Ufunde incwadana yoLuthando ixesha elide emehlweni omnye nomnye, evulekileyo ngethuba ngalinye elichithwa kunye. Uqokelele zonke iinkumbulo zakho ngendoda, ukwesaba ukulahleka into ethile, ukulahlekelwa, ukulibala. Ngoko i-albhamu ehlotshiswe ngokucokisekileyo kunye neefoto, ephupha ukubakhombisa abantwana babo kwixesha elizayo eliqaqambileyo nelisondeleyo. Ubambe izandla kwaye wawungadingi amagama amnandi - ukunyamezela ngokugqithiseleyo kuhamba ngeemvini zakho, ukutshiza nokudlulisa kwintliziyo enye ukuya kwenye. Kwakubonakala ngathi eli hlabathi lenzelwe wena kuphela, akukho nto kwaye akukho mntu uya kuliphulaphula, ayiyikuliphulaphula. Wayekhanya kakhulu ngokukhanya kwelanga, kwanelilanga elinesibhakabhaka kakhulu ekwindla, xa indalo yayidla imvula yezinyembezi ngaphandle kwefestile, kwaye imithi yayihlahlela amaqabunga. Ufumene intsimbi ekhethekileyo nakwiimvula ezimpunga: emva koko, wakunika uvakalelo lwentuthuzelo kunye nokufudumala, xa ufihliwe ngengubo ebini, ukhangele nje xa umswakama ubonakala kwiilazi zayo iipatheni ezimangalisayo. Ukwazi ukuhlala wedwa kwisihlwele, ukuba ungaboni abadlulileyo, ungaboni iinqwelo, kodwa nje ukuzonwabisa nje ukuba nisandelana. Kodwa ke kwaduma iindudumo. Into ephosakeleyo - kwaye ihlabathi liguqulwe. Yena, othandekayo nothandekayo, uxhawula into entle yakho indlebe, uxhaphaza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa ngamazwi onke afunekayo. Kwaye wena, ujwayele ukuba le ngongoma ihlala ikuxelela ngothando, awukwazi ukukholelwa iindlebe zakho kwaye uqaphele ukuba ihlabathi lakho libe liqingatha elingenanto ezimbini. Kwaye emva kokuba umnyango ukhawuleze emva kwakhe, uya kuthungela phantsi udonga kumgangatho obandayo, uphume ipakethi yee-cigarettes, ukhanyise isandla eshukumisayo kwaye uzibuze: "Ndingathini na? Indlela yokuqala ukuhlala ngokutsha emva kokuhlukana nomfana endithandayo ngaphezu kokuphila? Yiyiphi ebomini bam? " Ukukhawulela iinyembezi, uya kuthi ude uhlale ucebile, uphulaphule intliziyo yakho, eya kutshaya ihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye ihamba ngokukhawuleza ...
Vumelana: ubuhlungu buqhelekileyo imeko. Makungabikho zihlwele ezinjalo, kodwa kwakukho abanye, kungabalulekanga. Kwaye umbuzo owodwa ophazamisa emithanjeni: "Indlela yokuqala ukuhlala ngokutsha? Kwaye kukufanelekile ukuba siphile phambili? ". Kodwa simele si khumbule ukuba emva kokuhlukana, kwanokuba ubomi obunomdla kakhulu obunqwenelayo, awuvumelekanga ukuba, ngoku uye kubonakala ngathi. Kufuneka udibanise kunye, usule iinyembezi uze ugijime ekulweni.
Emva koko, yintoni isihogo asiyikuhleka, mhlawumbi unethuba elihle lokubuyisela lowo oshiye? Mhlawumbi ulwalamano lwakho lwaluqhekekile, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uthando ludlulileyo, kungekhona ngenxa yokuba wafumana enye. Mhlawumbi isizathu silele ebuhlotsheni bakho, mhlawumbi nakweyakho. Ngona nothando oluqinileyo lunikezelwa kwizilingo, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kunzima ukuhlala. Kufuneka silungele oku. Kwaye ezinye izibini azikwazi ukwenza oku - ngenxa yoko, ngaphandle kokuhlukana, abaza. Ngoko cinga: kwakukho konke ukuzola kunye nobumnene kulwalamano lwakho? Okanye, mhlawumbi ube neengxabano kunye neentlanzi ezonakalisa i-crystal ephosakeleyo yothando lwakho? Kwaye, ukuba uzama ukulungisa yonke into kwaye ufumane ukulungelelanisa, unako ukubuyela kwisikwere esinye?
Ukukunceda kule nto unokukwenza, umzekelo, umsebenzi ozithandayo. Ngaba unayo ihobby? Sebenza ngokusondeleyo, phumla, phuhlise, nandipha into oyenzayo. Shintsha uhlobo lomsebenzi - akukho nto ikukhumbuza ngobomi obudlulileyo. Dlulisa umphefumlo wakho ngemibala kwinqanawa, ufeze intlungu yakho ngemicu enemibala, udlale ibali luthando lwakho kwisixhobo ozithandayo - kwaye intliziyo iya kuphila kwaye iya kutshintshwa.
Ukuba konke okukufutshane kukukhumbuza ngako, zama ukutshintsha imeko ngokufutshane. Ukuba unezihlobo ezilungileyo kwelinye idolophu-ezimangalisayo! Fumana ukuba baya kukunceda inyanga nesigamu? Kwinkampani yabanye kunye nawe kulula kwaye uyonwabile, uya kuphinda uphuthuke kunye nemibala yonke kwaye uqale ukulibala malunga nezinto oye wazibona kungekudala. Ewe, xa ubuyela ekhaya, iinkumbulo kunye nokulangazelela kuya kuvuselela kuwe, kodwa oku akunakukuphepha - kuyasichukumisa umoya wakho. Zibanike nje, zivuyiswe kuzo zonke izinto ezilungileyo, kwaye zingasikhubeki ngokubi. Kancinci, iinkumbulo ziya kushiya ikhaya lakho - kwaye usenokuphefumula ngokukhululekile kwiindonga zakho.
Uyayazi le proverb: "Ingqungquthela ibanjwe ngendoda"? Amagama afanelekileyo, ngakumbi kwiimeko zethu. Zama umfana omncinci kunye nomntu ontlekayo, uye kwikhofe kunye nomfana, mvumele ukuba ube nxamnye ne-pruadarit yakho. Into eyona nto kukuba akayithandi kakhulu kwimigudu yakhe kwaye ayikubangela ukuba ube nomnqweno onzima wokubalekela kule nto. Nangona kunjalo, umgca wokuziphatha wesithandwa esitsha kuxhomekeka kwiindlela zakho zokuziphatha kunye nokuba ungamvumela kangakanani. Musa ukucinga ukuba bonke abantu bangabakhohlisi, mhlawumbi kukho umntu ofanelekile kwaye othembekileyo phambi kwakho ngoku, memeze kakhulu kwaye ujabulele oko unomdla kuyo. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuzithemba, okuwa phantsi kakhulu emva kokuqhekeka nzima kunye nomntu othandekayo. Emva koko, siqala ukucinga ngokukhawuleza: yintoni ephosakeleyo kuthi kwaye kutheni eyashiya? Kwaye sifumana iimpazamo ezininzi, sibaxhela ngekhanda lethu eliqaqambileyo kwaye sicinga ukuba ngeemigodi ezinjalo asiyi kuba nolonwabo kubomi. Kwaye kungenanto-ukufakwa kobuqu obomi obungasiphumeleli buya kuba yinto engafanelekiyo.
Ukuphelisa ukwahlukana nomntu esimnqula kunye nokuthanda ngaphezu kokuphila kwethu kunzima kakhulu, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ubomi bakho apha bubeka amanqaku amaninzi. Khumbula, yinto nje yecala phambi kwesigatshana esitsha esingaphantsi, vumela ukuba kwenzeke - kwaye awuyi kubona naziphi na iimpawu zokubhala ngokubomi bakho bonke. Emva koko, ngubani owaziyo, ngokukhawuleza, ngomso uya kudibana nothando lokwenene, oluya kuzisa uvuyo?