Abanye bakholelwa ukuba amadoda ahluke kwiimfuno zabo zesini njengabesetyhini: kukho phakathi kwabo abameleli abaphantse bengafuni ukungonwaba, kunye nabathandekayo abanomdla wokuzonwabisa okunjalo. Abanye bathi bonke abantu, ngaphandle kokunye, banesidingo esivamile sokuthandana nomfazi. Ngaphezu koko, impilo yabo ixhomekeke kwindlela yokwaneliseka kwesi sidingo kuya kubakho. Ngenxa yoko-ukusuka ekugqibeleni kweengcamango-kwaye kwakukho umbuzo osisiseko nesengqiqo: ngaba loo ndoda ithembise iingxaki zempilo ezinzulu kunye nezesondo ezingaqhelekanga?
Impembelelo yesini esingavumelekanga kubantu.
Enyanisweni, inyaniso, njengoko kufanelekile, iphakathi kwendawo yokuqiqa. Ukubeka nje, into eyenzekayo kwimiphumo emibi yokuziyeka amadoda ngokuthe ngqo kuxhomekeke kumntu ngokwakhe. Phakathi kwesondo esomeleleyo, kukho ngokwenene abo abangenakuphila ngaphandle kwesondo ngeentsuku ezimbalwa, kwaye abo, ngaphandle kobunzima, baya kunqanda ukungabikho kobudlelwane obusondeleyo ngaphezu konyaka. Kwaye naluhlobo ngalunye lwala madoda, ukuphendula kwabo ekungabikho kokuthandana.
Enye into malunga nokuziyeka kwanoma yimuphi umntu inokuthi ichazwe ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo: ukuba isondo ebomini bakhe asikho rhoqo, ngoko kufuneka adle ngokufanelekileyo kwaye athathe iicithamini eziyimfuneko. Emva koko, ukuthandana akusiyo kuphela injabulo, kodwa kwakhona kuyindlela efanelekileyo yokumisa imetabolism, kunye nenkqubo efanelekileyo yokucoca igazi leetekisi, i-slags kunye nezinye izinto ezinobungozi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda azinikezela amandla okuziyeka ayicingi ngako. Kodwa uphando lobungqina beli bhengezo aluqinisekanga kanye. Kodwa, kwakhona, ukungabikho kwesondo akuthethi ukuba isibalo sabantu siza kuphelelwa lixesha, kwaye idizithi zezinto ezinobungozi ziza kwenziwa kwigazi. Shintsha impembelelo entle yesini, indoda ingabandakanyeka kwimidlalo, ukutya okufanelekileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwiimeko apho ehlala khona. Kuphela apha iinzuzo zengqondo zesini kuye ezi zinto ezibonakalayo zokuphila ngendlela enempilo aziyi kuzaliswa. Kwaye lo mzuzwana womsebenzi osondeleyo kumntu awunanto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ulwabelana ngesondo olungathandabuzekiyo luchaphazela njani impilo yendoda inokumiselwa ngokufunda ezinye iimpawu zelungu elithile lezesondo ezinamandla. Ngoko, ukuba umntu akahluphekanga ngenxa yesenzo esiqhelekileyo sokuthandana rhoqo nomfazi, kuba ukuyeka ukuzibandakanya kuye kube yinto yokuvavanya kwengqondo: kuba ixesha lokungahambi ngesondo, akayi kulahlekelwa yinto, kodwa, ngokuchaseneyo, uyazi ukuba uyamthanda kangakanani. Kwaye ke, xa ixesha elide elilindelekileyo lokuthandana nothandekayo liza, ukuthanda kwakhe kuya kuba yinto eninzi kangangokuba ngokukhawuleza uya kuziva ukuba unomdla ophezulu kukuba wonke umntu ohlala emhlabeni uphupha - ulonwabo. Kunikezelwa ukuba ukukhutshulwa komntu kuphakamileyo, kwaye imfuno yakhe yesondo ayinakuguqulwa, ngoko ke isondo sakhe esingaqhelekanga sisongela iingxaki zomzimba nezengqondo. Phakathi kwabo, i-neurosis yinto encinci yezinto ezimbi.
Imiphumo enokwenzeka.
Ziziphi iimiphumo ezingathandekiyo zokuzilahla kwamadoda ngokunyuka nokuxhomekeka kwisini? Ookuqala ukuhlupheka kukuba uzinzo. Kwaye oku sele kuyimfuneko yokudandatheka. Ngaba kulungele ukukhumbuza ukuba ukudangala kungendlela eqinisekileyo yezifo ze-cardiovascular and fatiness? Emva koko, isondo esingasifanelanga siya kuthatha into ebaluleke kakhulu kumntu-ukukwazi ukujongana nayo. Ngokwezibalo zamadoda, ukuxhomekeka ngokocansi, iingxaki zobungqina zingabalwa ngaphakathi kwinyanga yokunyanzeliswa. Izifo ze-prostate okanye ukuhla kwe-jikelele kwimeko yokukhusela kwindlela yokuzala enjengomntu ufunda ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye ke ukungabi namandla, uya kuba namanyathelo ambalwa - ukulahlekelwa yithemba kwintlonipho yakhe kwaye ahlale engalingani ngokomzwelo.
Impilo yenyama yomntu okhulisayo ngesondo ayiyona nto kuphela ejongene nokungabikho kokusondelana. I-psyche ayiyi kuhlala ingenakuvuswa, nokuba. Ukungabikho kokusebenza kunokukhokelela ekulahlekeni kokuzithemba, kodwa nakubonakala kwintambo engqondweni ngaphambi kokulala ngokwesondo ngokulandela ixesha elide. Kwaye ukuba lo mntu uvivinyayo akadluli, ngoko uya kujongana neurosis. Isifo, ngokuqinisekileyo, asibulali, nangona kuyingozi kakhulu ngenxa yokungabikho kwempawu ezicacileyo. Kodwa le ndoda iya kulwa nalo ixesha elide. Kwaye kanye indlela ayesaba ngayo - kungekhona nje ngokuthatha iipilisi, kodwa kwakhona ngokubuyela ngokukhawuleza kwiintlobo zabathathi-nxaxheba abasenyongweni.
Ezinye iinkcukacha.
Ngokwezibalo, i-neurosis ifunyanwe kwi-70% yamatyala amadoda ayenzileyo ixesha elide. Kakade, ingcamango yesikhathi eside sokungabikho kwesondo ngokuqhelekileyo iyahlukileyo kuwo wonke umntu. Omnye ubonakala enesithuba esingangeentsuku ezingama-5-7, kwaye omnye umntu akayi kuva neengxaki ezikhethekileyo kunye nenyanga emva kwesenzo sokugqibela sothando. Ngokomyinge, iingcali zezonyango - zemveli kunye ezingezizo zithethe - ziyavuma ukuba ixesha elide linokuqwalasela ixesha lokuzilahla kwiinyanga ezi-2 ukuya kwezi-6. Ukuba le ndoda ayizange ithathe indawo yendawo yesini ephezulu kunye nabaxelisi. Kule meko, ixesha lokungabikho nkathazo elinde ukusondelana okulandelayo kumfazi kuye kwanda kwiinyanga ezi-8-1 unyaka.
Asifanele sikhohlwe malunga nokungafani nemithetho, apho amadoda ahamba ngokugqithiseleyo ukuya kwisini esingenasiphelo egameni luthando, ukholo, ukoma ngolwazi lwehlabathi okanye omnye umgomo ophezulu. Kule meko, ngokwengqondo, indoda isilungele ukungabikho kwezenzo zokusondelana. Kwaye ke, umzimba wakhe uya kuhlangabezana nexesha lokulindela ulonwabo. Kodwa ekupheleni kwexesha lokulinda, indoda ingcono ukuqala ukuzalisa ukuzonwabisa okulahlekileyo. Ekubeni i-subconscious yendoda ifana nekhonkrithi njengengqondo yakhe: ukuba umzimba ukulindele ukuba isondo lihlehliselwe unyaka, ngoko ke iinyanga ezili-12, imini ngosuku, uya kulinda ulwalamano. Kwaye xa kwenzeka ukuba ayilandeli, iingxaki kwimpilo yomzimba ziya kuqala ukuvela ngokukhawuleza.