangalisayo kunye nezambatho eziphathekayo ngokwakhe kwizinto ezikhoyo. Udinga ukwazi izinto ezithandwa yinkwenkwe yakhe kunye nokuzilungelelanisa. Ukuba umntu uthanda i-blondes - uya kuba ngumlenze osebenzayo kwizithili. Ibhinqa lamaphupha kufuneka libonise ngokucacileyo imeko ephakamileyo yendoda yakhe, nokuba ngaba ibharman kwi-bar snack bar.
7. Nangona kunjalo, ibhinqa elungileyo akufanele libe lihlazo. Kufuneka luzame ukuzimela kunye nokukhula ngokomoya. Funda iincwadi ezihlakaniphile, ubhalise kwizifundo zolwimi zangaphandle, uvavanyo lokufunda. Kodwa ngelo xesha awakubonisi umntu wakho ubukhulu bengqondo phezu kwakhe. Kodwa ngaphezu kwabahlobo, oogxa kunye nabamelwane - nceda!
8. Yintoni enye eyenziwa ngabafana njengomfazi kwikamva? Umfazi oyinyaniso unqula abazali bomyeni wakhe nazo zonke izihlobo zakhe kwisizwe sesithathu. Uphulaphula ngokukhawuleza amabali ukususela ebuntwaneni bakhe, ujonge iifoto kunye nabantu abangaqhelekanga abanomdla kwaye ukhumbule umhla wokuzalwa kukayisekazi.
9. Abafana babona umfazi ovuyayo ngeentloni. Unentlalontle, unoluntu, unoliseko, unamahloni nokunye, izinto, izinto.
10. Yaye imfuno ebalulekileyo yomfazi wesikhathi esizayo-kufuneka amthande kakhulu isondo! Ukuba nomdla, ukutshabalalisa, ukungaqiniseki, ukuvulela ukuhlola okutsha (ukufunda-inkohlakalo enomdla). Kodwa ngexesha elinye lidlala indima yekhoboka. Umfana kufuneka azive ebaluleke kakhulu, ukuze angangeni kwi-fiasco ebhedini. Ibhinqa elifanelekileyo, ngokwemadoda, akufanele libe nekhanda.
Yiyo loo nto abafazi abaza kuyibona. Okhethiweyo kufuneka abe nobulumko kwaye abe nesibindi, esichengeni kwaye eqinisekisayo, ekhuselekile nangokhathalelayo. Kodwa ngaba ngabafazi babantu bendalo? Ukuba zikhona, zihamba kunye nomntu onwabileyo kwihlabathi!