Kwintombi kunye nendoda, umsebenzi udlala indima eyahlukileyo. Nangona ukulingana kwezesondo kunye nokukhululwa, umnqweno wabasetyhini ukubandakanyeka ngokusisigxina kwimisebenzi yobomi boqobo ngokwenene kwimida yaseNtshona. E-Rashiya, ininzi yeenkosana ngamadoda, umsebenzi wabo uxabiswa ngaphezu kwezabasebenzi kwindawo efanayo yabasetyhini. Ngako oko, ingxaki enjengoba besithandana nabasetyhini kwindawo yokusebenzela baya kunyangwa ngokuhlukileyo.
Ibhinqa lenza umdlalo
Kwimizuzu yokuqala yokunxibelelana, amantombazana abelana ngothando nomntu wonke, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhangele okanye akayi. Oku kwenziwa ukuqonda ukuba ngaba lo mntu unelungelo lokunakwa. Kwaye emva kwexeshana, abafazi banquma isigqibo somntu okhangela. Wonke umfazi uyazi ukuba ukhangela umdla. Kodwa akubona bonke abantu baqonda ezi zinto. Njengoko abaphandi bakholelwa ukuba, ukudlala ngothando, abafazi bachitha ixesha, kwaye abo bathandekayo bahlala bengenamdla kwiimpawu zabo zengqalelo.
IYunivesithi yase-Indiana yenza uvavanyo lwabathathi-nxaxheba abangama-300 (abesilisa nabesifazane) basasazwa iifoto zamadoda nabasetyhini. Ngokuxhomekeke kwimifanekiso kwimifanekiso, kwakudingeka ukusabalalisa imifanekiso kumaqela ama-3 - okudabukisayo, onomdla, obunomdla. Amadoda ahlala edideka ubungane kunye nothando. Abafazi bavame ukudibanisa ukuziphatha kwabo kunye namadoda, kwaye yonke into yokudlala ngothando ichithekile. Kodwa kukho ukungafani, amanye amadoda anesakhono ekufundeni le miqondiso.
Kukho imiqondiso yendalo yonke, banike umfazi othandweni. Ukuba wenza umntu unconywe, ngoko uphumelele impumelelo ethile. Ngokuqhelekileyo ubiza umntu ngegama, naye ubonisa umdla wakhe. Ukuba ngethuba lentetho, uthinta indoda, ngoko oku kubonisa ukuba le ndoda imnandi kumfazi.
Nangona kukho iziphumo ezidakisayo, uphando luye lwabonisa ukuba akudingeki ukuyeka ukudlala nomntu oyithandayo. Ukudlala ngothando kunemiphumo emihle kwimveliso yomsebenzi. Bachaza ukuba kwiincwadi zesaqhwithi eziphazamisayo aziphazamisi nesizathu, kodwa zenza igalelo kumsebenzi omkhulu. Isiqingatha sabantu abadliwano-ndlebe bathetha ukuba ukubonga kwabo kwintsebenzo, basebenza ngokusebenzayo. Abantu abayisishiyagalombili kwabayishumi bavuma ukuba basondelelene kunye nabo basebenzisana nabo ngenxa yeli xesha liphindwe kabili.