Impazamo ekuziphatheni ngesini esahlukileyo iyamkeleka kubini amadoda nabasetyhini. Nazi ezinye iimigaqo "zokuziphatha okungalunganga" okanye ukuba amadoda angaphezulu ayicasula kwabasetyhini.
Nomona. Ngamaxesha onke kwakungumzamo wenkululeko yomntu, kunokubangela ukuvukela. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uyamthemba - shiya inkululeko. Ewe, kwaye ukuba unesiqiniseko sokunyaniseka - kuyacetyiswa ukuba utshilo.
Ukuthenga. Ukususela kwimbono yabo, umfazi akaze aneliswe ngetengiso. Kwaye into eyona nto xa umntu ehamba nomfazi ngexesha lokuthenga. Kubantu, ukuyothenga yindlela efanelekileyo yokumngenisa kwisimo sengqondo esisendle.
Ukuhlasela kwepropati yezinto. Abafazi bathanda ukuhlambulula. Kwaye iirekhodi zakhe kufuphi nefowuni okanye ikhomputha okanye ngokubanzi izinto zakhe, ezingenakuzifumana "kwiindawo zakhe".
Uxoka nge nyaniso okanye kwizenzo. Ekuqaleni konxibelelwano, unxibe iiglasi ezinemibala ephakamileyo kunye nokudumisa umntu okanye iimpawu zakhe - xelela ngaye, kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba ukholelwa kukho konke oku. Ngethuba lonyaka, uvula amehlo akho kwizinto ezingobuhlobo bakho okanye ukuziphatha kwakhe - kuba kuyingozi. Ngoko ke, mhlawumbi ungathuli okanye uthethe xa ususa "iiglasi".
Ukwabelana ngesondo kufana nokulawula indoda. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi basebenzisa isondo njengesijeziso samadoda okanye njengendlela yokufumana into ebalulekileyo. Umlinganiselo onjalo wemfundo unobungozi kulwalamano.
Usoloko uguqa. Ayiyona ndlela eyona ndlela ingcono yokubonakalisa indoda ukuba ayiphutha. Ukuhlala uphulaphule ukuphulaphula, ukuba konke akunjalo-umntu onamaqhinga anamandla akakwazi.
Li dibelwe. I-classic ngasekupheleni kwemizuzu engamashumi amabini anesibini (eyaziwa ngokuba yi-diplomatic) abafike emva kwexesha elide bangakhokelela ekuhambeni nje ngokuhlwa, nangenxa yokuphuka. Khumbula oku xa uchitha iyure eyongezelelweyo phambi kwesibuko.
Ingxoxo. Musa ukuzama ukwenza umhlobo wakho kwisiqingatha sakho. Thetha ngombala obalaseleyo weenwele okanye ubuchwepheshe bokugqibela bokuvuselela ubuso. Fumana izihloko ezithandayo.
Ukuzimela. Indoda ayithandi xa ibhinqa lizingela kuphela isikhwama sakhe. Ewe, ukuba akukho nenye indlela yokuphuma, funda indlela yokwenza ingabonakali.
Ukuthelekisa nabanye abantu. Amadoda ayithandi xa uthelekisa kunye namanye amantombazana akho, kwaye ngokukodwa nabangaphambili. Bathukuthele, baba
Ukugxeka abanye besetyhini.
Amadoda amaninzi ayazibuza ukuba kutheni abesifazana bengadumisi abafazi besini sabo, kodwa ngaso sonke ithuba bayakukhupha umlomo onomntu othile. Ayazi ukuba yonke into ukubonisa ukuba okulungileyo phakathi kwabasetyhini kumi kuye. Kodwa loo mntu sele ecinga ngoko, xa ekhethileyo, ukubonakalisa into kuye okwesihlandlo sesibini, ucinga ukuba ayiyonto.
Ukusetyenziswa kwe "tricks female".
Ndiza kuchaza encinane, "amaqhinga amabhinqa" - ezi ziindlela zokuphembelela indoda, abafazi kuphela abangayisebenzisa. Ngokomzekelo, "imvula yamanzi yezinyembezi," abanye abafazi abalungileyo bayayazi indlela yokuyisebenzisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba banyibilike intliziyo elula. Okanye ukungaqiniseki ngokugqithiseleyo ngaphezu kwezinto. Kwaye umqalisi wale meko wayengumfazi, aze axolise okanye ahlalise indoda. Ewe, isimo sibekwe, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyacaphukisa indoda okanye ubuncinci ibe yinto ebalulekileyo kuye.