Kwaye eJamani, ilizwe elinomnye uphuhliso lwefilimu kubantu abadala, kwi-reception to sexologist. Kwinkcubeko yethu, i-pornography ibe yinto yokudlala yesondo. Ngaba ufuna ukuhlukahluka? Jonga i-porn. Ngaba ufuna into engavunyelwe? Jonga i-porn. Ngaba udibene kunye? Jonga i-porn. Ngaba wena wedwa? Hayi, wena ngokwakho uyazi ukuba wenzeni. Injabulo enomdla - ifana ne-carbohydrate elula, leyo, ngokugqithisa zonke izigaba ezininzi zokugaya ukutya, ishukela ekhangayo iwela ngqo kwigazi lethu. Futhi wenze kumzimba ngokufanayo. Kulula kakhulu ukuzisebenzisa kwizinto ezihamba ngokukhawuleza kunye nefomu elungisiweyo elenziwe ngokufanelekileyo. Akukho zithintelo, akukho ndabuza. Unokwazi ucofa kwaye uphawule emva, phambili okanye utshintshe i-roller. Ngaba kuyinto evamile ukuba umntu atyelele iisayithi zoononopasho imihla ngemihla okanye akunjalo?
Ngubani othanda iifoto
Ingqondo yomntu yinto enkanuko kunye neentlanzi, ukuba into enokufezekiswa ngendlela elula kunye namandla okusindisa, uya kufuna kuphela loo nto. Yaye noononophelo uyasindisa imvakalelo, ingqondo, izibonelelo zomntu zomntu kunye ... ukulibaziseka. Xa ukuxhomekeka okuphambili sele kuvele, ukuqonda kweentlobano zesini kuqala ngokukhawuleza, okokuqala, ngokungaqiniseki ngokupheleleyo, ukutshintsha. Oku kunokwenzeka, oku kubangelwa ukuncipha kobuzwe "bomzobo womvuzo" wesimiso somlenze, ubunzima bezakhiwo zobuchopho ezithatha inxaxheba ekulawuleni iimvakalelo, izizathu kunye nokulawula ukulungelelaniswa nezimo zendalo. Okokuthi, le nxalenye yengqondo ijongene nendlela esiyibona ngayo ihlabathi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlwayelwa kwiimvakalelo zengqondo (i-video eshukumisayo yesondo), siyayeka ukufumana ukufudumala okuhle), ukuya kumhla, kubonakala ngothando lomntu othandekayo okanye umsebenzi owenzileyo ngempumelelo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, siba nzima ngakumbi: sidinga ukonwaba okunamandla ngakumbi. Kodwa ingqondo ihlelwe ngale ndlela: ukuvuselela okuqhubekayo kweemceivers kukutyhubela ukuvakalelwa kwethu. Kwaye umntu obonayo kwi-pornoric kukuvuselela ngokungaqhelekanga kwendawo yokuzonwabisa. Yaye ayikwazi ukuphinda iphindwe ngobomi benene: umbukeli uya kuhlala enethuba elincinci, amaqabane ambalwa, kwaye yedwa onokukugqiba iminyaka engamashumi amane ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa kwaye, mhlawumbi, akafuni ukubeka ibhola yebhola kuye.
Axhunyiwe kwi-intanethi
Amadoda amaninzi (kunye nokuxhomekeka kobugqwetha kuyinkathazo kuphela kwezobulili obuqinileyo), abaxhatshazwa kwimibala engamanyala, abaqapheli ukuba kwenzekani kubo. Ngokuqhelekileyo bayayiqonda: bahamba phambili kokuqala kwi-hobby engenakulimala, xa ubunzima bokuqalwa buqala. Nazi izicatshulwa ezivela kwiirekhodi zikaRichard Grey, isigulane esaphathwe ukunyangwa koononophelo kwiCandelo loKhuseleko kwiColorado. Emva kweenyanga ezininzi 'zokuzilahla,' uRichard waphinde wajonga izicatshulwa ezimbalwa: "Iifilimu zesithathu neyesine ziphantse zifana neyesibini: akukho nxaxheba kubambini abanomdla kulokho akwenzayo, wonke umntu unobunzima obubuhlungu, ubuso obunzima. Okwesine, apho yonke into ithathwa ngokusondeleyo kunokwenzeka, inokutshatyalaliswa njengam phambili, kodwa ngoku ikhunjulwe ngokubonisa umzobo, apho umpheki esika inyama. Ukulala ngesondo kwakungekho nto enokuyenza ngayo. Ividiyo yesihlanu yiyodwa yodwa ndayibona ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya ekugqibeleni: umfana wayebethabathe intombi yakhe (ndiyathembeli ngenene kum umfazi) ngexesha lesini. Wayechasene nokudubula ngokubanzi, wacelwa ukuba athumele ikhamera kwicala kwaye angabi nokusondeza kakhulu kwizitho zakhe zokuzalwa, kodwa wagxininisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo, lo bubundlobongela obucacileyo. Inyaniso yokuba yonke into eyenziwe ngokuchasene nentando yintombazana yayimangalisa. Kodwa nangakumbi - into endiyisebenzisayo ukubukela le ifilimu rhoqo ngaphambili kwaye ndibathande! "UYurophu Prokopenko ukholelwa ukuba abaphulaphuli bazama ukwenza iindima ezingezona ezabo - kwaye ingcamango yesiqhelo ishintsho. Emva koko, ukugqithiswa koononophelo kubonakaliswa ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo, kuba nje ukujonga isondo esiqhelekileyo kubantu ababini abaqhelekileyo kubangelona. Ngako oko, kukho ukutshintsha rhoqo inani kunye nokwabelana ngesondo kwabathathi-nxaxheba, kukho udlame, ukunyanzeliswa kwimiqathango yenzalo kunye nokungaqhelekanga. Ingcali yeengqondo uNorman Doyd ithi abantu abathengi be-pornography abangenakunandipha ngaphandle kwemifanekiso ekhokelela kubo. Akunakwenzeka nje ukuba amaphepha ezononophelo agcwele izibhengezo zee-tablet ze-Viagra, ezazisetyenziselwa abantu besigaba. Namhlanje, abafana abancinci banamabhinqa bavame ukuba ne-erectile dysfunction. Nangona kunjalo, ingxaki ayikho epeni, kodwa entloko, "kusho uDoyge. Ngethamsanqa, zixazululwe ngokupheleleyo emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa emva kokupheliswa kokubambisana kweefostile kunye nokulungiswa komntu ngokufanelekileyo kumfazi onomdla nothando. "
Uncedo lweHolo
Ewe, ukuxazulula ingxaki yedwa, ukulahla iidiski nokucima izixhumanisi ukusuka kwikhompyutheni ukuya kwisayithi ye-porn, indoda ayikwazi. Ukuqonda xa edibana neqabane lakhe, ngokukhawuleza uza kuqala ukufumana ulonwabo lwezesondo eziqhelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ngokubhekiselele kwi-sexologists, "hlalani kunye nibone abo babini," amaphephancwadi amaninzi ayeluleka, kuyafaneleka kuphela ukuba intombazana inomdla kwizinto ezenzekayo kwesikrini. Ngamandla okukwenza oku akufanelekanga. Kwaye into ephambili kukukhumbula: ngokwemvelo yonke into evuyisa kuzo zombini. Kumntu othile, isondo somntu wesilwanyana unesidingo, kwabanye - kungekhona. Kwakhona kunye nobude bexesha lokuqala, ubude besenzo sesondo. Ngendlela, ukuba ukhangele iifoto ezingenanto ngenxa yokutshintsha indawo, kodwa ezihlukahlukeneyo kunye nesinqwenela - oku kuya kuba yinto eninzi ukuba ayiyona into evamile.