Ubomi bentombazana nganye maxa wambi kuza ixesha xa edidekile kumfana kwaye ucinga ukuba akayi kuhlangana nomnye. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo. Nangona kwixesha lokudandatheka kunye nesizungu, kufuneka ukwandise isangqa sakho soqhagamshelwano kunye nabaqhelana nabo. Ukongeza, nganye intombazana kufuneka ibe neefesini zesini esahlukileyo.
Abanye abantu abalungileyo baya kucinga ukuba kuphela abafana abafanele babe ngabokuqala ukuqala ukuqhelana nentombazana. Kodwa ezi zihlandlo zide zidlulileyo, ngoko ngexesha lethu le ntombazana lingakwazi ukuqhelana nomfana wokuqala. Ukongeza, ukudibana nomfana kulula. Into ephambili kukuba ukwazi indawo! Kule ngqaku, siza kukuxelela apho kukulungele ukuba uqhelane nomfana.
Fumana imizwa emitsha!
Umhlobo omtsha uhlala uzisa iimvakalelo ezintsha. Ngoko ke, ukuba ulungele ukuqala ukuqhelana naye, zibeke okokuqala ngokokuziphatha. Kuphela ke uya kufumana umphumo omuhle. Ukuba uyasabela ngokukhawuleza kwinkqubo yokungazi kakuhle kwaye uziqinisekise ukuba awuyi kuphumelela, ngoko yile ndlela eya kuba ngayo. Iindawo apho ungadibana nalo mfana wamaphupha akho, kakhulu! Ngokuqhelekileyo, iintlanganiso ezinjalo zenzeka ngokungalindelekanga kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Ewe, unako ukuhlala uhleli kwaye ungaqondi nto, ukulindele ukuba isikhulu sakho siwele phezu kwakho. Kwaye unokwenza isinyathelo sokuqala ekujoliswe kuyo. Ukuba kukwayikisayo, khawuleza ulahle konke ukwesaba kwakho. Emva koko, awuyi kulahlekelwa nantoni na. Eyona nto ingcono, uza kuba nosana okanye nje umhlobo omhle, xa ungeke uhlangane neminqweno kwaye ungakuphinde ubone kwakhona. Ngoko yenza!
Khangela isahlulo kwindawo efanelekileyo!
Ezinye zezi ndawo zingabonakala zingalindelekanga kuwe, kodwa, nangona kunjalo, ukuthandana kwiindawo ezinjalo kusebenza kakhulu.
YeCawa
Ukujonga kuqala le ndawo kunokubonakala kungavamile kuwe. Emva koko, ayingabantu abaninzi abaye bayityelela icawa, bangabikho abantu abatsha. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ungomnye wabantu abaya ecaweni, kutheni ungazami ukwenza abahlobo apho. Apha awuyi kuhlangana nababi. Apha, njengomthetho, abantu abalungileyo kuphela abaza neenjongo ezilungileyo. Kwaye abantu abanobubele, abanesihawu, abasebenza nzima. Unokubala amaninzi amanzuzo.
Ukuxoxa ngeqela
Ukuba uthanda ukudansa, uye kwidiski. Kulapho awuyi kuba nexesha elihle kwaye ujabule, kodwa unokufumana ngokukhawuleza uqhagamshelana olutsha ngaphandle kokuthintela. Kwimeko enjalo, abantu banokuqhagamshelana noqhagamshelwano. Ukongezelela, abaninzi bafika apho ukudibana. Ngako oko, oku kungenye yezinto ezingekho phantsi kwezinto. Kodwa apha kuyimfuneko ukuba uqaphele. Abantu baseWitty kwiindawo ezinjalo benza abahlobo ngobusuku obubodwa.
Musa ukunxila, ngaphandle koko ubeka umngcipheko ukunika loo nto impawu engalunganga. Ukuba umema umntu kwitafile, kufuneka uvume. Ngoko unokuthetha naye. Kuphela xa uthetha, unokuqonda ukuba ngaba lo mntu ufanelekile nokuba ufuna ukuqhubeka nokuthetha naye.
Amaqela nendawo enkulu yokuzilana nomfana. Ukuba abahlobo bakho babamba iqela elimnandi, ke ungaphoswa kunye nethuba lakho lokufumana umntu. Kwiinkampani ezinkulu, amantombazana kunye namantombazana alungile ekudibanisaneni, ngoko uqala ukuqala ingxoxo. Kwaye umoya uya kwenza ukuba intetho yakho ibe mnandi. Kwaye ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngexesha loqhagamshelwano, unokwenza lula ukuhamba kwaye uqhubeke ujabule ngaphandle kweengxaki.
NeeBhari Icafe
Ezinye imivalo kunye neefestile zidibene nokulwa, abantu ababi nababi abafuna iingxabano. Kodwa azikho zonke iiforishi ezinomoya onjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu bahamba apho ukuze baphumule okanye baphumule kwimihla ngemihla. Ngoko ke, ukuba uqhelane kwindawo enjalo ngeke kusebenze. Kodwa kufuneka uchithe ixesha elincinci ukukhangela umntu ukuba angeniswe. Hlala iiyure ezimbalwa, jonga abaviwa abakhethiweyo bokuthandana. Ukuba loo mntu akaziphathe kakubi, kwaye uyamthanda ngaphandle, zama ukubopha ingxoxo.
Igumbi lokuzivocavoca, igumbi lokubhukuda kunye nezinye
Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi balandela isimo sabo kunye nempilo yabo, ngoko baya kwiindawo zokubhukuda, amachibi okubhukuda kunye nezinto ezinjalo. Ukuba ungowombolo yabantu abanjalo, ngoko unokwazi ukukhangela umntu ukuba adibane kwindawo efanayo. Emva kwakho konke, ngokukhawuleza ube neenjongo ezifanayo kunye nesi sihloko esihle kwingxoxo. Unokumbuza ngobumnene lo mfana ukuba akuncede ngomsebenzi, ukubonisa indlela yokwenza ngayo. Oku kuya kunceda wenze incoko ibe lula. Kwaye emva kokusebenza kanzima, unxibelelwano luyaqhubeka kunye nomoya ongaqhelekanga, umzekelo kwi-cafe, ngaphezu kwendebe yeeyi.
Iindidi ezithandayo
Ukuba uya kwimidanso, yenza imodeli, tyelela iikhogi ezahlukeneyo, ngoko unokuzama ukufumana ipaki apho. Iminqweno eqhelekileyo iya kukunceda ufumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo, kwaye unokudibanisa ngokulula umhlobo.
Iindawo zikawonkewonke
Fumana umfana kwaye umazi apho uthanda khona. Ngokomzekelo, nakweyiphi indawo kawonkewonke: epakini, kwimitha, ekumisekeni, kwisithuthi, kwisitoreji njalo njalo. Into ephambili kukuba yingqiqo kwaye ukwazi ukuqala ingxoxo. Umxholo unokukhetha nayiphi na, nokuba yona nto ibonal - imozulu, iimpahla. Unokuqala ukuqhelana nentlanzi okanye ukuncoma, unokucela into ethile. Ukuba ungenayo ingxaki ekunxibelelweni, ngoko kuya kuba lula ukukwazi. Ukuba unamahloni, ngoko sinokucebisa ukuba ufunde malunga nento yokuqalisa incoko. Kukho amanqaku amanqaku anomdla kwi-intanethi kwesi sihloko. Ndikholelwe, bancedisa amantombazana amaninzi ukuba anqobe izithintelo zokunxibelelana.
Iindawo zokudana
Ndiyabulela kwi-intanethi ungamazi umntu ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya. Namhlanje, kukho indawo ezininzi zokuthandana, apho izigidi zabantu zifumana iziqabane. Ubuncedo bezo ndawo kukuba ungayisebenzisa ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Unokuzikhethela abaviwa. Unokuqhagamshelana nomntu ixesha elide njengoko ufuna ukuqonda ukuba likufanelekile. Ukongeza, kwiprofayili yakho ungabonisa iminqweno, iimpawu zobume, ukubonakala kwendoda ebingathanda ukubazi ngayo. Konke oku kunceda kakhulu xa ukhetha umviwa. Unokufumana lula umntu onentshisekelo efanayo ngale ndlela.
I intanethi
Iintanethi zentlalo zithandwa kuwo wonke umhlaba. Bancedisa abantu bafumane abahlobo abatsha kwaye bahlale bebanxulumana nabahlobo bamandulo. Le yindawo enhle ukudibana nekamva lakho elizayo. Kodwa qaphele kwaye ukhumbule ukuba xa abantu bedibana, abahlali benovuyo njengoko bekhona kwisayithi. Lo ungomnye umntu ongaqhelekanga kwi-intanethi.
Ukuhamba
Uthando u kuhamba? Emva koko ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokufumana umfana ngexesha lohambo olulandelayo. Akunandaba nokuba uya kuphi - kwenye idolophu okanye kwelinye ilizwe. Ngasondelene nawe, kukho umntu onokungazi naye kwaye ufumane kuye isiqingatha sesibini. Mhlawumbi uya kuhlala nawe ngebhasi, isitimela okanye indiza. Okanye mhlawumbi uya kudibana naye kwi-excursion okanye xa uhamba nge-paddock. Into ephambili, jonga kokubili kwaye ungaphuthelwa yithuba lakho, ungadabuki. Musa ukwesaba ukujwayelana ngale ndlela, kuba abantu abathanda ukuhamba, banqwenela ukwenza ulwazi olutsha. Ngako oko, amathuba okuhluleka awancinci.