Uninzi lwabasetyhini luphupha ngomhlobo onomdla, umthandi, indoda enokuthi ulwahlule ngokokuqala umlingo wothando kunye nothando. Uphando lwaqhutywa, iziphumo ezibonisa ukuba abancinci abafazi bakholelwa ukuba umntu okhona (1 per 1000). Emva koko kuvela ukuba amathuba okudibana nomntu ofanelekileyo, kwaye nangakumbi, ukutshata naye kuncinci kwaye kunzima. Nangona kunjalo, amadoda anjalo. Kodwa ungamqonda njani kwisihlwele samadoda angenasiphelo kunye namagundane? Yintoni ekumele ibe yiparameters yomthandi ofanelekileyo?
Indoda yinyani ayiyi kuba yinkcenkceshe okanye idonsa ibhinqa labesifazane, kuba iyanqabana nesifuba, ngaphandle kokuchasene nodlova. Kunokwenzeka ukuba, umntu onjalo uya kubhenqa ibhinqa lalo mfazi ngokukhawula okulula kunye nokumanga kwethenda.
Indoda efanelekileyo ngexesha lesondo ayiyi kuphazamiseka ukuba ishintshe iteknoloyude kunye nokuba ifowuni yakhe ikhonkco.
Indoda efanelekileyo iyaqaphela ukuba umtsalane wakhe uhlala ebudlelwaneni bokwenene nomfazi, kwaye kungekhona ngobukhulu bomzimba wakhe.
Umthandi ofanelekileyo akayi kucela kwiqabane lakhe ezininzi kunye nobuchule kwisini, kuba uyaqonda ukuba akayena udansa we-circus.
Indoda yokwenene ayisoze yenza uthando ebusuku, kuba uyayiqonda ukuba umfazi ukhathele kangakanani emsebenzini kwaye ufuna ukuphumla ebusuku. Ukukhetha okufanelekileyo ngesondo kukusa, kuba ngobusuku busuku umzimba womfazi unalo ixesha lokuphumla, ngaphandle kobushushu bomzimba wakhe buba nzima ukukhathazeka.
Indoda yokwenene unomonde, uyinyameko kwaye uyayinyamekela iminqweno, amagama kunye nezenzo zomfazi. Indoda enjalo iya kuthetha amazwi amahle kungekhona ngexesha lesini, kodwa ngaphambi nangemva kwayo. Uya kukhangela ibhinqa lakhe njengokungowokuphela kwowesifazane oseMhlabeni, apho umfazi uya kuba yinto enqwenelekayo kwaye enhle. Indoda enjalo iya kukubonga iingubo zakho zoboya, amadolo, iminwe, iinwele, intamo. Ukubukeka kwendoda enjalo kuzaliswa ngentsingiselo, apho intliziyo yowesifazane ikhululeka, amaphiko angabonakali abonakala ephakamileyo emazulwini. Ibhinqa lisoze latshutshwe nendoda yangempela.
Emva kokuba uDkt. Polovski emva kokuqhawula umtshato osenxantathu kunye nazo zonke iimpawu "ezigunyazisiweyo" kwafika ingcamango yokubala imimiselo yezinto eziphathekayo "ngumyeni onothando nomthandi." Kule ngcamango, oogqirha babhala amagama omfazi wokugqibela, owathi xa ehamba, wamemeza esithi: "Uhlala uphakame kakhulu kum!" Oogqirha, la magama ayengqineka kwaye akazange aphendule kule nkcazo yomfazi wangaphambili, ekubeni wayekholelwa ukuba elowo mfazi uphupha amaphupha omntu omude (ubude bakhe buba malunga ne-2 mamitha).
Xa ugqirha wahlalutya ubomi bakhe bomtshato, waqonda ukuba bonke abafazi babengaphantsi. Ngenxa yoko, abo babini ababesele bashada nabasetyhini abangaphantsi kakhulu kuye ngokukhula.
Le ndlela engaqondakaliyo ayizange yinike ugqirha naluphi na ukuphumla, ngoko ke wafaka isicelo kwisifundo kwiYunivesithi yaseWroclaw. Ulawulo lweyunivesithi lwamkele le sicelo kwaye lwavuma ukuba luze lufumane imali.
Uphando kule ndawo ludlulileyo kwiminyaka engaphezu kwe-3, kwaye nje kutshanje kwafika ekupheleni kwayo. Umsebenzi wezenzululwazi we "intambo ebalulekileyo" yenziwa ngabaososayensi basePoland, abafazi abangaphezu kwe-600, abaneminyaka engama-19 ukuya ku-50 ubudala, bathatha inxaxheba kwisifundo. Iziphumo zophando zagqithisa konke okulindelekileyo. Izifundo zibonise ukuba amandla kunye nolwalamano lwexesha elide luthonywe ngumlinganiselo wobunzima nokukhula kwamaqabane.
Ngokutsho kweBoguslav Polovski, yonke into ekhoyo kwiijethi - abantu bafuna amaqabane ngokuzenzekelayo, kunye neerameters ezithile, ukuze abantwana abazayo abanokuphakama "ubude" kunye nesisindo bazalwa. Zonke ezi zenzeke zenzeke ngokuzenzekelayo kwaye azixhomekeke kwiminqweno yangempela yokuba nabantwana.
Iiparamitha zomthandi zibalwa ngokwezinto ezilandelayo: ukukhula - 1.09; ubunzima - 1,4. Oku kuthetha ukuba indoda efanelekileyo kufuneka ibe ngama-1.09 amaxesha aphezulu kunowesifazane kunye namaxesha ama-1.4 anzima. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ubude bowesifazane ngowama-170 cm kwaye bunzima ubunzima beekhilogram ezingama-60, ngoko kulungile kumntu ubuncinane ubunzima bama-183 cm ubude kwaye ubunzima obungaphantsi kwama-84 kg.