Sinokuhlangabezana njani nothando lokwenene?

Ingxaki yokulondeka ihlangene nabantu abaninzi kwintlalo yanamhlanje. Ukuba ufunda le nqaku, ingxaki kwaye awuyihoywa.

Omnye uthi akukho mfuneko ukufuna uthando, ukuba kuya kuvela ngokungaqhelekanga. Ngaba kunjalo? Akunjalo.

Thatha isenzo. Uthando lufanele lufunwe - alufi. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba intombazana ihleli kwisikrini seTV nokubukela imiboniselo yakhe yeTV ejikeleze iwashi, ngoko akayikudibana ngqo nenkosana kwi-Grand Cherokee emhlophe.

Kwiminyaka emashumi edluleyo, izinto ezininzi zenziwe, kodwa akukho nanye ingqondo yenzululwazi yehlabathi eye yakwazi ukuphendula ukuba kutheni abantu baseMetropolis abaninzi abanakho ukufumana uthando lokwenene, bahlukane. Abantu baye beza ngeendlela ezininzi zokugqithisa ulwazi, ukunxibelelana kwihafu yesigqithi esedlulileyo kuye kwaba lula kakhulu - kukho iifowuni, i-intanethi ... Kodwa ngaba yinto esiyifunayo? Uzibuze yona lo mbuzo? Ndiyavuma, kunzima ukufumana uthando, ukuhlala phambi kwesoiso okanye isikrini seTV. Ukwenza ukwaneliseka akukwazi ukuba yindlela yokuphuma kwimeko.

Kodwa kusekho abantu abafumana i-destiny yabo. Ngoko unokuhlangabezana njani nothando lokwenene?

Ngezantsi siya kuzama ukuqwalasela iimeko ezininzi ezinokubonisa apho kunokwenzeka khona ukufumana uthando lokwenene.

Qala, qwalasela umbuzo wokuba kutheni unesizungu. Isizathu esihle ukujonga ngaphakathi kwakho - siya kusindisa ixesha lakho.

Emva kokuba izizathu zityhilelwe, kufuneka ucinge ngendlela anokusombulula ngayo. Funda ukujonga ubomi ngendlela eyahlukileyo, kuba ihlabathi elikujikelezayo lihlabathi ngaphakathi kuthi. Kungaba nzima ukuqala ukususela ekuqaleni. Kodwa kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu - ukuba kukho iingxaki eziza kukufuna ixesha elininzi kunye namandla okuzisombulula. Kwizemidlalo kukho i-axiom enjalo-ukufezekisa into oyifunayo ukuqeqesha nzima kunye nokuqhubekayo. Thatha oku njengomgaqo kwaye ungawucongi phambi kokuqala kobunzima.

Emva kokuba ezi zinto zidibeneyo ungaqala ukukhangela.

Umsebenzi . Ekusebenzeni, njengomthetho, asizibandakanyi izinto ezingaphandle, sigqoke imaski yobungakanani, ukungakhathaleli. Kwaye kutheni ungaboni ezinye zam osebenza nabo? Futhi musa ukuhamba nomnye wabo kwi-cafe? Kwamaqela amaninzi ngokulandelana kwezinto, ukuzonwabisa ngokubambisana, iziganeko zenkampani.

Fumana umdla oqhelekileyo kunye mhlawumbi kungekudala awuyi kusebenza kunye, kwaye ubuhlobo bakho buya kuba yinto engaphezulu.

Internet . Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukufezekisa umphumo wenene, zama ukudibana nomlingane omhle ngokukhawuleza. Intanethi yindawo apho yonke into ishintsha ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba namhlanje okanye ngomso awuzange uphathe ukuhlangabezana nomntu - kwikamva elikude unokuvuma kwaye udibana nomnye, kwaye uya kuhlala uhleli kwisikrini kweso.

- Isitalato . Ukuhamba epakini okanye ngasendleleni kunengqiqo ukuba ujwayelane, okuya kukhula ube luhlobo oluhle. Ukuhamba nge-lapdog yakho eyintandokazi, ungaqhelana nomnini we-mastif oya kuba ngumntu omhle, kwaye akuphathe ngendebe yetshokolethi eshisayo kwi-cafe esondeleyo.

- Iiklabhu kunye neendawo zokutyela , mhlawumbi, ziindawo ezifanelekileyo kakhulu apho umntu angasondela khona kumntu ukuze aqonde kamva ukuba uyadalwa omnye nomnye okanye ngokuphambene nanjalo, abanembeza njengokuba izulu nomhlaba ...

- Kwiholide. Ukudibanisa nomphefumlo wakho kwiqashiso kunokwenzeka, kodwa kuphela xa ungacwangcanga ubuhlobo besikhathi eside. Umgama awuyazi ukuba uyona ekhuthaza kakhulu uthando, ingakumbi ukuba awuyi kuceba ukuhamba rhoqo. Nangona iiOlimpiki ezizayo eSochi zingakunika ixesha elaneleyo ...

Kule nqaku, sihlolisise iindlela ezi-5 kuphela eziphuma kwizigidi ezikhoyo kunye nezo malunga nathi esingaziyo nhlobo. Kuxhomekeke kumntu ukuba ngaba baya kumnceda ahlangabezane nothando lokwenene. Omnye uza kukhawuleza ukuba akhethe iingubo zomtshato, kodwa umntu akayi kuba neleyo kwaye uya kuqhubeka efuna ixesha lakhe.