Ngokwe teknoloji yokufezekisa impumelelo, ukuze ufezekise into ethile, kufuneka uchaze ukuba sele usufezekisile i-ideal female yakho - indoda yamaphupha.
Ngoko, yintoni na, into efanelekileyo yowesifazane - indoda yamaphupha? I-Slender, umdlalo, isitayela ...
Ukususela kwicala lombonisi
Sitsho ukuthi into efanelekileyo yowesifazane - indoda yamaphupha enhle, ukuba siyayiqonda kuye ukukhanya okuvela ngaphakathi kwaye sibe namava okhethekileyo xa oko kukhuthaza umdla wokuba sisondele kwaye uzuze kwimida yebuhle, ukuze ujabule. Ngenxa yoko, ubuhle buyanelisa isidingo esithile somntu, sizalisa ikhulu, siyanelisa ezinye zeengxaki zengqondo. Umntu ngamnye unxulumano lwakhe olunzima kunye nombono "ubuhle". Oko akubeka kule ngqiqo - yena ngokwakhe akayiqondi ngokupheleleyo.
Ukusuka kwicala
Ngoxa sasicinga into efanelekileyo yowesifazane - indoda yamaphupha kunye nobuhle kumntu obukeleyo. Yaye ukuba ukhangeleka kumntu obangela uvakalelo? Kubonakala ukuba umntu ofanayo unokuziva enhle kwaye engalunganga, kuxhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo, iimpahla, isimo sengqondo sabantu abalulekileyo kuye, njl. Indoda enhle, njengomthetho, ngumntu owanelisayo, enelisekile kuye. Ukumjonga kuye kufuna ukufana, ufuna ukusuleleka kwimeko yakhe, ufuna ukuhlala kufuphi nomthombo onjalo wokuzijonga kakuhle. Emva koko, ukuba ndibuhle kunye nobu buhle kunye nam, ke ndibandakanyeka kwezo butyebi-ubuhle, ngokuyinxalenye ibe yingxenye yalo.
Ngoko ndiyidla!
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ingcamango yokudibanisa kunye nokukhangela, kuyinyani ngesondo. Kukho uluvo lokuba abo bantu bafuna ukuboleka into ethile, enokuthanda ukufana ('phantse' ukutya isibindi sesitha ukuba ube namandla ') kubangela iimvakalelo zesondo. Ukususela kwingcamango ye-psychoanalysis, iinkqubo zesondo kunye nokutya / ukuxhamla kunesiseko esisemgangathweni sengqondo.
Iphi na iqhosha lam?
Hayi, ukuba sasilungiselelwe ukuba itafile enhle yayiza kubangela ukutya, kunye neminqweno yokulala! Ubuhle obuninzi abukwazi ukufumana indoda enqwenelayo ngesizathu esilula - abayithandi! Ukuba indoda ingumntu ongaphandle, kodwa engayivakalelwa yintombi yakhe, ayiyikuzisola yona, ayiyikuzixhalabisa, ayiyikuphulaphula amabali ngobomi bakhe, ayicinga ukuba umsebenzi wakhe uyinto engento kwaye akayi kubona ibhinqa kuye, ayiyi kuba ngumfazi oqhelekileyo olwabelana ngesondo ukukhanga umntu onjalo! Ukuba akayena umswidi.
Abaninzi babone ukusindiswa kwiinkqubo zokuhlamba umzimba. Uvuyo lwebhodi luvela kwi-stimulus entsha, kodwa emva kokuxilisa kunye nokuzonwabisa, inkunkuma engahlaliyo ingakwazi ukuhlala, kuba umntu unzima kwaye uyalwela ukunyamezela. Ukuba akukho zihlandlo ezifanayo kunye neentsikelelo, amava e-sexually bright is a episode. "Ukuthokoza ngokukodwa" kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba zonke izicelo ziyanelisekile: ngokomzimba, emoyeni kwaye-ewe-ewe! - xabiso / ukuziphatha.
Ubulili = ubuhle?
Ukuvuswa kwezesondo kukuyinto enzima kunye nomntu ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuthetha malunga nayiphi na imimiselo. Abafazi abaninzi, umzekelo, banomdla xa iqabane lifana noyise, kungekhona i-superhero evela kwiphepha lephephancwadi. Uninzi lwabafazi aluyi kukhetha umntu ogqibeleleyo, kodwa umntu ovakalelwa ebuntwini bakhe kwaye akayikuvuyela ubuhle bomzimba wakhe, kodwa uvela kuye njengobuntu obungabonakaliyo, abakhethileyo. Ukuba umanyano wabantu ugcinwa "ubuhle", ngoko bubuhlungu kakhulu: abatshatileyo baya kuhlaselwa kwi-alarm engunaphakade malunga nokuba "bayakunqandwa", bathatyathwe yinto enhle.
Kuthetha ukuthini oku?
Ndifuna ukuba nomntu onwabileyo ngokwam, ukukhawuleza ukuzonwabisa kum, undixhaphaze ngale mvakalelo. Indoda efanelekileyo - indoda yamaphupha - narcissus narcissism, "uzihlambalaza wena," i-radiation ayinakuneliseka okunempilo kakhulu njengento yokuhlambalaza.
Ukungenzi - umntu ngokwakhe ujongene nokugqithisa.
Kubalulekile ukuba indoda yam iyaxabiswa yindalo yam, kangangokuthi engangondli kakhulu ngobuhle bayo, bangaphi abo bahlolwayo kwimeko yam.
Ibhinqa liyakwazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba yena naye akafani, kwaye ukuba impumelelo yakhe ayifani nokuphumelela kwayo.
Ukuhlengahlengisa umntu ngenxa ye "imodeli yobuhle", ubeka umngcipheko ekubhubhiseni ubuhlobo: makangacingi ukuba awuthandi yena kunye nawe, ukuvavanya kwabanye kubaluleke kakhulu. Iingcali zengqondo zibiza aba bhinqa i-narcissistic: umphefumlo awusebenzi, ukuqhelaniswa - ngaphandle kunye nokuvavanya kwabanye, ubudlelwane bobuqu, uthando-luvaliwe.
Ndifuna umntu owenza umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca, unomfanekiso omhle kunye neenwele, izihlunu ezipompozayo, unakekele iingubo, uhlala ecinga ngokubonakala kwakhe.
Indoda inzima kakhulu kuye, iyazibeka kwiimfuno kunye neengxaki ezingazifezekisi ezi mfuno, ngoko ke akayi kuyaneliseka kakhulu.
Ukungasebenzi ngokwembonakalo yayo kunye nezenzo ezintle ngokwemigangatho yokumisela imeko yangaphakathi-mhlawumbi ufuna uncedo lweengcali zeengqondo ukuze umntu wakho abe nethemba kuye kwaye azive ukuba uyabaluleka kwaye uyaqonda ukuba yintoni.
Indoda yam ikholelwa ukuba nguye, kwaye kufuneka imthande ngenxa yomphefumlo kunye nengqondo, kodwa yangaphandle ayikhathazeki.
Indoda yenza intombi ibe yintlungu "yobubi" noxanduva lobomi bakhe, ayithandi umzimba wakhe, akafuni ukumnyamekela, uyayidelela ukukhangwa kwangaphandle - oko kukuthi, uye wazibona iingxaki zeengqondo. I-genius enobuqili kunye no-unganise, nayo, inokuthanda, kodwa ngabafazi abaneengxaki ezithile zengqondo.
Ukungasebenzi - indoda ayiyi kuzinyamekela nayiphi na into - yile ndawo yakhe, iqhuba ingqondo "imfazwe ngombandela" (njengomthetho, umntu onjalo ungumceli).
Intanda yam inomfutho omncinci, unako ukufumana ijaji encinane. Kanye ngeveki uya kwi-gym, ubukele iingubo zakhe. Ezi zinto zibalulekile kuye, kodwa azikho inkolo. Uyakuvuyela ukubonakala kwakhe, kodwa uyaqonda ukuba kwiminyaka yakhe sele sele efuna ukuzijonga.
Lo ngumntu okwaneleyo , uphulaphule umbono webhinqa lakhe, kodwa akahambanga ngaye. Qaphela ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha into kuyo. Ukuba ubuhlobo bakho buqhelekileyo kwaye buphilile, uya kugxininiswa kwigama elithi "utshintshe into kuyo." Ukuba eli binzana alinakukulimaza, mhlawumbi unethemba lokukhokela umntu wakho kwaye udwebe okuthile kuye. Ukutyekela kwezobudlelwane ezilungileyo akukho nto: Ukuba ufezekisa injongo yakho, uza kufumana "unyana" okanye "ikhoboka", kungekhona umntu.