Ngaba uhlala uhlangana nabo "abo"? Okanye udibana nomphefumlo wakho kwaye ufuna ukwazi - ngaba wenze iphutha? Uvavanyo luyakunceda ukuba uziqonde ngokwakho - jonga ngokukhawuleza umfanekiso. Yiyiphi yezine oyithandayo? Phendula iimpendulo ngezantsi.
- Thayipha "uBawo". Unomdla, unengqondo kwaye maxa wambi ungaqiniseki, kunzima ukuba uthathe isigqibo malunga nokukhetha kokugqibela kwaye wenze izigqibo ezinzima. I-ideal yakho yinkampani enoxanduva, enzulu kunye neqinileyo yobomi okulungele ukuthatha uxanduva kwiqela lakho. Indoda enjalo inokuba ngummeli okwaneleyo, kodwa awuyi kuhlaziswa: unonophelo, ukuqwalasela iimfuno zakho kunye nokupheliswa kwazo zonke iingxaki zekhaya kunye nezinto eziphathekayo zibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
- Thayipha "iNyana". Awukwazi ukuma ukungeniswa, ukhetha ukuthatha isikhundla esiphambili kulwalamano. Yingakho unomtsalane kumntwana osisithambile kwaye ongenakunqwenelekayo oza kunika ulonwabo ukulawula intsapho. Ufuna ukunyamekela umntu omthandayo, ukumsindisa ebunzima bokuphila kwaye ube ngowakho ngokupheleleyo.
- Thayipha "Umhlobo". Unomnqweno oqinileyo, unomdla omkhulu kunye nokuzimela kwezigwebo. Awuyithandi iimpawu zentando yama-patriarchal, iinyaniso eziqhelekileyo kunye neengcamango zobulumko besetyhini: ukhetha ukubona indoda yakho iqabane elipheleleyo-elaneleyo kwaye likhulile. Kumele ahloniphe imida yesithuba sakho, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo-kunika ixesha elaneleyo. Fumana loo mlingane akulula, kodwa ukunyaniseka ebomini bakho bomi akuyi kukunika ulonwabo.
- Uhlobo "Mzalwana". Uhlobo oluvulekile, olumlutha kwaye uluthande ubomi kuzo zonke iintlobo zawo. Ufuna ukubona umlingane womntu osondeleyo kuwe-umntu oza kuxolelana naye kunye nokukwazi ukumjonga ngokuvuya kwangoku. Uhlala ukulungele ukuza kunceda, ukuthuthuzela okanye ukunyamezela - kwaye ulindela okufanayo kumntu othandekayo.