Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bahlupheka ngenxa yokuba baziva ngathi abayithandi mntu, okanye ukuba bonke abantu abajikelezileyo abazithandayo. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba intombi ithanda insizwa, kodwa ayikwazi ukudibana nayo. Kutheni le nto yenzeka kwaye yintoni ekhuthaza abafazi xa begqiba ukuba abanakukwazi ukukhawulelana nomntu othile oselula?
Monsters Krasavetsi
Kwenzeka ukuba isizathu sale migaqo kukuba ukungabi nokholo nentembeko. Ekhangela umfana omhle, emva kwayo izihlwele ezithandekayo, intombazana ayikwazi ukukholelwa ukuba yena, imvumba eyisiqhwaba, ayifani ngokugqithiseleyo ngobuhle, unokuthanda umntu ontle. Kule meko, nangona loo mfana ngokwakhe efika kuye kwaye unika ithuba lokuzilana naye, skoreevsego, intombazana enqabe. Inyaniso kukuba ngelinye ixesha, ngaphezu kwababameli abanobufana obufanelekileyo, amaninzi amakhwenkwe ahlekayo kunye nabaxhatshazwayo. Esi simo sengqondo sikhunjulwa kakhulu kwaye sisisigxina kwi-subconscious. Intombazana icinga ukuba akakwazi ukuthanda umntu, ingakumbi umfana omhle onomdla phakathi kwabancinci abatsha.
Intombazana embi (kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kungekhona, intombazana eyayifakwe ngcamango enjalo), inokuqiniseka ukuba inokuhlala ikhetha iibini kwinqanaba labafazi. Umfana omhle uyaziqhelanisa nabangenamahloni ukuthetha kubahlobo abanokuya nabo kwiqela elipholileyo. Akazizixhamli kwiqela elinjalo labasetyhini, kwaye akazange alithathe. Ngako oko, intombazana ibona loo mfana ontle entle. Yaye ukuba ithe yagqiba isigqibo sokumhlangabeza, ngoko kwiimeko ezingamashumi asithoba anesithoba ephuma kwikhulu le ntombazana iya kuthatha le ngqangi kwaye inqwenela ukudlala amaqhinga kuye, uze uhlehle kunye nabahlobo bakhe. Yingakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuba umfana wayengathandanga, la ma ntombazana ayisoloko ayingozi ngokwabo kwaye aqale ukwakha ubudlelwane, kuba ngaphambili babexoshelwa ekuthembekeni kwamadoda.
Ulungile ... kakhulu
Amanye amantombazana akafuni ukwakha ubudlelwane namadoda abathandayo, kuba bakholelwa ukuba banokuphulaphula ubomi babo. Ngendlela, eli candelo labesetyhini lidla ngokuthe tye. Bayazi nje indlela yokuhlalutya ngokuzenzekelayo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo. Abanye abafazi baqonda ukuba umfana onobubele nabo abanakuze baphile. Uya kubandezeleka, abukele indlela atshintsha ngayo kuye, kuba ngumoya onobuqili okanye uchitha lonke ixesha lakhe ukusebenza, njengomsebenzi wakhe ngaphezu kwayo yonke into. La mabhinqa azama ukunika amadoda isizathu sokuthandana, ngenxa yokuba abafuni ukunyaniseka ukuba ngenxa yokuba abafana bayadumala kuwo onke amabhinqa ngangoko. Enyanisweni, loo nto intombazana ngabantu abalungileyo abanokuyithanda, kodwa abafuni ukutshintsha umntu kunye nokwenza izinto ezizenzekelayo. Ngokuqhelekileyo bazibona bebodwa, banqwenela kwaye bangagunyaziswanga, kwaye oku akunakunyamezelwa yindoda. Ngokukodwa ukuba ungumntu omhle nonomusa. Ngenxa yoko, beyazi ukuba abayidalwanga ubomi bentsapho obuqhelekileyo, loo nto intombazana izama ukungabonakali iimvakalelo zabo, ngoko, uThixo akavumelani, kungekhona ukukholisa indoda eselula kwaye ingonakalisi ubomi bakhe. Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba abantu batshintsha uthando lwabo, kuphela umntu ofanelekileyo. Ezi ntombi ziyazi ukuba ukuqinisekiswa okunjalo akunjalo. Ukuthanda kuphela utshintsho kwithuba elithile, kwaye ke umntu uqala ukuziphatha ngendlela efanayo, njengangaphambili. Yaye le ndlela yokuziphatha kunye nendlela yokuphila, ayithandayo, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi kukukholisa abantu abancinci nabanomdla abafuna ukudala intsapho eqhelekileyo kwaye bahlala ecaleni komgcini wendlu, kwaye kungekhona ngobushushu obuqhaqhaqhayo obengazi ukuba uya kwenza ntoni na apho uza kuzisa khona ngomzuzu olandelayo.
I-IdealPrince
Abaninzi bethu banqwenela abantu, kodwa kuphela abanye banamandla okuzivuma. Abantombazana abanjalo, bekhangele umfana obalaseleyo, baqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba beza kunye nomlingiswa, owona mhle, ohlakaniphile, onobubele kunye nomhle. Baqonda ukuba abayithandi umfana, kodwa umfanekiso abenzileyo ngesiseko sakhe. Kwaye ukhangele lo mfanekiso, intombazana ikufumana kulula ukukholelwa ukuba amadoda okwenene ayaphi. Bayeka ukuhlangabezana nomfana ontle, kuba bayaqonda ukuba ukukhwabanisa kunokutshabalalisa kwaye kufike ixesha lokudumala okukhulu. Kwaye akukho nto imfuneko. Bangaba ngabahlobo kunye nenkosana yabo efanelekileyo, kodwa ngelo xesha abavumeli ukuba bawele umgca ngaphaya kwayo yonke into eya kuba yinto eyahlukileyo. Enyanisweni, ngamnye umfazi unomdla kweso sikhulu, ukuze angadanwa ngokupheleleyo kwisiqingatha sabantu. Kodwa abantu abaninzi, bebona iinjongo zabo, nokuba kunjalo, baqulunqa i-etotideal, zama ukuzala ubudlelwane nayo kwaye benze oko bacinga ukuba bakuyo. Ngokwemvelo, amadoda aqala ukuvukela ukuziphatha okunjalo, kwaye ekugqibeleni, udidekile. Abambalwa kuphela abalawula ukuhlala kude neendawo ezikude ukuba bavumeleke ukuba baphile kwihlabathi elikhohlisayo, ngaphandle kokuchaphazela ubomi kunye neengqondo zesikhulu esifanelekileyo, esoloko engafuni ukuba njalo.
Uhluke kakhulu
Ewe, esinye isizathu sokuba abesifazane abafuni ukwakha ubudlelwane nabo bafana nabo babalinganiswa kunye neenjongo ebomini. Intombazana inokuthanda intsha. Ngaphezu koko, unokumthanda, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo bayaqonda ukuba kunye abayi kuhamba kunye, kuba imbono yabo yobomi bentsapho nobomi ngokubanzi zihluke kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, indoda encinci ifuna intsapho efanelekileyo, abantwana, ifuna ukuza kwindlu epholileyo kunye nokuhlala kwindawo yentsapho. Intombazana inomuvo wokuthi akanalo umnqweno wokuba nabantwana, ukupheka, ukuhlamba nokuhlambulula. Ungumuntu odala ofuna ukudala into ethile, ukuhamba, ngokubanzi, ukuba aphile ngendlela ayithandayo. Kule meko, le ntokazi iyaqonda ukuba le ntlezana iya kuba nayo nje intlungu. Mhlawumbi into eyahlukileyo, xa ibhinqa lifuna ukuhlakulela rhoqo, ukufumana into entsha, ukuhamba, ukudala intsapho efanelekileyo, ucinge ngekamva, kunye nomntu omthandayo, unelisekile ngomsebenzi oqhelekileyo, ubomi namhlanje, indlu encinane. bafazi. Yaye ufuna yonke into kwaye iyaqonda ukuba ayikwazi ukuyitshintsha, kuba ihluke kakhulu kwaye ayiyi kuphila loo ntshintsho, iya kulahlekelwa yedwa. Kwaye, kwiimeko ezinjalo, amantombazana enqaba ukuxhamla nabo abathandayo, ukuze lo mthando ungaguquki kunye nentlungu.