Akusiyo into yokuba izazinzulu zaseBrithani, zenze uvavanyo lweesetyhula zeliso eliqhelekileyo lomntu, zifumene into ekhethekileyo yabasetyhini. I-angle yokubukeka yowesifazane oqhelekileyo ogqithiseleyo kudlula ukuhlaziywa kweso lesilisa ngama-30-40 degrees! Le nyaniso kwaye awukwazi ukuphikisana naye. Isiphumo salolu phiko siqinisekiso sokuthi abafazi abaphenduleli iintloko zabo kumntu ongaqhelekanga, kodwa babona iziboniso zakhe ngokugqibeleleyo njengoko indoda ijika ikhanda. Oku kuvela kwinyaniso enomdla ngakumbi, yintoni eyenza ingqalelo kumantombazana xa ibona umfana, ngokuqhelekileyo ukumomotheka kwaye ubunzima bobubanzi bungathathi ngaphezu kwemizuzwana engama-1-3.
Ukuthelekiswa nomgaqo wesilisa wokuvavanya umfazi, oquka ukuhlalutya ngokukodwa komfazi ukusuka entloko ukuya enzwaneni, kuthatha ngaphezu kwemizuzwana emihlanu. Zonke ezi zilingo ezingenabuhlungu kunye novavanyo kunye nabantu abahlukeneyo ngokwesini zibonisa ukuba nayiphi na ibhinqa inamachule ngakumbi nangakumbi kunamadoda ngokusekelwe kwimimandla eyimimandla eyimfuneko kwaye oku kufuneka kunyanzeliswe kwisiqingatha esisisiseko sabantu. Izambatho zinendima encinci ekutsaleni ingqalelo kwintombazana. Imfashini, isicatshulwa, umbala okhethiweyo okhethwe yimpahla yomntu uya kuphulaphula ingqalelo intombazana enentlonelo. Kwaye ukuba kuseyinto enobungakanani bonyaka, impumelelo yokukhangela isigxina esincomekayo nesincinci somntu siqinisekiswe ngama-50%.
Lo mfana kufuneka nje ahluthe iminwe yakhe aze amomotheka, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba abe nexesha lokucinga malunga nantoni na, intombazana iya kumphendula ngokumomotheka kunye nomdla omkhulu kumntu wakhe. Musa ukuyikhumbula into yokuba yonke intombazana esecaleni lophuhliso lwakhe ngokwesondo ikhula engqondweni yakhe kunye nohlobo lokukhetha kwakhe kwikamva. Kamva, xa ugxininisa kumfokazi, ubonakala ezama ukucinga kwakhe ngomntu wangempela. Ngengozi yecala elikhulile elikhulileyo elinomntu okwenene phezu kweninzi yemigqaliselo, kukho umdla omkhulu omkhulu. Kwaye ukuphuhliswa okuqhubekayo kweziganeko sele kuxhomekeke ekubeni nako ukukwazi ukuziphatha xa udibana nomntu. Unamandla amakhulu kunye ngexesha elifanayo elingabonakaliyo kwabanye abavakalelwa kukuba kunyanzelekile ukunika ingqwalaselo ephezulu kumntu unelisekile kuphela ngumhlobo.
Intombazana ibeka ingqwalasela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubafana ngokungabonakali kwindalo, equlethwe ngamandla akhe amnandi kunye nokuzinza kwengqondo kwimizuzu yokuqala yokuqala kwintlanganiso. Abantu abaninzi bawubiza ngokuthi uthando ekuqaleni kokubona! Kodwa musa ukukhawuleza, ukuba uluthando, ke aluyi kukukwenza ukuba ufihle. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva uya kuqonda ukuba yonke into ekhoyo kweli hlabathi ineendawo zayo kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo liyakuthandeka kubo bonke abantu emhlabeni wethu. Emva kwakho konke, uthando lunomdla omkhulu kunye nomntu ofanayo kunye nentombazana.