Yintoni omele uyiqonde kakuhle indlela eya kwinkokheli? Ungasondela njani kwinjongo yakho? Yintoni eya kuba yingcebiso yesazi sengqondo kwintlalo yophuhliso? Umgangatho wokuqala oyintloko uza kuba yingqiqo. Ukuphuhlisa i-erudition yakho, ulwazi, fumana imfundo efanelekileyo, ukuze uqonde ubuncinane bezinto ezininzi kwaye ube yingcali kwishishini lakho. Emva koko, umntu ongayaziyo okukhethiweyo uya kutshabalalisa emsebenzini wakhe kwaye akayi kukwazi ukunqoba intlonelo yabantu abaninzi, kodwa ube ngumntu ofundayo. Funda kwabanye, njalo ubeke into entsha. Akumangalisi ukuba bathi ukufundisa kulula. Ukuzikhusela yinto ebalulekileyo phakathi kweempawu zobunkokeli. Kulo lonke ubomi kufuneka sihlakulele kwaye siphucule kuzo zonke iindawo.
Enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo kwindlela eya kwinkokeli iya kuba yintlonelo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuzithoba, ezinye iingxaki zihambelana nawe-iya kwesazi sengqondo, uzihlole, ulungise lo mbuzo. Umntu onesidima esincinci kunzima kakhulu ukuba aphule kwiinqununu aze aphuhlise iimpawu zobunkokheli. Kufuneka uzifunde kakuhle, yazi ingqondo yakho kunye nekhono, uhlolisise ubuthathaka bakho kwaye uhlalutye kakuhle, mhlawumbi uya kufumana indlela yokubalahla.
Ukuqhagamshelana ngenye yezikhundla ezikhokelayo. Kufuneka iphuhliswe kakuhle kwaye iveliswe kwinqanaba elitsha, kuba liyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobunkokeli. Ukuzilolonga ekunxibelelaneni nabantu, yenza abahlobo abatsha, bahlobo-bahlala besidinga. Funda iincwadi ezikhethekileyo, kwaye, ngokubalulekayo, unqobe konke ukwesaba, ungesabi, ungabi neentloni zokuthetha nabantu abatsha, zithembele. Ziqhelise ngakumbi kule nto, kwaye uya kubona ukuba kungekudala akuyi kubakho uloyiko loloyiko. Ukuzibandakanya nakho kukukwazi ukuthetha ngokuchanekileyo, ukubonisa iingcamango zakho kakuhle. Ukufunda iindlela ezongezelelweyo zonxibelelwano, zama ukubeka abantu. Into ephambili ngumnqweno nokholo, ngoko uya kuphumelela.
Ingongoma ebalulekileyo yinto yokuzithemba kunye namandla akho. Kwakhona kwenzeka ukuba umntu uphelele ngokuzithemba, unako ukukwazi kwaye akanamahloni, kodwa akanakho ukuzithemba ngokwaneleyo. Oku kuphazamisa kakhulu ukuphuhliswa kweempawu zobunkokeli, ngoko ke, kungcono ukunqoba iimeko ezinjalo. Ukuba sele usuzimisele ukuba yinkokeli, phumeza injongo yakho - ukulahla nayiphi na isoyiko kwaye ufumane ukuzithemba, kuba ngaphandle kwalowo mgangatho akunakwenzeka ukucinga naliphi na inkokeli. Ngokukodwa kwengqondo, kubonakala ukuba indlela oziphatha ngayo, indlela ozibonisa ngayo, ngoko abantu baya kukubona. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile, hlala uvumelane ngokuthe ngqo kunye nawe, qiniseka kwaye uyazixabisa - abanye baya kukuziva kwaye baya kukuphatha njengoko wenzayo.
Elinye icebiso elibalulekileyo - zithembe wena kwaye ungesabi ukwenza iimpazamo, kuba iimpazamo zenza konke, kwaye ufunda nje. Zama, ungayeki endleleni yakho, sebenzisa ukunyamezela kwakho.
Hlonipha amandla okuthanda kunye namandla okuziphatha. Ukunika amandla yinto ebonakalayo kwaye kulula kakhulu ukusebenza. Into eyona nto kukunyaniseka kunye noqinileyo kunye nawe, ungakhathazeki ngamaqhinga kwaye ungavumeli ubunzima. Iintlekele zenzeka kuwo wonke umntu, kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, zifunde ukuhlangabezana nazo.
Ukuba awufumani into oyifunayo - into ephambili, ungadikibali kwaye uqhubeke uzama, kuba ngoko uya kuphuma. Ukunyamekela, ukunyamezela, ukunyamezela nokunyamezela kufuneka kube enye yeempawu zakho eziphambili. Siyazi ezininzi kunye nezigidi zeemeko xa ekuqaleni umntu engakwazi ukufumana nantoni na, kodwa uyaqhubeka esebenza, uyaqhubeka kwaye akalahlekelwa lukholo - konke kwenzeka, njengoko wayefuna. Musa ukulenga impumlo yakho, ungagcini izandla zakho, ukholelwa kwimpumelelo yakho. Ukuphela kokunqoba ubunzima obuninzi, umntu unokufumana inkokheli kuye. Bafundisa kuphela kunye nomsindo.
Inkokeli ngumntu olawula iingcinga zakhe nezenzo zakhe. Kumelwe uwazi kwangaphambili malunga neempawu zakho ezintle nezimbi. Oku kuya kukunceda uvavanyo, ingqondo yengqondo, intsapho, i-psychoanalysis, kunye neembono zabahlobo nabahlobo abahlukeneyo. Hlanganisa ulwazi olubalulekileyo malunga nawe, zama ukuqonda. Kubalulekile, iimpawu ezintle zigxininisa, kwaye uzame ukuphelisa ababi okanye uzame ukunciphisa. Lawula ukuziphatha kwakho, zilawule kunye nobomi bakho, zenzele iinjongo ezicacileyo, iphupha elilindelekileyo uze ulifeze ngamandla akho onke. Ukubeka ingqalelo yakho kunye nezakhono ngendlela efanelekileyo, kwaye ke umsebenzi wakho uya kuba yinto eyakhayo ngakumbi.
Yintoni eya kuba yingcebiso yesazi sengqondo kwintlalo yophuhliso? Zonke ezi ngasentla, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ziya kukunceda, kwaye sele sele isithembiso esiphezulu sokuphumelela. Kodwa inkokheli yezobukhokeli inomsebenzi onamandla kakhulu onokukhawulezisa inkqubo kwaye ikuncede ngazo zonke iindlela-ikholo. Ungalokothi ulahlekelwe ithemba, ungagxininiswa kwisifiso sobukhokeli kunye namandla, kodwa hlakulela zonke iimpawu zokuziphatha kunye nezici ezintle zomntu umntu adinga. Ukusebenza ngokwakho kusoloko kusebenza nzima, kodwa uya kubona ukuba kuzisa umphumo omhle kakhulu. Sebenza ngentshiseko yakho nolwazi, phucula imbonakalo yakho - kwaye ngelo xesha uya kuvuya kakhulu ukwazi wena kwaye ube ngcono. Ukuba awuphumelelanga ekubeni yinkokeli enkulu, ungaphelelwa yithemba, ebomini wonk 'ubani unendawo yakhe ebalulekileyo ebomini, kwaye ukuphucula ngokwayo yinyathelo elikhulu kakhulu kwixesha elizayo.