Ngaliphi ixesha lonyaka, ubomi bemihla ngemihla bufuna ukuhlaziywa ngeentlanganiso ezimnandi, amaqela, amaqela. Kwenzeke ukuba kwilizwe lethu kungokwesiko ukulungiselela ukuzonwabisa kuphela ngesizathu esithile. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke into, umnqweno wokuphumla emva komsebenzi weveki, ukuguqula imeko, ukuguqula unako ukuphunyezwa ngempumelelo ngokwenene. Kwaye ndimele ndithi kulo mbandela zonke iindlela zilungile. Into ephambili kukuba abanye "ababethi" kakhulu ephaketheni, impilo kunye nodumo.
Namhlanje, ukongeza kwimidlo yeentsapho eziqhelekileyo kwiintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuzonwabisa. Omnye uza kuya kwiklabhu, i-cafe, ivenkile, i-bowling, ibhola lebhola, i-hockey, ibhola yepende kunye nokunye. Kwaye abanye, ngendlela endala, banquma ukulungiselela intlanganiso kwindlu okanye, njengendlela yokukhetha, kwindlu yelizwe, kweli lizwe. Kubalulekile ukwenza okokuqala kwaye kumnandi. Ngamhlanje, iintlanganiso ezilungiselelwe kwimihlaba yazo zibizwa ngamaqela asekhaya.
Ukuze uvuyo olukhulu, ngoku lufakela imfesane ukuhlela iiholide kungekho ngokomzekelo wemithendeleko emnandi, apho iindwendwe zinikezelwa ubuninzi beenkqubo zokuzonwabisa. Abantu abaninzi ngakumbi, ngakumbi abantu abaselula, bacinga ngokucokisekileyo kwaye bahlele ixesha lokuzonwabisa. Iholide kwindlela yamaSoviet ingaba yinto enomdla kakhulu yokubhiyozela umhlangano okanye intlanganiso eqhelekileyo kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo kubantu besizukulwana.
Ungayilungiselela njani iqela lasekhaya? Okokuqala udinga ukumema iindwendwe. Umyalelo wokuqala wohlwaya olungileyo yinkampani enhle. Kwiqela lekhaya, abo bafumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye neengqungquthela, ngubani ongonwabileyo kwaye athathe inxaxheba kwimicimbi, ongakwazi ukuphazamisa indlela yokuzonwabisa, kufuneka abe khona. Ukuba kukho ukungathandabuzeki ngomntu, kungcono ukummema lo mntu, kuba uqeqesho luya kuthatha ixesha elininzi kwaye luya kufuna imikhosi emininzi ongayifuni ukuyichitha nabani na. Ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka wenze amathikithi amakhati, okuya kubonisa ixesha lomcimbi, indawo, iimfuno ezinokwenzeka.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ubusuku bodwa, ke uchaze i-code yokugqoka yokufunwa kunye nezinye izinto ezihamba phambili. Emva kwakho konke, imikhosi kufuneka ilungiselele ieholide, kunye neendwendwe, ukuze wonke umntu abe nokuzithemba kwaye akhululeke. Ukuba iqela kwisimo seSoviet kuya kuba mnandi, umzekelo, ukushicilela isimemo kumatshini wokuchwefta ngendlela yefowuni e mfutshane, ngendlela eyenziwa ngayo kwi-telegrafu. Kwanele ukuthenga amakhadikhadi egciniweyo asemacaleni amaninzi nangomfanekiso onokukhumbuza loo xesha. Isicatshulwa singacatshangelwa ngokupheleleyo, sisebenzisa isigama kunye nokuqwalasela indlela yokubhala yexesha lamaSoviet.
Into ephambili ibonakalayo. Xa uthayipha isimemo, kukuhle ukucacisa ukuba ufuna ukubonakala kweendwendwe ngento ethile. Masibe ngelinye ilanga okanye kusihlwa indlu iya kuba yintlanganiso yoovulindlela, i-stilyag, i-fashionistas kunye nezinye iindidi ezaziwayo zalo xesha.
Isinyathelo sesibini kukucinga kwimenyu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iindwendwe kufuneka ziphathwe. Kubalulekile ukwenza uluhlu lwezitsha kunye neziphuzo eziza kulungelelanisa ngqo emoyeni kunye nomxholo weqela.
Futhi ungalibali malunga nokuyila kwetafile kunye nomgangatho jikelele. Ukulungiselela isiganeko esinommiselo ekupheleni kwekhulu leminyaka elidlulileyo, akudingekile ukuba kuvelwe amamenyu kunye neziphuzo ezimnandi, ukuhlobisa indawo yentlanganiso kunye nento ekhethekileyo. Wonke umntu uyazi kakuhle kakuhle oko badla, batywala, kwaye malunga nendlu nganye yeSoviet yabonakala njani.
Ukuba ubeka ietafile (mhlawumbi ilinen yelinen ehlanganiswe ngeoliyile, kungabi yinto engcolileyo), itafile ye-herring phantsi kweengubo zoboya, i-olivier, i-sandwiches kunye ne-sprats kunye nezinye izitya eziqhelekileyo zeso sihlandlo, ngoko ukuphathwa kwintlanganiso kuya kuba kwisihloko. Umba kunye neziyobisi ezingekho iziyobisi nazo zinzima. Uluhlu lwale mveliso luqala ngekhaya lugqithisa okanye lugqibe kwaye luphelile nantoni na ekuviseni kwemikhosi kunye neendwendwe zeqela. Okwangoku, i-marhwebo inika ukhetho oluninzi lwezobisi kunye nezinye iziyobisi.
Isigaba esilandelayo sokulungiselela iqela elihle nelinomdla ngokuqhelekileyo ligama "lokuzonwabisa". Apha, ngokwemixholo enikeziweyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba imidlalo edibeneyo iya kufakwa kwiikhomputha okanye mafia. Ngezihlandlo zamaSoviet, abantu bazingca ngokwabo nje ngeengxoxo, kodwa ngeengoma kunye nemincintiswano. Into eyona nto kukuba kwiholide wonke umntu uthatha inxaxheba kwaye wayenandipha. Unokuza kunye nayiphi na imidlalo yeetable okanye imidlalo kunye nemisebenzi, udlale i-backgammon, iidarti, ii-dominoes, i-lotto, amakhadi, ukucula ingoma, ukudanisa kwiintsimbi zelo xesha. Yonke into incike kwiingcinga kunye nomnqweno wabathathi-nxaxheba. Kodwa lungiselela iimfuno zokuzonwabisa ngokugqibeleleyo nangaphambili. I-repertoire imele ihambelane nomxholo onikwe, iimpawu zokhuphiswano kufuneka zibe kwindawo kwaye zilinde ukusebenza.
Akukhathazeki ukuba kukubhiyozela, kuya kuba nesizathu okanye intlanganiso eqhelekileyo. Into ephambili kukuba sikwazi ukuphumla ngokuhle kwaye kunomdla ukukhumbula namhlanje. Kukho rhoqo isizathu sokubona abahlobo, abahlobo, abantu abasondeleyo. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu ukunikezana ngezi zihlandlo uvuyo lwezonxibelelwano kunye neemvakalelo ezintle. Iholide ngumsebenzi omkhulu, omele uxoxwe ngokufanelekileyo, ngengqondo nokubala ngokuchanekileyo kwinqanaba ngalinye.