Kutheni amadoda ehamba?

Oo, sibubi kangakanani sonke, ukuba ukholwa, bafazi abathandekayo. Emva kwakho konke, kufuneka ube ngumgcini wokugqibela wokuphonsa omnye wenu. Oku ucinga ukuba kuqhelekile ukutshintsha abantu, njengeiglavu, ukufumana iimpawu ezilikhulu zokungafezeki. Siza kuzama ukufumanisa izizathu ezi-10 eziphambili zokuthi kungani sithi "yihle" kuwe.


Ewe, unokuba lula ukwenza ingxaki kwaye uthi, bathi, amadoda afuna ukuba ngumfazi ococekileyo oya kubapheka, ahlambulule, awanelise ngokupheleleyo ebhedeni aze azalise zonke iintlobo zeeminqweno, ngaphandle kokuziqonda ngokulinganisela kwaye zithobekile. Kodwa oku akunjalo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, loo mfazi unesigxina somthwalo wokwaphula ubudlelwane. Ngoko, siyahamba xa ...

1. Owesifazane wayengafuni


Akunandaba nokuba yintoni: kwintetho okanye ngesini. Indoda ihlala ikhangele ukuba ayilungelekanga, ngoko ubuncinane into enomdla ukuthetha, kwaye ebhedeni iyamnandi. Ewe, loo madoda afuna ibhinqa ngelo xesha ayinomdla kwizinga le-IQ yalo. Kodwa ukuba ngumbuzo wobudlelwane besikhathi eside, ngoko sifuna ukuzibona ngokuzenzekelayo kuthiwa ngabafazi bahlakaniphile. Ibhinqa akufanele lihlakaniphe ngaphezu komntu, kuba uya kuziva ephantsi kobunzima. Kodwa umfazi ongenalutho ongenandaba nantoni na ngaphandle kweemida kunye neemagazini zamabhinqa, akayidingi.

Isiphelo - umfazi kufuneka abe ngumdlali wokuzibonakalisa oko umntu afuna ukumbona.

Ngokwezesondo, kufuneka ukhululwe. Ukunyanzeliswa ngokugqithiseleyo kuya kuphoqa indoda ukuba ikhangele umntu ohlangothini, kwaye umsebenzi ogqithiseleyo uya kukubuza ukuba isiqingatha esihle sesi sixeko siqhelane neetalente zesithambiso somfazi?

2. Ungahambelani nabalinganiswa


Konke kubonakala sengathi uyilungiselela indoda, kodwa ngoku i-scandals iphakame ngaphezu kwezinto ezinzima. Awunakufumana ukulungelelanisa, ungenzi ukuvuma. Indlela kuphela ephuma apha ihlukana. Indoda ngokwemvelo inqwenela ukuba yinkokheli, ngoko ufuna ukuba umfazi wakhe amvumele kuye kwiimeko eziphambene. Emva koko unyulo lwakhe - ukuba iqabane langoku libiza, uza kufuneka unikwe, kodwa akukho nkundla.

Kwimeko nayiphi na into, ukuba unalo uphawu oluhle kunye nengqiqo engcolileyo, akufanele ulindele ukuba indoda ilungiselelwe nantoni na. Uya kufumana enye indlela elula ngakumbi kunakho. Le yimeko yesimo sabantu.


3. Ibhinqa ayinqatshelwe

Akunakwenzeka ukuba nayiphi na indoda iya kufuna ukuphazamisa umlingane wakhe, ukuba kwindawo kawonkewonke ngokukhawuleza uqala ukuziphatha ngokungathandekiyo, ukubeka isithunzi kuye. Yaye uhlala nomfazi ongenakulinganiswa, othe nawuphi na umzuzu angenza into engento yintsipho okanye into enjalo, ayiqondi. Isiphetho - funda ukuzilawula.


4. Kwixesha elidlulileyo, umfazi wayekhokelela ekudleni

Abafazi "I-Don Juanism" kuthiwa yigama elingakhethi, kwaye isimo sengqondo esibhekiselele kuluntu asibi. Ngoko ke, phambi kokuba utshintshe amaqabane ebusheni bakho, cinga malunga noko uza kuyenza emva kweminyaka engama-30, xa kunzima ukufumana indoda elungileyo, kwaye yonke inja edolophini iyazi malunga nesidluli sakho esidlulileyo.

Indoda iyafuna ukuba yinto yokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo ayiyi-51-m. Ngokuqinisekileyo akafuni ukuba bonke ababaziyo bafumane amava kunye nomfazi wakhe. Isiphetho - cinga ngelixa elizayo ukususela ekufikeni komntwana. Ukuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, awufuni ukuchitha yonke impilo yakho yedwa. Ulutsha aluhlali ngonaphakade.


5. Ibhinqa isebenzisa indoda njengendawo yokuphuma

Uthetha ngeengxaki zakhe, ukukhathazeka, izenzo zonke imini. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kubalulekile ukwabelana ngemicimbi enomdla kunye neziganeko, kodwa kwakhona-umlinganiselo ube ngowakho konke.

Xa ubiza umntu osemncinane phakathi kobusuku kwaye uthi uyamthanda kakhulu kwaye ukulungele ukwenza nantoni na, ngoko ngexesha liqala ukucaphukisa. Kwaye ukuba uthe wandixelela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba uthenge izicathulo ezizibini ezi-15 zokuthengisa kunye nekhadi lesaphulelo ngamaphesenti amathathu, uzithengela isicathulo, i-shampoo kunye nokwenza iifowuni, ufumana umntu, kunye nefowuni yakho esilandelayo, uya kuqalisa i-nervous tic.


6. Owesifazane wayeka ukuzikhathalela

Ewe, imbonakalo ayidlala indima enkulu kulwalamano, nangona kunjalo, asinakutsho ukuba indoda ayiyikunyamekela. Yaye ukuba wadibana ne-blonde enobuhle kunye nesifuba se-aspen kunye nesifuba se-elastic, kwaye emva kweminyaka emibili ehlala ndawonye wajika waba yinto engenasiphelo, kunye nemihlali enkulu kunye neentonga ezinkulu, ngokusuka kwindlela yokujonga, umntu uya kulahlekelwa ngumdla kuye.

Ewe, kukho amadoda afana nabasetyhini abapheleleyo. Kodwa baqala ukukhangela abo. Isiphetho - zibukele. Ukubonakala kwakho kusezandleni zakho.


7. Ibhinqa isebenzisa ngokucacileyo indoda njengesikhwama

Sithanda ukujongana nabasetyhini. Ukongezelela, siyavuya ngokwenene ukukuthabatha kwivenkile yokutyela, siya kuthenga iintyatyambo kunye nemigqabha ebiza kakhulu, siyiqashise kwi-yitishi kwaye siyifake kwi-resort. Ngenxa yale nto sifuna ukufumana encinane: uthando kunye nesondo. Ndingathanda ukugxininisa kuqala, kuba sinokuthengwa ngesondo ngenxa yemali ethe xaxa.

Ukuba umfazi usoloko ekhupha imali ngaphandle kwendoda, umvuzo ngokulala ngesondo, kodwa akayi kubona kwaye akayi kubuya uthando, kungekudala okanye kamva kuya kumkhathaza uze uhlale ungenaye ingubo entsha yomntu kunye nomnye umqala.

Ukuphelisa - ukukhupha umkhuhlane wakho. Okanye, ukuba ufuna ukutsala imali kumntu omude, bonisa ukuba uyamthanda. Ubuncinane ungatsho ngokuthe ngqo ukuba ufuna i-blouse okanye i-ring. Unokwenza nje ukuba kule busika ujonge i-diamond kunye neengubo zoboya. Kwaye awufuni ukuba intsebenziswano yamyeni wakhe ukuba acinge ukuba akhathalele umfazi wakhe.


8. Ibhinqa liyazibonakalisa ngokucacileyo ukuba ufuna ukutshata

Abanye abantu baya kwangoko ukuya kutshata ngenxa yomtshato. Ukuba umntu ufuna ukutshata nawe, uya kuziva. Kodwa ukuba ngeli nqanaba akayilungele le nto, ke akukho mfuneko ukunyanzelisa imicimbi, kuphela "ukuthusa".

Ungaze unikele ngesondo ngaphandle kwekhondom, ngaphandle koko umntu uya kukhankanya ngoko into engalunganga. Ewe, kunye nesiphakamiso sakhe asikhawulezi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, indoda ehloniphekileyo ayiyi kushiya ibhinqa nomntwana wayo. Kodwa "umtshato ngokubaleka" awufaneki ngempumelelo.

9. Ibhinqa litshintshile

Indoda inokuxolela kakhulu, phantse yonke into, ngaphandle kobuqu. Ukuba oko kwenzeka, lungiselela ukuba ukuba umyeni wakho uyazi malunga nale nto, uya kuphelisa ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane. Kwaye akukho zizathu ezingenakunceda. Ukuba into ayihambisani nawe, xelela ngaye. Kungcono ukushiya ngokuvumelana ngokubambisana kunokuba emva kwehlazo. Kwaye kumbono wezomthetho, ukufumana into kumyeni emva komtshato kuya kunzima.

10. Umfazi waqala ukufumana okungaphezulu kwendoda yakhe

Ukuba kumntu umvuzo omkhulu ngummandla wendalo, ngenxa yokuba uyaziqinisekisa ebomini, ngoko kuba ngabafazi abathile lo luvavanyo. Ukufumana okungaphezulu kwendoda yakhe, umfazi unesilingo esisoloko esichaza ngaso, ukuthetha ukuba ungubani umntu ombi, kwaye ngaphandle kwakhe bahlala njengabaceli.