Ngoko, ukunyaniseka komntu ngumda wephupha okanye ubusuku obubi? Ukuze uqonde le meko, kufuneka uqonde ukuba uthanda kangakanani. Xa umntu ewela entliziyweni, ingcinezelo yakhe ayisoze idangele. Ngokuphambene noko, le ntombazana iyavuya kuba umntu onjalo ufezekisa. Inyaniso yokuba umfana uqinisile, uya kubona kuphela ipros. Emva koko, ngoku, xa ujikeleze ukuvunyelwa, abafana bafumana umntu. Kwaye, kuba kukho intombazana emininzi evuma yonke into.
Ukuba lo mntu uqinisekisileyo kwaye akafuni ukubuyela ekhaya, ngoko uyakuthanda kwaye iimvakalelo zakhe zinyani. Kule meko, umfana wololu hlobo ngumda wangempela wamaphupha. Emva kwakhe, ibhinqa ivakalelwa njengenkosikazi yangempela, ngenxa yokuba i-knight iya kubulala ama-dragons kwaye ikhangele i-firebird. Enyanisweni, kwiilonons zamanamhlanje kunye nezilwanyana zomlilo zineziganeko zabo, kodwa inyaniso yokuba indoda ilungele ukwenza yonke into ngenxa yentombazana yamaphupha akhe ayikwazi ukuvuya. Kodwa, nangona umntu ethanda, kufuneka kubekho umda. Ukugqithisa kakhulu, izipho ezixabisa kakhulu kunye nokukhathalela kakhulu, nazo ziqala ukuzala. Intombazana iyeka ukuyiqonda yonke into, ithatha ixesha elide, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha liyacaphuka.
Ngako oko, bafazi bathanda, xa abantu beyazi umda kwaye ekuqaleni bayazi indlela yokuzikhusela iimvakalelo zabo, kungekhona ukunyanzelisa ubukho babo kwaye bahloniphe iimfuno zelo bhinqa. Amantombazana anamhlanje asele asetyenziselwa ukuba umntu unokufuna ingqwalasela kungeyiyure okanye ngosuku, kakhulu uyaqonda ukukwazi ukunqoba ngokufanelekileyo umfazi. Xa umfana eguqula ubomi bakhe ube yiphupha elihle, akakwazi ukulixabisa. Ewe, kwimeko apho indoda ithandayo. Kwakunzima ukuba oogogo bafumane iintyatyambo kunye nezipho ezivela kumaqela athile ngexesha elinye, kwinyanga engaphezu kweyodwa. Bakhetha ukuthula, phantse ngaphandle kokunikela ingqalelo kwiimpawu zokuqwalasela. Kwaye kuthi, iimeko ezinjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, zinjengephupha kunokoqobo. Ngoko ke, nawuphi na umfazi oqhelekileyo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, uya kuqonda le mpawu. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kunika ngokukhawuleza kunokuba akwazi, kuba abafana banqabile, kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukulahlekelwa yiyo. Nangona, ukuba unomdla ololo hlobo, akukafaneli ufune ukukhawuleza. Cinga malunga nokuba unokwenza ntoni ukuba wayengaziniki izipho aze athathwe ngenye indlela.
Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba awuyi kuqalisa ukwakha ubudlelwane naye ngaphambili, ukuba kungekhona indlela yakhe yokuthandana, ngoko awukhokelwa yimvakalelo yakhe, kodwa uyamhlonela ngendlela yokufezekisa. Kwaye akukuhle kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba ungamthandi umntu ngokwakhe, kodwa ukuthanda kwakhe okubanzi kunye nezipho ezibiza. Kulo mzekelo, kuyimfuneko ukuhlala phantsi uze uziqonde ngokuzenzekelayo, uhlolisise ngokuziphatha ngobulumko kunye nokuziphatha kwakho, kunye nokuphendula kwakho kulezi zinto okanye ezinye izenzo. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba unomdla ngokucinga kwakhe, kodwa yena ngokwakhe akayithandeki kuwe, kukulungele ukulinda okanye ukucacisa loo mfana ukuba imizamo yakhe ayilutho, ngoko awufuni ukuthatha ixesha lakhe kwaye uyaphule intliziyo yakhe. Kodwa, ukuba uyayiqonda loo nto kwaye uthanda, kwaye isimo sakhe sengqondo nesimilo sakhe sishukumisa kakhulu iimvakalelo, ngoko unako ukuhlala unomdla kwaye uqale ulonwabele ulwalamano lwakho, uvuyo ukuba intsha yakho iphakathi kwalabo bambalwa abasayazi indlela ube nesibindi kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo ukuze umfazi angathanda ukuba kufuphi naye.
Kodwa, nini na ukuba inkwenkwe yenkwenkwezi ibe yintlungu? Ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kwenzekayo xa umntu, ngokumane, engathandi. Yaye ukuba akayenzi, njengokungathi akazange aziphathe, kodwa akakwazi ukutshintsha into, kwaye uya kuthukuthelisa ngakumbi. Ngelishwa, abafana abayiqondi le nto. Bakholelwa ukuba banokuyithanda intombazana ukuba bayinikela izipho, benze imiqondiso emihle kwaye bangalokothi bayeke. Akunakucinga ukuba ukuziphatha kwabo kuguqula ubomi bentombazana ibe yintlungu. Intombazana iyeka ukuziva ukuba yedwa yedwa. Uvakalelwa kukuba umntu umjonga rhoqo kwaye akamvumeli ukuba aphumle. Uyakhathala ngeefowuni rhoqo kunye nezicelo zeentlanganiso. Ukuba le nkosikazi ayifaki iifowuni, umfana ubiza ngaphandle kokuyeka, ukubhala kwiinkonzo zentlalo kunye nokukhangela intlanganiso. Ukunyaniseka, ngamanye amaxesha lo mpawu awugcini nje ngokukrakra, kodwa ukwesalisa. Amantombazana aqala ukuvakalelwa ukuba adibene ne-maniac. Ngendlela, ngamanye amaxesha abafazi bachanekile. Ngako oko, ukuba ummangaliso wakho oqala ukukusongela okanye ukutshutshisa ngokwenene, kungcono ukuxela abantu abangakukhusela: abahlobo okanye abazalwana. Makhe bathethe naye baze bachaze ukuba awufuni ukuba nolwalamano nalo mntu. Kwaye ukuba akayiqondi intetho ehlazileyo kunye neengxabano, ngoko ukusetyenziswa kwamandla emzimbeni akuyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo.
Abasetyhini bafuna ukufunwa ngabantu, kodwa kuphela abo abanomdla kunye noluntu abawuthandayo. Ukuba abafana abayiyo into enomnqweno kubo, kodwa kunoko isizathu sokubacaphukisa, ngoko ke amantombazana ayaxabisa kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba "akukho" kuthetha "hayi" kwaye ngexesha lokuhamba ngaphandle kokumisela ingqwalasela kunye nobukho babo. Yingakho indoda enamandla ingaba yiphupha kunye nesibetho. Kwaye kulungile ukuba abafana banokuqonda ukuba bahlala nini na ukuba njani, nokuba baphinde baphumelele ngaphambi kokuba sifune ukuzithumela kude kwaye zide kakhulu. Indoda enamandla, owaziyo ukwenza indlela ebanzi yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha ngokunyamezela, kufuneka kwakhona ikwazi ukubuyela emlonyeni, kwaye ingaphenduli ibe yimfuyo eya kufumana into ayifunayo, nangayiphi na indlela, kwaye umbono womnye umntu awuyi kumkhathaza.