Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabo basebenzisana nabo. Emva koko, sifuna ukusebenza kummandla onobumnandi, ndifuna ukuza kwindawo yokusebenzela kwaye ndisebenze phakathi kwabaqeqeshi abakulungele ukukunceda.
Ubudlelwane emsebenzini phakathi koogxa
Xa ubudlelwane kunye nabalingane babo bakha ngokusemthethweni, umsebenzi uba yintlanzi, apho wonke umntu ezama ukuphazamisa ubomi bokuzibandakanya kunye nokuziphatha okubi. Kukho iinkampani ezingaphakathi kwakha umoya wobungane. Kodwa kaninzi oku kuvela kukungabonakali. Kukho umzabalazo phakathi kwamagosa kunye nabalawuli, apho kungekho mntu olahlekileyo kunye nolahlekileyo.
Awukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingqungquthela kunye nempikiswano kwaye ube ngumntu ozolile ngokumvelo, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba bonke abantu abajikelezile nabo bayazibandakanya. Kunzima ukusebenza kule miqathango ukuba wonke umntu ufuna ukutsala ingubo phezu kwakhe.
Indlela yokuqhuba kunye nabalingane kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabo osebenza nabo?
Kufuneka uqikelele ngombono woqoqo, ngokuba unengxenye yale ndawo. Ufanele ube nombono wakho, kodwa kufuneka uphulaphule umlingane wakho uze uzame ukumqonda.
Zama ukuba nobuhlobo, ukuphazamiseka, ukuthinteka. Akusoloko kunzima ukwakha ubudlelwane emsebenzini, kwaye awukwazi ukuba kusasa umntu ocinga ngayo umhlobo kwaye ubuhlobo bakho buya kufika ekupheleni. Iqela kuzo zonke iinkcukacha ziya kufumana malunga nobomi bakho, ukusuka kumntu onomdla owamnene naye.
Yiba nguwe. Ukunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka, ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho, umntu onobani.
Musa ukuwuthatha wonke umsebenzi kumagxa akho kwaye ungahambi lonke ixesha lokunciphisa, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela impumelelo enkulu emsebenzini. Iingcali zeengqondo zeNtshona zafika kwesi sigqibo, ukuba umntu wenza konke ngenxa yabanye, uyazikhupha iimfuno zakhe.
Ukuba iqela labantu liyakunqumla ukuhleka ngawe, musa ukuthatha amagama kunye nalo mntu. Ungakhathazeki ngabantu abangakuthandiyo. Yiba ngabahlobo uze uxhumane nabantu abakuxabisayo kunye nobungane bakho.
Ungubani na?
Abantu abaninzi basebenza eofisi. Akunakwenzeka ukulungisa enye, ihlala isebenza kuwe. Zininzi iintlobo zabasebenzi, zenza "ingxaki" kwiqela. Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uzifumene ngokwakho, kufuneka uphulaphule icebiso.
Ezinzima
Intombazana ilungile, kodwa i-alarmist. Ngethuba lakhe elimnyama kunye nokwesaba, akavumeli ukuba oogxa bakhe basebenze: "Asiyi kukwazi ukudlula umsebenzi ngexesha." Ukugxeka okugqithisileyo kuyonakalisa isimo sakhe sengqondo kunye nokwandisa ukwesaba kwiqela.
Icebiso: funda ukubamba. Akuyimfuneko ukubonakalisa ukwesaba kwakho ngokuvakalayo. Kungcono ukwakha umsebenzi ukuze kungabikho isizathu sokukhathazeka kwaye akukho misebenzi.
Thembeka
Oogqithana nabo bahlala bethetha ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ingxaki. Enyanisweni, basebenzisa oku kwaye ngezinye izihlandlo bazame ukudubula umsebenzi wakhe. Iqoqo libhekiselele kulo lihlazo, nangona lisebenza kakhulu.
KwiBhunga. Abantu abangenazo iingxaki kufuneka bahlule phakathi apho iimbopheleleko zakho ziphela kwaye iingxaki zabanye ziqala. Ziqhelise ngokuthi "cha."
Uncedo
Ngaloo bantu bathi izandla zabo azikhulumi ukusuka kuloo ndawo. Nokuba ikhomishini elula iphenduka into enzima. Intombazana rhoqo "ibhaqa" osebenza nabo, ibuza imibuzo, indlela yokwenza ngayo.
Icebiso: umntwana akayi kuhamba yedwa, ukuba ugcine ingubo yomama ngexesha lonke.
I-Aching
Ukuba uvela emngceleni, wonke umntu uphoswa ngomsebenzi. Ngoku incoko iya kuqala, ukuba yonke into imbi, ukuba yonke into iyalimaza. Kancinci, oogxa baqonda ukuba ukuthetha ngokugqithiseleyo nentombazana ngokuqhelekileyo akayi kuthetha naye.
KwiBhunga. Musa ukuziva uhlwempu uLisa, musa ukuxoxa ngeengxaki zakho kunye nempilo emsebenzini. Oku kuya kunceda ukugcina ubudlelwane obuqhelekileyo kunye nabalingane.
Yiba nobungane, ungavumeli ubuhlobo obusondeleyo. Ukulawula iimvakalelo. Ulwalamano lufanele lube luchanekileyo lwezoshishino. Musa ukulibala malunga nokuhlonipha nokuthembeka. Ungazami ukuzwakala ngcono ngaphezu kwakho.