Ngokwenza oko, le nkathazo iya kwaziwa nje: "umyeni uye waba ngumngcipheko" (ukuba ungumfazi) okanye "ngoku ndiyadabuka" (ukuba ungumyeni). Oku kunokwenzeka kunoma yimuphi umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba unomlinganiselo wokwaneliseka nobomi okanye unentsapho enothando nomsebenzi. Izindlela zonyango ziyahluka, amayeza ngokwawo. Nangona kunjalo, makhe sizame ukwakha isicwangciso sonyango.
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Abaninzi banamadoda. Ngokuhle kakhulu, kusebenze ngokukhawuleza, kungabathandwa kakhulu kunye neentsilelo zabo: ngokubanzi, njengokuthi "baxhaphaze" ebusheni babo kwaye baqhutyelwa phantsi kwe-wreath. Uhlala nabo unyaka okanye amabini okanye ishumi kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyaqonda ukuba kwindlela yokufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-40 ubudala, utshintshe kude neyona nto ibhetele. Ngaphambili, wayenomsebenzi kunye neqhinga, kwaye ngoku uhlala esesigxina esingapheliyo , uyawa kwi-sofa emva kokuncitshiswa kancinci, uhlala ekhononda ngobomi bakhe kwaye uzama ukuphikisa isimo esinohloniphekileyo sesini esinoqinileyo. Isizathu sokuphumla kwengqondo kuthathwa njengokukhathala, ngamanye amaxesha ucebisa ukuba amshiye yedwa okanye amemezele abantwana kunye nawe.
Nangona kunjalo, oku akusoloko kuqhubeka. Ngokukhawuleza xa usula iinyembezi zakho, khawuleza ucele umama wakho kwifowuni ukuba akayi kuqeshisa igumbi lakho kwikhaya lomntwana, ulala, njengoko indoda iqhuma igcwele umxhwele kunye namandla. Uvuyayo, usebenza kwaye uzele izicwangciso ezinkulu: ukuba ngumlawuli webhanki, ukwakha i-dacha, ukuvula i-Galaxy entsha kwaye uye kwindawo yokudlala kunye nabantwana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uyavuya: "Yonke into, idlulile ukudandatheka!" Kodwa hayi, ngosuku olulandelayo uphinda ufumene umfazi onobuhlungu ekuhlambuleni embhedeni nangengcamango yokubola. Ngenxa yokuba ingqondo yakhe ayinakulawula.
Kwaye amaxesha amaninzi amadoda aziva azibi . Le ngenye yeempawu eziphambili zobunzima bexesha eliphakathi kwamadoda. Ngelo xesha, i-paws iyagula kwaye umsila wehla kuphela ekucingeni kwakhe. "Gxuma amanxube - mhlawumbi, i-arthritis; intloko iyancipha - ngokukhawuleza i-stroke; Intliziyo yam ishaya ngamandla - ukufa kwam kuya kubangela ukuba i-myocardial infarction, "indoda yakho inokuthi ithethe. Kwaye uya koogqirha, abonelela kuMalkhov kwaye uthenga iivithamini kwiimbiza eziqhakazileyo. Ukuqwalasela ukuziphatha okufanayo komlingane wakho, ngaphandle kokunyengisa, unokuthi unempiliso njengenkunzi yenkomo inqunyulwa, ukwesaba ukuguga.
Ukongezelela, ngenxa yokuba abantu abaneminyaka engama-30 abasayi kuphinda bazive bancinci, baqala ukubonakala bebancinane . Ngoko ke, ukuba ngelinye ilanga uyaqonda ukuba iqabane libala iincwele, lithengele imoto yemidlalo ebomvu, ifakwe iindlebe zegolide kwiindlebe zakho, unokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo uthi "nceda! Amadoda aselula abuye athambekele ekubethekeleni. Bathanda ukuthetha indlela abanobuhle nabanobuqili xa bebancinci, kunye nokubonisa unxano lobomi, okungaqhelekanga kwiminyaka yabo - umzekelo, umenzi wokuzikhusela uya kushayisana, isiselo se-teetotal kunye nabahlobo esangweni, kunye nomntu oyindoda kunye nothobekileyo ukhangele unobhala we-boss.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, esinye sezibonakaliso ezibuhlungu kakhulu phakathi kwexesha eliphakathi kweengxaki kumadoda kukuba loo nkathazo amadoda ayelungelelaniswa . Njengoko bethetha, kukho intlekele kunoma yiphi na ibhinqa, nangona kunjalo, awuyi kuyitya enye into efanelekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo, ujonge ingxaki yabantwana kwaye uqale "ukuwuthabatha" iidiliya ezinomakhilogremu. Emva koko, ngokwenene, ukuba usemncinci, ngoko nangoko kuyo yonke into: hlaziya i-wardrobe, indlu, imoto nomfazi. Kodwa ke, oko kuyinto enyanyekayo, umfazi uyazi ukuba "akayikude apho ayekho ngaphambili", ngelixa umfana omncinci, engabonakaliyo ngeengqondo kunye neengubo ezongezelelweyo, uya kumfumana amehlo epheleleyo. Ngelishwa, iinzame zomyeni zokwenza kwicala lokuvuselela iinkqubo zonakaliswe ngaphezu komtshato omnye.