Namhlanje akulula kubafazi abaninzi ukuba baqhelane namadoda ngomtshato. Zonke iintsuku zabo zixakekile ngomsebenzi, ngeeveki zokuhamba ukuya kubazali babo, ngobusuku balinde uxhulumaniso kunye "nomhlobo wabo omhle" -iTV. Yaye ngobomi obunjalo akulula ukumazi nendoda onokuyifumana kamva. Kule meko, akunakwenzeka ukunceda i-intanethi, ngaphandle kokuba uncedo lwamasayithi okuthandana umfazi unokufumana umntu onokuchitha naye ubusuku. Njengoko uyazi, ezi ziza, njengomthetho, zibhaliswe ngabantu abanobukrakra ngolo hlobo lobomi bentsapho.
Ngoku, ukutyelela ubusuku bokuphumla, kwaba lula ukwenza abantu abaza kutshata nabo. La maqela omtshato afika kuthi avela eNtshona kwaye aphumelela ukuthandwa kakhulu, basombulula ngokusisigxina ingxaki ebalulekileyo, apho baqhelana khona nendoda ngobuhlobo besikhathi eside. Ininzi yamadoda angatshatanga afika kulolu busuku ufuna ukufumana umngane wobomi. Nanku ukutshatana, okudla ngokuba ngumtshintshi wamathandana omtshato nokuphula umkhonto kaMendelssohn.
Amaqela okuthandana athatyathwa kwindawo ekhululekile kwaye elula, enabo bonke abathathi-nxaxheba ukuthetha nabanye. Kwiprogram yale mibutho ephathekayo, ngaphandle kwemidaniso yomculo omnandi nomnandi, kusekho imincintiswano kunye nemidlalo, avumela intombazana enamahloni ukuba yazi kakuhle amadoda amaninzi ngokuhlwa. Okungenokwenzeka ukuba, phakathi kwabo kuya kuba kunye nomntu oza kuthi emva kobusuku uya kufuna ukuqhubezela ukunxibelelana, okuthandayo. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba umhla owawuvelela le phondo uza kuba ngumhla wokuqala kwikhalenda yakho edibeneyo.
Ukutshata nomtshato
Ukuba ucinga ukuba kulula ukujwayelana nendoda yomtshato, ngoko awuzange uzame ukwenza. Amadoda athambekele ekuvululeni uxhulumano kunye nabasetyhini, kodwa umtshato kubo abaninzi bazama inkululeko yabo. Naliphi na isicatshulwa somtshato okanye ulwalamano olunzulu kwiimeko ezili-8 ngaphandle kwe-10 lukhokelela ekuqhekekeni kwabo bonke ubudlelwane. Kwiidolophu ezinkulu ukufumana indoda yamaphupha akhe kunzima kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba umntu enze isigqibo esinzulu, kufuneka ashintshe indlela yakhe yobomi. Ngoko ke, akunakwenzeka ukwenza oku emsebenzini, kwi-nightclub, kwi-cafe okanye kwi-intanethi.
Kodwa akusiyo isizathu sokuba unesizungu, wenze sengathi ixesha lakho lingekafiki, ukuba awuyidingi. Indoda kufuneka ifumaneke apho ikhona. Amaninzi angamadoda aneengxaki ezifanayo, abakwazi ukunxibelelana nabasetyhini ngenxa yokuba neentloni zendalo, ngenxa yokudibanisa emsebenzini, ngoko ke badla ukudla kwasekuseni bodwa.
Ngokwenene uqhelana nomntu onokuthanda ukutshata mhlawumbi kunye nalawo madoda angakhange ahambe ehamba ngomgwaqo. Nabo banokuza kukhangela ubudlelwane obunzulu nabasetyhini.