Njengoko umqeshwa wam wathetha komnye wabasebenzi: "Andiyena umfazi emsebenzini, ndingumsebenzi emsebenzini". Kuyafana okufanayo malunga nomfazi-nkokheli. Kodwa ukuba, ekungeneni kwinqununu yeofisi yakhe, akazange akhuphe "isigqubuthelo sekhanda" kwaye akazange akhumbule ukuba wayesengumfazi, ngoko ingxaki izalwa yodwa.
Umfazi kunye nezinto eziphambili
Kwabafazi abathile, ukuphakanyiswa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi liphantse kulukhuni. Baye baxhamla emsebenzini wabo kangangokuba "imbono X" ihlala nabo kwiphupha. Kodwa, akuyiyo imfihlo kunoma ngubani na umfazi ofuna ukuthanda, ukuqonda ngokuvisisana nolwahlukileyo, intuthuzelo yentsapho, kwaye ekugqibeleni, ngesondo. Umfazi wesifazane uqala ukubheka umona ngabanye abafazi, obomi babo bobuqu bobabini kunye ne-plus. Yile ndlela "abaphathi abakhohlakeleyo" bazalwa ngayo, obomi babo bungazange bahlakulele, kwaye bazama ukuphosa yonke ingqumbo yabo nokunganeliseki kwabo baphantsi, amantombazana amantombazana, asemacaleni abo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ngamanye amaxesha, umfazi udibanisa emsebenzini kunye nentloko ngenxa yesizathu esilula ukuba ebomini bakhe kukho ukuhluleka kokuthanda. Xa umntu ephosa umfazi, mhlawumbi ufumana unxantathu, okanye ufuna ukutshintshwa ngokufanelekileyo, okanye uzama ukufakazela, okokuqala, ukuba ulahlekelwe ngumcimbi ofanelekileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, yena, lona wesifazane, ulawula yonke imikhosi yayo ukufikelela eziphakamileyo zomsebenzi kwaye, ngokusemthethweni, uphumelele kakhulu. Khawukhumbule ngokukhawuleza ifilimu "UMoscow akakholelwa kwiinyembezi" - umzekelo omiselweyo wesifazane oshiyiweyo, kodwa ozinelisayo.
INtloko ukusebenza
Ukuba umfazi ufezekisa yonke into, ngoko, ngamanye amaxesha, kuyimfuneko ukusebenza kangangoko, ukuba inkcazo yexesha lobomi bodwa ayanele. Kwaye, ngokugqithiseleyo kwexesha, kuvela ibali lebhanki: "Iziko liye lagqiba, lenza umsebenzi, lithenge indlu, litshatile. Ewe! Ndilibale ukuba ndibe nosana! "
Ndiyithande kakhulu imbono yeso sikazi-boss, endinomdla wokuthetha naye ngandlela-thile. Yena, okokuqala, wazibonela njengomfazi, njengomama, kwaye emva koko, emva kwemashumi amathathu, waqala ukwakha umsebenzi wakhe kwaye, ekuvuyiseni okukhulu, waphumelela yonke into. "Eyokuqala, intsapho, yenza intombazana ibe ngumfazi, kwaye ngokuzimelela njengomntu, umsebenzi, njl njl. Ukuba ibhinqa lingawenzi umsebenzi - inxenye engalunganga, ukuba ibhinqa lingazalanga umntwana, ngoko ayiyi kuba yindoda engama-100%, "Ndicinga, amagama egolide ndiwavelayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha umsebenzi uthatha ixesha elininzi kangangokuthi akukho nhlobo yexesha lentsapho. Kubonakala ukuba abantwana bakhula ngokwabo, kuba abazali "benza umsebenzi." Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, kubalulekile ukunika umsebenzi ofanelekileyo, kodwa ungayikhohlwa malunga nabantwana, emva koko, malunga nomyeni. Ukuba umsebenzi wakho uthatha ubomi bakho bonke, ke kukufanelekile ukuba ucinge ukuba uyayifaneleka, nokuba ufanelekile ubomi bakho ...
Emsebenzini - inkokheli ekhaya - ithambile, iyinyameko kwaye iyathobela
Umphathi-wesifazane udla ngokubambe iqhaza ekwenzeni kwakhe ukuba le nxaxheba yomphathi iqala ukuzaliseka ekhaya. Kodwa abantu bathanda ubumnene, abanomusa nabathandekayo. Ulwaphulo olugqithisileyo kunye nobunkokeli bangabonakalisa kakubi ubudlelwane babo. Ewe, ukuba umyeni wakho akakwazi ukwenza izigqibo zakhe, mhlawumbi kufuneka wenze izigqibo ngokwakho, kodwa ngelo xesha, musa ukubeka indoda kumntu, kholelwa mna, inomdla wakho.
Umsebenzi wokuqala, ngoko-ntsapho okanye ngokuphambene naso?
Ngoko, umsebenzi ubalulekile kuwe, kodwa awuyikuyeka ukucinga malunga nokuba ngaba inkokhelikazikazi inokuyonwaba ebomini bakhe. Okokuqala, faka izinto eziphambili, uhlolisise ngokwaneleyo, okubaluleke kakhulu kuwe: ikhaya kunye nosapho okanye intsapho yakho kunye nomsebenzi wakho ekhaya. Xa uphendula le mibuzo elula, uya kuqonda indlela yokubeka phambili.
Izinto eziphambili zizinto zakho zobomi. Yaye ukuba injongo yakho yobomi iyonwabela ubomi bentsapho, kwaye umsebenzi wakho udinga imihlatshelo eninzi ukuze ufikelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, ngoko ndicinga ukuba intsapho ayifanelekanga loo nto. Ngexesha elifanayo, ukuba ungobuchule kunye nomsebenzi wakho ukufikelela eziphakamileyo zemisebenzi, ngoko ke unesibindi uya kwiinjongo ezijoliswe kuzo, kodwa ungakhononda ngokungafihli ngasese.
Indlela yokuphuma
Kodwa kukho nentsingiselo yegolide. Asiyikulibala ukuba sonke sisebenza, ngamanye amaxesha ubude kwaye sibuhlungu, kodwa ngelo xesha, siyakwazi ukuba ngumama nomfazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo umsebenzi weenkokeli zowesibini ngumsebenzi oqhelekileyo wokusebenza kwindoda eqhelekileyo, ngoko kutheni ufaneleke ukuyeka "iingalo zikaRhulumente".
Mhlawumbi wena uyintloko yoshishino lentsapho, ungumnini wexesha lakho, ngoko unokuluhlela njengoko kuya kuhambelana nawe kunye nosapho lwakho. Ngaba akuyona inhlanganisela epheleleyo?
Kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla, unokwenza isigqibo esilula: konke kusezandleni zakho. Ulonwabo lwenkokheli yowesifazane ngokuxhomekeke kuye, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuvuyiswa, ngoko uya kuba njalo, kuba ngubani, ongeyena ngokwakhe, kufuneka azi indlela yokufezekisa nokufezekisa ithagethi. Ukufumana ulonwabo lwentsapho, kunye nokufezekisa iindawo zokuphakama, ziinjongo zobomi eziya kufezwa ngabo bafuna.