Amaphephancwadi amaninzi amabhinqa anika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokuziphatha ukuze ugcine umntu wakho. Bazama ukukholisa umyeni kuzo zonke, kunye nokubonakala kunye nezobugcisa, kunye nakwizinto zakhe zokubambisana. Bafunda u-Kama Sutra, bafunde ezininzi zokupheka zokupheka, bahlale kwiidlo, bahamba ngokufanelekileyo kwigumbi lokuzilolonga, kunye neentloni zobuhle. Kwaye konke oku kuthanda ukukholisa intanda yakho, ukuba ibe yinto efanelekileyo kwaye yodwa. Umfazi uya kwimibingelelo emininzi ukuze ekugqibeleni aqonde ukuba akakwazi ukuba nomyeni wakhe, akafuni, uyamkhathaza.
Ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba umfazi omthandayo uyamshiya ngokukhawuleza. Lowo wenza konke ngenxa yakhe, waxolela zonke izinto zakhe ezimbi kwaye wamthobela ngokupheleleyo! Ukusuka kuye, kulungile, kulungile, kungenise indlu umvuzo, isiselo kunye nokungafuni ukutshaya!
Kungenxa yintoni umfazi angakwazi ukubaleka kumntu? Kuphi ukujonga isizathu sokuba amabhinqa akhathazeke ngabantu kunye nendlela yokuyiqonda le nto? Kutheni efuna ukuya kwindawo ethile ngakwesobunxele? Ngaba abameli bezesondo ezilungileyo kunye ne nyaniso bazinzile?
Okokuqala, ibhinqa kule meko iyingxenye yecala. Kwaye, ukuba loo mntu wayesazi malunga nalo, mhlawumbi uya kukwazi ukuthintela imeko enjengokungcatsha okanye ukuhoxiswa komfazi wakhe.
Emva koko, amadoda aqiqa ukuba wamtshata, oko kuthetha ukuba ngoku unyanzelekile ukuba enze konke awamxelelayo okanye abuze, kwaye ngokuphathelele imisebenzi yasekhaya, ngoko yonke into kufuneka yenziwe nguye, kuba akuyena umsebenzi womntu ukucima okanye izitya hlamba. Emva kwakho konke, uzisa imali kwintsapho, nguye odla ukutya. Kwaye inyaniso yokuba umfazi wakhe usebenza naye, uya ekhaya akhathele ngaphantsi kwakhe ... kodwa ngubani onomdla? Lo mfazi kufuneka asebenze kwaye asebenze ekhaya aze enze konke, ukuhlangabezana nabo kunye nabantwana. Kwaye oku kuthathwa ngokungenanto! Kwaye unako ukuphumla, kuba umkakhe unqotywe, kukho umsebenzi, kwaye unako ukuphumla. Unako ukukwazi ukukhulisa isisu, ujikeleze indlu ngefume okanye uphefumle kakubi ngecuba okanye ukukhupha, jonga ibhola ngexesha lomfazi wakhe ezama ukumcekisa, njl njl.
Yaye yile ndlela imihla, iiveki, iinyanga, kunye neminyaka zidlulayo. Uhlala ekulindele ukuba le nto iya kudlula, ukuba ekugqibeleni ufuna ukuhamba kunye naye kunye nomdla ukuchitha ngokuhlwa, okwangoku ngamanye amaxesha uya kuthi "mbulela" ngesidlo sakusihlwa, uhlambulule kwaye unxibe iimpahla, ngenxa yokufudumala nokuthandana. Uyakunyamezela ubusuku bakhe bhiya kunye nabahlobo abahlala bexela "injongo!", Nangona umntwana sele elele. Uyakunyamezela ukuba ucinga ukuba uyisiyatha ngaphezu kwakhe. Kwaye akayi kuvumela ukuba akwazi ukuthetha nabo bantu abathanda kuye, kwaye anxibe ezo zinto azithandayo. Umfazi ungumguli, ulungele ukuthwala izinto ezininzi kumagxa akhe athathaka. Ngexesha.
Kanye emva kwexesha, ukuguquka kuya kuza xa engayi kumela konke, uya kuba nesibindi, kwaye akayi kucinga ngokude kwimiphumo yezenzo zakhe. Yiya nje kwaye yile nto. Uninzi lwabafazi, ngokuqinisekileyo, baya kuzama ukusindisa intsapho, kodwa oku kuya kuba ngumtshato osemthethweni, ngaphandle kothando, ukufudumala nokuthandana.
Ibhinqa liyaxhalaba ngokuba yinto yokukhulula inxaxheba kumntu wayo ebomini bakhe obuxabisekileyo. Akafuni ukuba ngumprosesa wokutya, ukhathele ukwenza njengedoli ye-rubber, umlotha, ifenitshala, okanye into evumela indoda yakhe ukuba ikhululeke. Yaye yonke imihla nobusuku bonke entliziyweni nasemphefumlweni, umnqweno wokubonakalisa wonke umntu ukuba ungumntu ophilayo ukhula ngakumbi. Ukuba uneemvakalelo, iimvakalelo, amaphupha kunye neenjongo. Yintoni ngokwenene unayo ihlabathi elingaphakathi, elityebileyo kunye nelinye. Okanye mhlawumbi unetalente ehlala isongela izibakala zakho eziyintliziyo ezinjengokuthi: "awuyi kucula, kodwa u-quack" okanye "umama wakho udansa ngaphezu kwakho", "ungaze uzame, awuyi kufumana," njl. e. Futhi wenza oko ukuze abe negunya phezu kwakho kwaye angakulahlekelwa nguwe kunye neenkonzo zakho xa uhlakulela italente yakho. Kwaye ukhathele ukuba indoda yakhe engafuni ukumva, ayithathi ingxoxo yakhe. Emva koko, akaboni nto kwaye akukho mntu kwintsapho, ngaphandle kwakhe kunye neemfuno zakhe.
Indoda imele ibulele kumfazi wayo ngenxa yento ayenzela yona. Nangona kubonakala ngathi ziyimpumputhe ukumbulela oko akumele akwenze, yintoni imisebenzi yakhe ecacileyo. Umzekelo, kwiitya zokuhlamba, iisokisi ezihlambulukileyo, kwindlu yokuhlala ecocekileyo kunye nayo yonke into ayenzela yona kunye neentsapho zabo. Emva kwakho konke, kubonakala kubantu ukuba kulula ukwenza oko akudingeki ukuba bavulele loo nto, kungenxa yoko bangathethi amagama athokoza kubafazi babo. Kwaye basoloko bemangaliswa kukuba abafazi babo bakhathele ukuba ngabakhonzi, kunye nabakhonzi, njengoko kuyaziwa ukuhlawula.
Xa umntu eyeka ekuphuhlisweni kwakhe, uyaba nekrokra, engabonakaliyo, ekhuphayo kunye nengxabano. Akakwazi ukuphendula ngokucacileyo imibuzo emininzi, ekusileleni kwakhe ukuqala ukugxeka wonke umntu, ngaphandle kwakhe. Uqala ukubukela imiboniso yeTV, ukusela ubhiya phambi kweTV, ukucoca kunye nokuqokelela inkohliso, uya kuba ngumntu ohamba rhoqo kwiindawo zezononti. Uyeka ukujongana nombonakalo wakhe, kwaye ukholelwa ukuba ama-panties akhe amadala, athobileyo angenza ube nomtshato wesondo, kunye neminwe yakhe, ehlala iphosa icuba, uvele uphuphe ukuziva emlonyeni wakho.
Akafuni ukwenza nantoni na ukuba oku akukhathaleli ukwaneliseka kwakhe, ukonwaba kwakhe kunye neenjongo zakhe. Usebenza kuphela nobuntu bakhe, akukho mntu ubaluleke kuye. Kwaye ke, xa lo mfazi ekhunjulwa ngayo yonke into, akayi kumnqanda ukuba azithande, amkhathaze aze amthande u-Ego. Uya kumshiya, mhlawumbi kumntu ombona njengowesifazane, kwaye uya kumthanda aze amxabise. Ndize ndiphile nje kuphela, kodwa nakumfazi wakho othandekayo.
Mhlawumbi, kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni umntu angakhathazeka ngumfazi. Kodwa, ndicinga ukuba iinjongo eziphambili zemibuzo yoyiqonda njani: xa intombazana yayidinwe yindoda yakhe, ndayivula. Ndiyakholwa ukuba ukwazi ezi mpendulo ezilula ungacinga ngendlela yokugcina umfazi wakho. Kwaye akaze athathwe.