Ngomntu, ishishini okanye ingcamango, unokuthi ungene kumthandane, ngaphambi kokungcola, okuphelisa inkulungwane "Ndiyakuthanda" okanye nje ngexesha. Kodwa ngamanye amava uvakalelwa sisifo, kunye neeplantshi ngaphakathi esiswini - zibe yiidonons zangempela.
Nqabile nantoni naUlungele ukumxelela ukuba "thanda" amawaka amabini amaxesha ngomzuzu uze ukhohlwe malunga nekhonsathi yebhanki yakho oyintandokazi, ukuze uyenze itiye yokuhlwa. Njalo ekuseni ufunda i-SMS yakhe, ngoku kwaye ufa ngokucinga ukuba kuphela ukufa kuya kukuhlukanisa. Isinyathelo sakhe sokunene okanye ukujonga ngakwesobunxele siyahlawuliswa ngumthamo wemilomo, kuba ungowakho kwaye ngowakho. Okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uyamthanda ngokwaneleyo ukuba uvumele ukuba uhambe ngokude uthanda. Yaye ukuba ngelinye ilanga umfana akayi kubuya? Yiyo imeko xa uthando oluqinileyo luyingozi kwintsebenziswano yakho.
Ukuwa ngenxa yothando
Ukuba olo luthando lukufumene ekuqaleni kwendibano kwaye luya kulungelelanisa, ungalwi - lunwabele, njengoko kungekudala uza kuphelisa ulwalamano oluqinileyo, olunzulu.
Kodwa ukuba ulungele ukususa bonke oonxibelelwano kwifowuni ngaphandle kwakhe, kunye nomntu wonke ngoku kwaye wenza izizathu zokuchitha enye ihlwempu ngaphandle kwakho, - cinga. Ukubonisa umntu onokuzilibazisa, abahlobo, amaphupha kunye nezicwangciso ezizimeleyo ngeveki, uqinisa uluthando kuphela - luya kuba lube nomoya.
Kodwa wena-ngakumbi!
Ungumnqweno wesikolo (nokuba unobungqina abathathu), ungumkhangeli, uya kuthiwa wazi ngaphezu kweCoco Chanel (nangona ungenzi nantoni na loo nto) kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ufanelwe "i-Miss Charm yeXesha leMinyaka". Okanye uchithelwa uthando ngentsapho, okanye wena, ngokuchaseneyo, unesiphako esibi, kodwa umphumo ungaphakathi kuyo yonke into: inqabileyo yothando lwakho uthando lomfanekiso wakho.
Ukuwa ngenxa yothando
Ngaphandle kokuzithandana, umntu akayi kukulwela induduzo, impilo kunye nenhlalakahle, inkqubela phambili iya kumisa, kwaye ngokubanzi ihlabathi liyayeka ukubola. Ukongeza, abantu abanokuzithemba abazi ukuba bafanele, abantu abanothando. Kodwa xa uthando lwakho lukuvimbela ukuba uthande omnye umntu, phuthuma lo thando kwabanye ngabanye.
Ukwamkela iinkwenkwezi
Mhlawumbi uyamhlonela isikolo esiphambili, odlala i-vyinosheskoy ilague, okanye umzala womhlobo onobumba obude. Oqhelekileyo - awunanto into efanayo, akwaziyo ngawe, kwaye ukuba wenzayo, ukhumbula kuphela kule mizuzwana eyishumi xa ebona ubuso bakho. Kwaye ubeka imifanekiso phakathi kwesithombe sakhe eludongeni kunye nothando, kwaye uzithabathe ngamaphupha "ngelinye ilanga uya kuqonda yonke into."
Ukuwa ngenxa yothando
Uthando-uthando lomntu ophumelele ngakumbi kunokuba unako ukuvuselela iitalente nokukhuthaza into enkulu. Cinga ngento oyithandayo inkwenkwezi: ukubukeka, italenta, okanye nje ngokuba inkwenkwezi? Ukuba u-obnesnost, hlalutya uhlobo oluthandayo, kwaye uqaphele ukuba izitalato zihamba nenani elikhulu lamadoda aselula angabangela ukuba nomdla ongenamandla.
Ukuba uhamba ngetalente yakhe, cinga ukuba uya kulungile ngomso kusasa ukusuka ekhaya uze udibane naye. Ngaba unento yokuthetha ngayo? Amawaka anomdla kumntu wakhe oyingqayizivele, kwaye akayi kubhalwa i-fanatskimyahami? Indlela efanelekileyo yokufikelela kwenkwenkwezi kukuba yinkwenkwezi wena, abahlobo bakho, abahlobo okanye ihlabathi lonke, oko kukuthi, eyaziwayo ebomini bakho.
Ndiyindoda enomdla kwaye ndiya kuzingca.
Mhlawumbi uyazi ibinzana: "Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zabantu: abo bajikeleza ihlabathi, kunye nabo bahamba kunye kunye bememeza bathi:" Leli lizwe lihamba phi? "
Kuyancomeka ukuba uyaziphathela okokuqala kwaye ulungele ukucwangcisa ulondolozo lwakho loxolo kude kwaye, kude kube lula. Kodwa ayikayiyo ekupheleni kohambo yedwa? Ukuba, ngenxa yokufunda kunye neenjongo zamakhondo, wenqaba ukuya kuma-movie uze uyakhohlwa malunga nemini yokuzalwa yabangani bakho, abahlobo baya kulubala ngokukhawuleza ukuba uyazi ukuzihlaziya. Kwaye ke abayi kufumana ixesha lokuba wena - njengokuba ukhona kuzo.
Ukuwa ngenxa yothando
Musa ukulibala ukuba ukuphuphuma emsebenzini kukunceda kuphela. Sum ishintshana umsebenzi kunye nokuphumla, uya kuba yimilo kwaye uza kuba nexesha elininzi, njengoko uya ku libala malunga nokusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuxinezeleka kunye nezinye iintloko zeentloko.
Kutheni abantu abangenazo iintaka?
Awuboni ikhowudi yokugqoka, imithetho yeendlela kunye nomgaqo wobuhlobo. Unokuqhubela kwelinye idolophu ngaphandle kokuxelela abazali bakho nokulibala ukuthabatha udade wakho omncinane kwisikolo somculo. Ukwaphula ulwalamano, ngokukhawuleza ukuba i-MCH ibe namandla kakhulu. Awukwazi ukuthembisa nantoni na kwaye awusoze wathwala uxanduva lwakho, ngenxa yokuba ulandela umoya kuphela, ukuhamba kwempilo, zakho iiminqweno-nini. Uninzi lwawo wonke uluthandayo inkululeko kunye ngenxa yokuba ungakwazi ukunikela ngamabhonkco angapheliyo kuphela, kodwa kunye nezinye iimvakalelo zabantu.
Ukuwa ngenxa yothando
Udibanisa inkululeko kunye nombhikisho. Ubunwele obuhlaza, ukunyaniseka, ukungabikho kwamanye amazwe, iintlanga ezingenamntu nabantu abangaqhelekanga kunye neengqondo zokungathobeli akuyiyo inkululeko, kodwa inzentombazana encinane efuna ukufakazela ukuba sele ikhulile. Okanye umnqweno wokubalekela ekuxhaseni ubomi kwaye uzive i heroine yefilimu, engabakhathaleli. Kwaye oku kuyimvelaphi yokuxabana kunye nezinye iingxaki, ezingabonakali kakhulu. Unokuzikhulula ngokwenene, kuphela xa ukhula. Thatha uxanduva, inhlonipho kunye neemvakalelo zabanye, uxhase izihlobo zakho, uthathe ubomi ngokubalulekileyo. Emva koko inkululeko ayinakuchaphazeleka.
Yintoni enye oyithandayo kwaye kutheni le nto isongelayo?
Donuts. Loo mvakalelo usongela umhla wesibini-sgastroenterologom kunye nesondlo sokutya. Ngoko kwathiwa: siyamthanda abantu ababi kunye nayo yonke into, xa bevela kwiinqwelo ezilula unokwakha into enhle kakhulu, intanda.
Ukunceda. Ngaba abantu abazungezile bakhumbula kuphela xa bafuna into? Zihloniphe, wazi indlela yokwenqaba - abanye baya kubona ukuba awuyena nje into ye-botanist kunye nokuthambekela kukaMama Theresa, kodwa intombazana enomdla onomlingiswa.
Funda. Ukuze ufunde kwaye usebenze unobomi bonke, kunye nomsebenzi wokusebenza ... Kodwa masingathethi ngezinto ezibuhlungu.
Umama. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqonde ukuba baye bakhula bengathobeli idonki, enokuyilahla ukuzonwabisa kwakho, kodwa ubuntu obaneleyo. Oku akukuthinteli ekuphulaphuleni izizalwane kwizinto ezibalulekileyo kwaye ube yintombi eyisibonelo.
I khomputha. Udla iintsuku zakho, ubusuku nobushushu, kodwa unikezela ngokuncinci. Kungcono ukuhlala kulo mlindo ngokumkela ngokuthandayo okanye ukulungiselela ikhekhe kubalingana nabo. Abo bangaphesheya kwesikrini.
Iileta kunye nebhere le-teddy. Ukuxhomekeka (ukusuka kwiingcambu zexesha elidlulileyo yinto engathandekiyo - ungaguqukela kwi-Glyol's Plyushkin, kuphela umva weemvakalelo.) Kufuneka uhambe phambili.
Amaqela. Unyaka omtsha kunye "wokuzalwa" -pholile! Kodwa wena, kwi-cocktail frenzy yeenkampani, uzama ukulibala malunga neengxaki, umqobo ...
Ngesondo. Ukhuseleke akusongeli nto. Ewe, kuphela xa ungacingi ukuba ukusondeleka komzimba yinjinjini enkulu yolwalamano kwaye awukhethi abafana, njengowomlawuli wokugxotha kwimiboniso yefashoni, ukulibala malunga nokuba umphefumlo uyakuthanda akuyona nto imnandi.
Ubuhle. Ukuzijonga, iimpahla zakho, igumbi kunye neeplanethi zilungile, ukuba ayikuguqulanga ube ngumthwalo obalulekileyo, kunye nokugubungela phantsi kolawulo oluqinileyo.
Ukuthanda. Kungcono ukufa ngenxa yothando kunokuhlala ngaphandle kwayo, ukuthetha okukhulu. Kodwa kuphela abazange bathethe ngokuthe ngqo uthando lomtshatsheli kwintlungu, apho ubomi bobabili kunye nomnye oyithandayo akuba kuhle. Emva kwakho konke, ngenxa yothando lwenene ufuna ukukhupha ihlabathi lonke!