Ukuqonda umfazi weshishini elizayo kusenokwenzeka esikolweni: yinto intombazana enakho, kodwa, ngokutsho kootitshala, ngamanye amaxesha kunye neendlela zokukhohlisa. Kodwa enyanisweni, uvele nje ebhikisha ngokukrakra kwesikolo, ukulungela inkululeko yakhe, ngelixa efuna ulwazi namandla. Ngokuqhelekileyo uziphatha njengenkwenkwe, kuba sele esele ekhulile ixinzeleleke ngokwemfuno yezo zesini zesini.
Uyamfakazela ilungelo lokuba ngumntwana olungileyo, njengoko kudla ngokufunekayo esikolweni ngamantombazana. Kwaye kulula ukufunda kuye, nangona ngamanye amaxesha akafundanga izifundo.
Ubunzima bokuqala buvela kwiziko. Ngokuqhelekileyo ikomiti yokwamkelwa isenzo, njengoko besithi, ngesiseko sobulili: amantombazana anikwa okukhethwa kukho ezimbalwa kwiimviwo kunamakhwenkwe. Njengomnye uprofesa omdala wathi, "kutheni uchithe ixesha kwiidoda? Baya kutshata namadoda asisityebi emva kokuphela, abayi kusebenza, baya kuthatha indlu kunye nabantwana. ". Hayi, le ngongoma yembono yabaninzi bezemfundo ephakamileyo, ngokukodwa abaxhasi babo. Kodwa ibhinqa lenkampani yexesha elizayo ayiyi kulukhawulela kuye kwi-diapers kunye nokutya! Nangona kunjalo, ootitshala abanako ukuqinisekiswa, ngoko ngoko intombazana ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kunzima ukungena kwisiko kunomfana oselula. Ngokukodwa apho kukho amancinci amadoda amancinci okanye apho okukhethiweyo kuqala kuthiwa "yindoda". Kwaye ukuba loo nto intombazana isaphula kwaye isebenze, ke umntu unokuqiniseka ukuba: ngamandla akhe engqondo, uphezulu kakhulu kunabo bafana abasamkela naye. Ngexesha lexesha lomfundi, umfazi weshishini uqala ukuzibonela ngokuzimela kwemali.
I-scholarship ayisoloko iphakanyisiwe, kodwa eyona nto ibonakalayo (kuba amabakala akhe ayibonakali izinga lokwenene lolwazi), kodwa yenza malunga naso sonke ixesha kwizifundo zakhe. Ukongezelela, lukhokelela kwimpilo yoluntu. Ukongeza kwinto yokuba unako ukuphakama kweengqondo, unamandla kwaye unamandla, uzama ukuchitha le mandla kungekhona emininzi, kodwa ukufezekisa into ethile ebomini. Ngokukodwa, ngelixa eqhuba kwimisebenzi yentlalo, ubeka isiseko somsebenzi wakhe kwaye unelisa umnqweno wakhe wamandla. Kwixesha langaphambili, loo ntombazana yaba yienkokheli zeKomsomol, ngoku ziqala ukuqhubela ishishini kunye nebhenki labafundi.
Abasetyhini abanelutsha olujoliswe kumsebenzi ngokuqhelekileyo abanalo ixesha lokufumana intsapho. Ngokuqinisekileyo baya kwiinjongo ezijoliswe kuyo - usihlalo wongameli. Abacingi ngentsapho, bayilungisa ixesha elizayo. Baqala ukucinga kufuphi no-30, ukufumana isikhundla. Ukususela ekufezekiseni le ndawo babefanele benze eminye imizamo engqondweni nangokwemigomo kunabantu, ngoko ke kule nqanaba bajikelezwe ngabantu abacinga ukuba abafazi abafanelekanga kubo. La mabhinqa afuna ukubona emva komntu oqinileyo, ophumelelayo, kodwa nje amadoda afanele afune ukubonwa kwintombi yesisa nobuthathaka.
Ibhinqa lebhinqa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngumntu oqaqambileyo, ungumfazi, ongekhohlakele kwaye engabonakaliyo, engqondweni nangokwenyama, wenza izigqibo ngokwayo, kodwa uthabatha ngokufanelekileyo imimoya yabanye; akuqhelekanga ukugcinwa kwabancinci. Ukulungele ukuthatha ingozi, injongo, ukuzithemba, ukuphendula ngokwaneleyo ukugxeka, ukuthetha kunye nokuthuka. Uyakwazi ukutshintsha ngokukhawuleza kwindima yentlalo ("inkokeli, umfazi, umfazi"), "unentombi, unina, umfazi"), uyathemba ekuqondeni, inkxaso kunye noncedo kumyeni wakhe nabantwana. "Ukunyuka kwempumelelo yenkampani yaba yinkampani enzima kwaye engaqinisekanga. ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale lizibonakalisa lona kunye nabanye ukuba libandakanyeka kwishishini layo. Zonke izibini zeengxaki zeentlanzi zowesifazane weshishini zivela ekugqityeni kwendima yabo njengenkokheli emsebenzini kunye nomenzi wekhaya.
Kodwa lona wesifazane unamathuba amaninzi, eqonda ukuba yintoni, unokuba yinkokeli ephumelelayo. Inkokheli inkokheli inengqondo ephilileyo yoluntu, iyayikhathalela kakhulu imiba yobundlelwane, kubandakanya isimo sengqondo sayo. Uyakwazi ukuvavanya nokuqikelela ukuziphatha kwabanye abantu. Ewe, ngaphezu kwamadoda, kukho ingozi yokuqhubeka malunga neemvakalelo zabo. Kwaye ukunyaniseka kunye nobunkokeli zizinto ezingahambelaniyo. Ibhinqa inxulumana ngakumbi kunye nokucinga okucwangcisekileyo. Ukuba umntu uzimisele ukwenza izicwangciso zexesha elide, ukubala kwixesha elide, ngoko ke umfazi ukhetha umphumo oqinisekileyo, "ngoku kwaye." Ibhinqa lingcono kunomntu ukulawula iimpazamo zakhe kunye nabanye abantu; yena, ngokomthetho, ulungelelanisa zakhe iingcamango aze abonise iingcamango. Kuphawulwe ukuba kungaphantsi kwamadoda asabela ekuthandaneni kunye nezobango zesondo kwiintsebenziswano zoshishino. Ukwahlula ngokucacileyo phakathi kwezoshishino kunye nokuzonwabisa.