Kubonakala ngathi ulonwabo luyilo elingenanto. Kwaye, eqinisweni, ngelizwi lonke, sonke sifuna into efanayo - ukuba umntu uza kulinda umntu ekhaya, njengokuba wonke umntu uphilile kunye nayo yonke into kuloo moya. Kodwa kufuneka uvumelane, ngokuba ngamnye wethu unolonwabo olukhulu kunye nolonwabo oluthile, ngokuthi ngamanye amaxesha sikubiza ngokuthi "uvuyo oluncinane." Ngoko makhe sibone apho ulonwabo lomntu luhleli khona. Yaye yintoni indima yabasetyhini kwinkqubo "yolonwabo".
Imoto
Intetho, yebo, iya kuhamba ngemoto. Le yinto engcwele yengcwele yakho. Intsimi yakhe, inzala yakhe, isithandwa sakhe sesibini. Uxanduva lwemoto kumadoda lilingana noxanduva lomhlobo okanye umntwana. Eyona nto ayikho konke kubiza, kodwa kuba nje ngokuba amadoda ethu angama-tacostroene. Thenga i-rediyo entsha "ubuhle" babo - olu lunwabo. Kwaye abayidingi ijelo elitsha kuze kube yilapho kuthengwa amathayi asebusika. Yaye imali ayiyena intlungu xa ithe yafika kwisondlo sayo seselula.
Umama wakho ngumama wakho
Ama-Anecdotes malunga noninazala abonakala ngesizathu. Nangona umthandi wakho enolwalamano oluhle nomzali wakho, akuthethi ukuba ulungele ukuyicinga imihla ngemihla endlwini yakho okanye, ngakumbi, ukwabelana nge-nihil. Ukuba ulwalamano phakathi kwentombazana yakho kunye nonyoko, oluxubileyo luthethiweyo, lucacisiwe, ngoko luya kuvuyisa luya kuba lula - lunciphise iziganeko ubuncinci. Omnye uya kuthi oku kuphosakeleyo, kodwa eneneni, mhlawumbi awufuni ukubona ubuso bakhe obunganelisekanga okanye ukumva. Awukwazi ukulungisa imeko leyo, kodwa ungayonakalisi imeko yakho kwaye ukhethe okonwabileyo. Kunele ukuqokelela ndawonye ngeeholide.
Umsebenzi wesibini - ikhaya
Ngubani phakathi kwethu ongaphupha ngomsebenzi onjalo, esingabaleka ukusasa ekuseni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umsebenzi wam ozithandayo uyonwabile. Enye into xa iingxaki zivela emsebenzini. Amantombazana angasuka kude nawo aze azibale ngokwabo ekuthandweni komntu othandekayo, kuba amadoda kunzima kakhulu. Bona kunye nezindlu ziya kuba nokucwangcisa icebo lokulungisa imeko, kwaye ukungapheli kwenu nokungafuni ukuqonda ukuba kutheni kukhululekile kwaye kungagxininiseki kuwe kuya kucaphukisa nje. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kubalulekile ukubonisa ukuqonda. Funda ukuqonda xa umntu wakho efuna wena, kwaye xa ufuna ukumshiya wedwa.
Kukho-kulungile, kodwa kukulungile ukutya - kungcono
Indlela eya entliziyweni yomuntu .... Wonke umntu uyakhumbula oko esi siqephu siphelile. Akukho mntu uya kugxeka nelokuba ukuba intombazana inokupheka, oku kuhlanganiswe kakhulu kwirekhodi yakhe yomfazi ozayo. Yaye ukuba intombazana inokuziqhayisa ngeendlela ezingavamile zokuphelisa, ngoko ke akanalo xabiso. Okokuqala, amadoda afana nokutya ngokumnandi, kunye nokutya okwenziwe ekhaya kuseloko kunobuninzi kunokutya okunokulondolozwa kwendawo yokutya okanye ivenkile zokutya. Okwesibini, qhayisa phakathi kwabahlobo ukuba ngokuhlwa wadla inkukhu yaseTabaka, ephekwe ngobuchule yintando yakhe, amaphupha elowo mntu. Ukongeza, wena ngokwakho uya kuvuya, ukhangela ubuso obonwabileyo bomyeni wakho, xa uya kugubha amathambo.
Injongo, injongo, injongo!
Akunabo bonke abantu abalandeli bebhola, kodwa baninzi baninzi. Kwaye akukho nto ingenziwa. Ukuba umdlalo obalulekileyo useTV, ke, nina maantombazana, uya kuvela kwimvelaphi, kwaye ukuba le nsizwa inayo ithikithi kwaye umdlalo ufumaneke, unakho ukulibala ngobusuku obuthandana ngokukhanya kwekhandlela. Yintoni oyenzayo? Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokuphuma: owokuqala ukwamkela nokuhamba, emva koko, ibhola ibonisa yonke imihla; okwesibini ukujoyina yena, ukwabelana ngeminqweno yakhe. Enyanisweni, akubona onke amantombazana alungele ukhetho lwesibini. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba umdlalo ufike ekugqibeleni, kwaye yonke imibala yayo iya kuxutyushwa kwinkampani yamadoda, umthandi wakho uza kubuya kwiingalo zakho ezinamandla kwakhona kwaye uyavuya.
Ijoni
Imilinganiselo yamadoda ebuntwini besifazane kunye nokuziphatha ingaba nzima, kodwa zonke ziyakubhalwa kwisikimu esinye: ekhitshini - inkosikazi, ebhedini - ukunyanzela, kwintloni. Ngoko kuvela ukuba ibhinqa kufuneka libe yindoda ehlabathini jikelele. Emva koko uya kuvuya. Ngoku abafazi banomdla wokuzihlonela, bathi, kutheni sonke siyakwazi ukwenza oku. Rasslabljtes, mantombazana, sonke sinqwenela oku, ngaphandle kokunyuka komntu. Ngoko ngokwenene, ngamnye wethu uyintsimi yeetalente, kungokuthi sonke asivule okanye asizange sibe nabani na ukuba bavulele. Ngoko kunokwenzeka ukuba imfihlelo eyinyaniso yolonwabo oyintanda ikukho.
Abahlobo bangcwele
Ukuba ngumfundi, umntu usetyenziselwa ukuhlangana nabahlobo xa ecinga. Kwaye ngoku, xa enako, kufuneka atshintshe into ethile. Ngokombono wam, oku kungafanelekanga. Kwaye kwinqanaba elithile ulungile. Kucacile, izambatho zokulala ziza kumeka okanye zinciphise ubuncinci, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba iinyanga zasebusuku zikaLwesihlanu ziya kupheliswa. Mkhulule umnqweno, kwaye indoda yakho iya kuba kubahlobo abavuyayo ukubuyela kuwe.
"... ndiza kuzala iqhawe likayise kaTsar"
Ukuzalwa komntwana kumntu kubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye ukuzalwa kwonyana kuholide. Oku akuthethi ukuba intombazana iya kuyithandana encinane, kwenzeka nje ukuba ukuzalwa "kwabasimili basekhaya" abameli beqhayiya elinamandla ngakumbi. Ewe, apha akunakwenzeka ukuba unokwenza impembelelo ngandlela-thile, kodwa unemizamo emininzi.
Njengoko uyakubona, amadoda ayenabo abancinci bawo, abenza umfanekiso opheleleyo wenwabe. Kwaye inxaxheba yakho kule nkqubo yona nto ingabalulekanga.