Ukuqhelana nentombazana. Oku kungafundwa njani? Amadoda ayesaba aze abalekele into enomdla wabo, ngoko kukufanele ukuhlalutya ukwesaba oku tyelele isiqingatha esinamandla sabantu. Ukwenqaba.
Ubuncinane kanye, bonke abahlali babenqatshelwe. Indoda inzima kwaye iyamoyika ukumazi. Unokuphakamisa impumlo yakho - kutheni sifuna umntu oyika isithunzi sakhe? Unokuzifanela ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye wazi ngokwakho - ebudeni bethu obude kwaye akunakwenzeka ... Eyona ndlela, okwesithathu kukufunda ngokuqonda, ukunika inombolo yefowuni yakho.
Mvume.
I-nervous tic kumntu owamkela ezandleni zento enqwenelekayo yathanda i-tsiferki-iyinto evamile. Ubungozi bendoda kulo mzekelo bukufutshane nomqondiso obalulekileyo, ngoko kukho iindlela ezimbini kuphela: ukuzibiza, okanye ulinde isinyathelo esivela kwintombazana.
"Baya kundihleka!".
Ewe, indoda ingaba yinto yokugculela intombi zakho, ngoko ukuze uphephe iziganeko, kungcono ukugcina ulwazi olutsha olunjalo olungathandekiyo, kwaye umthabathele kwinkampani "engendawo".
Ukungaqiniseki kwihlabathi.
Ukunikezelwa: abaninzi abantu abangaphephile kunye nomfazi omnye entle etafileni kwi-cafe.
Fumana: ukhetho lokuthandana.
Isigqibo: mhlawumbi intombazana enhle iya kulinda ixesha elide kwinqanaba elinqabileyo, kodwa lilungile, kodwa abantu abanokungaqiniseki baya kuyika. Yintoni? Ubuhle, amaqhinga, isityholo "sesabelo" sobuhle.
Isiphumo: intombazana iya ekhaya yodwa.
Into engafuni ngathi ...
Ubuqili behlabathi bubulungelwa kwiingqungquthela, ngoko-ke ukungafuni ukuchitha ixesha elidlulileyo ukuchitha imali ebalulekileyo yindoda ekuthandweni kuchazwa ngobuqili. Ukubukela, ukuphazela kunye nokushiya-ikhefu eliyintandokazi elinobuqili, okanye abantu abaxakekile.
Ukubuyisela ukuzithemba.
Indlela yokufunda ukuqhelana namantombazana ukwenzela ukuba asizange sikhathathwe, kwaye unamandla kweli hlabathi, yonke into yavela?
Indlela yokuqala yinto engaziwayo ngqo. Umbuzo malunga nendawo yokufumana isicatshulwa sokufumana izitishi esiseduze okanye indawo yelayibrari ayiyi kubopha, kodwa inokunceda ekuqhubeni ingxoxo.
Indlela yesibini ukukhubaza amaqhinga. Kuyafaneleka xa usaphila ukuba ulahle yonke "iindiza" zayo ngeentombi ezintle, "ezihlaziyekileyo" ekuqhelaneni nesitalato kunye nokuphela kwehlabathi ngokungabikho kwefowuni ethembisiwe!
Okwesithathu ukukhuphela ukuphuhliswa kweemeko entloko yakhe. Yithatha nje kwaye yenze-yindlela efanelekileyo yokumazi.
Kwaye okokugqibela. Isimo sengqondo esifaneleko asizange siphazamise nabani na, ngokunjalo sitshintshe ipeni yokucatshulwa entloko yakho kwindawo ye "Super-order" kunye nokuya phambili, ekufundeni nasekufundiseni ngokufanelekileyo kunye neendlela ezisemgangathweni zokuthandana kakuhle namantombazana!
U-Elena Romanova , ngakumbi kwisiza