Wonke umntu ufuna ukuthanda nokuthandwa. Kwaye mayeke amaqhinqa athi aphindwe mawaka kangangokuba abadinga amadoda, entliziyweni, onke amabhinqa amaphupha okuyimfuneko, ayifunayo, eyona nto ibhetele kwaye iyamangalisa kakhulu. Ewe, kuyinto encinci kwaye ilula, mhlawumbi, ayiphumelekanga. Kodwa emva koko, bonke abafazi babesakuba ngamantombazana amancinci, awakhuliswa ngeendaba zobuxoki malunga neenkosana. Abo bantu banamandla kakhulu, banomusa kwaye baqonda abantu abathandekayo abanokukuthanda kanye kanye nangobomi bonke, kwanaxa bengayiboni. Ewe, ubomi buyinto evezayo. Ngeze kube lula kwaye kukhulu, kwaye phakathi kwamadoda anamhlanje akunakwenzeka ukuba ahlangabezane nesikhulu. Ngokuqinisekileyo, endaweni ethile-ezi ziimpawu eziyingqayizivele zihleli, kodwa ziyinto engavamile kwimigangatho yethu, njengama-pandas kunye nezikhwebu ezinama-saber. Amadoda anamhlanje akacingi ngothando. Baba ngumngcwabo kunye neengqungquthela. Yingakho, ngokuphindaphindiweyo amantombazana azibuza: Yintoni enokuyenza ukuze indoda ithande ibe namandla?
Njengoko akukrakra ukuvuma, kodwa abafana banamhlanje kufuneka bahlale. Kukho izilingo ezininzi kwihlabathi lethu, kwaye, amadoda ethu, athambekele ekugqibeleni i-wrappers ukuba awuyi kuba nexesha lokukhanyisa iliso, njengoko sele lingekho. Kungenxa yoko, ukuze ugcine umntu omthandayo (kwaye uyamthanda, ngenxa yokuba akukho mntu uya kuphazamiseka ngenxa yento engathandekiyo kwaye engadingekile) kuzo zonke izenzo zakho nezenzo zakho, kufuneka udibanise ngandlela-thile i-instinct yazo.
Wonke umntu emphefumlweni ungumzingeli. Kwaye umfazi kuye, nguloo roe ofanayo, apho wayexoshe iintaba kunye namawaka amabini kunye namawaka eminyaka edlulileyo. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukuba wambamba naye, ngokukhawuleza xa eyeka, ngexesha elinye, intshisekelo yanyamalala. Ngoko kunye nabasetyhini. Andizange ndibe nexesha lokuyivula, yithemba, yikho konke. Uyakhathazeka, unxolise, kwaye sele sele ekhangele i-roe deer entsha. Ngoko yintoni enokuyenza ukuze indoda ithande inamandla - inomdla kubafundi bethu
Yingakho, umthetho wokuqala ongabhalwanga uthi: ungaze uvule phambi kwentanda yakho. Awudingi ukumxelela yonke i-biografi yakho, yazise malunga nenyathelo ngalinye, ukubuyisela zonke iingxoxo ngefowuni. Ewe, oku akuthethi ukuba ufanele udlale ii-agents ezifihlakeleyo, uzifihle ngefowuni yeselula kwindawo yokuhlambela kwaye uphendule yonke imibuzo ngokuthula okungaqondakaliyo. Kukho konke okufuneka ukwazi umlinganiselo.
Ngamanye amaxesha akufanelekanga ukuthetha nayiphi na inkcukacha, ungaqali kuqala ukukuxelela oko kwenzeka kuwe ngosuku. Ewe, kwaye ityhubhu, ngendlela, awukwazi ukuyithatha. Ngamanye amaxesha. Ukukhawuleza kokukhanya komona akuphazamisi. Intanda yakho kufuneka ikuthembele. Kodwa ngelo xesha, ungaqinisekanga ngokupheleleyo kwaye uyaqiniseka ukuba uya kuhlala ngonaphakade kwaye akuyi kuguqula nantoni na.
Lo ngumgaqo nombolo yesibini: unganiki ngokupheleleyo. Awunakuphinda uphinda imihla ngemihla ebomini bakho, umoya, ukutya kunye namanzi. Akufuneki ukuba uqinisekise umntu othandayo ukuba uya kuzalisekisa nayiphi na isicelo. Kwanokuzilimaza ngokwakhe. Ukuba ukwenze kucacise ukuba ngaphandle kwakho awukho nje, ukuba ulahlekile kuyo, ngaloo ndlela ulahlekelwa yesazisi, ngoko uvele ube yinto yayo. Kwaye nezinto zakho ozithandayo zihlala zithandeka. Kwaye xa edlala nawe, kuphelile ukukhala kwaye ucele: yintoni enokuyenza ukuze umntu athande ngakumbi. Ngenxa yokuba uthando luye lwadlulile.
Ngendlela, malunga nothando kunye nokuthetha kwayo. Lo mbuzo ungabonwa ukuba ulawulo ezintathu. Awudingi ukufumana imibuzo yomntu: "Uyandithanda?", Ndixelele ukuba kutheni ungathethi kangako ngothando? "," Andiyidingi na? ", Njll. Ingqondo yesintu ihluke ngokupheleleyo kwintombi. Abafana baqinisekisa iimvakalelo zabo ngezenzo kunamazwi. Kungenxa yoko, abaqondi nje isizathu sokuba bathethe xa yonke into ibonakala. Kwaye ukuvutha kwakho kukubangela ukuba bacaphuke.
Kwaye sijika ukulawula ezine: musa ukunyanzelisa. Musa ukunyanzelisa uthando, ungagxininisi imbono, ungagunyazisi. Ngokukodwa ukugcinwa. Uyakhathazeka ukuba unxibe ngokufudumele, nokuba uyadla kakuhle, wayala itekisi, ukuze afike kwiqela abenabo nabahlobo bakhe. Uyazi ukuba ungubani? Ungumama. Ingaba ufuna ngokwenene umntwana omdala oza kuba mnqabileyo, ahlele amacwecwe kwaye akuxhase, wazi ukuba uya kumxolela nangayiphi na imeko? Akunjalo.
Kumele ube yinduna, endikhuselayo, malunga neyona nkxalabo kunye nokoyika ukuba ayilahle. Khumbula: uyakhathazeka ngomntu oyintanda, kwaye ukumkhathaza izinto ezahlukeneyo. Kuyo yonke into kufuneka ibe negolide yegolide. Enye esiyithethayo kumgaqo wesihlanu: ukuzithiba. Zonke iimvakalelo zakho kufuneka zibe njengolwandle kwimozulu elungileyo, xa umoya ovuthayo uqhuba amaza amancinci olwandle. Yaye ukuba la maza ajika abe yintsimbi yesithoba - isandi i-alamu. Ngenxa yokuba indoda yakho isele ibetha kuyo zonke iintsimbi. Abafana abayimi kwaye bayesaba ukubonakalisa ukuvakalelwa kweemvakalelo. Ingaba uluthando, uvuyo, intlungu okanye iinyembezi. Yi bulumko. Ufuna ukugxotha abahlaziyi - kungcono ushiye ekamelweni, uhambe, wenze nantoni na ukuyenza imvakalelo ihambe. Amadoda akhathazeke kakhulu ngenxa yokuzola, ukuzola. Kodwa ukukhala kwakho kuyacaphukisa kwaye kunceda ukujika yonke into. Khawukhumbule ukuba mangaphi amanxeba enje aqala kunye nenyaniso yokuba wayenetyala, kwaye ekugqibeleni, sele unetyala. Ngoko yenza izigqibo.
Yaye ube yindoda yangempela. Ibhinqa elicebisayo, kodwa lingabonakali, linceda, kodwa lugxininisa, luthanda, kodwa lugxininise nothando lwakhe.
Umzingeli wakho kufuneka azi ukuba i-roe deer iyakonakala emva komthi. Hayi, akayi kuceba ukwenza oku, kwaye akayi kumthusa. Kodwa unako. Ngenxa yokuba ungumfazi onamandla kwaye onamahhala. Unako ukunyusa ubomi, unamandla kunye neetalente ukufezekisa ezininzi. Kwaye akayi kuphinda alahleke xa ephendukela ekubeni yedwa. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, kufuneka ukuba uzive ukuba ufuna inkxaso kunye nokuqonda kwakhe, ukulungele ukwenza izilungiso kunye nokusombulula iingxaki. Kodwa awusoze waba yipopu engacabangi ezandleni zakhe.
Amadoda okwenene abathanda abafazi bonyani kuphela. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuba olo thando lungagcini, soloko uhlale umfazikazi ohlakaniphile. Emva koko, umfazi, okokuqala, ubulumko. Ngoko ke, lumke kuzo zonke iimeko, kwaye awuyi kuhlupheka.
