Into enye iyaziwa: kulula ukufumana indoda emtshatweni, ukuba ucingisisa. Ngoko siya kuzama ukudibanisa ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye siyiqonde into yokuba indoda ifanelekileyo ubuhlobo obunzulu. Kwaye abantu abanako ukukwazi ukwakha intsapho. Kuvela ukuba ukuba uyaziphepha ezi ntlobo ezingaqhelekanga, ngoko nabo bonke abanye abafake izicelo, ngaphandle kwabo, uya kuba nethuba lokudala intsapho eyonwabileyo.
Unyana kaMama
Amadoda anjalo ayanene, aphulaphule, athathaka ngobudlelwane bawo. Ngokukhawuleza banika umtshato ngokukhawuleza kwaye bahamba ngokukhawuleza kwisigaba sobudlelwane obusondeleyo. Khawuleza unikezele ukufudukela kuye, ngokukhawuleza akuxelele kubahlobo bakho. Abanye besetyhini banesizungu, oku kunqanda ngokupheleleyo ukuqonda. Ukunyuka okukhulu kweemvakalelo, isithembiso sothando kumangcwaba, ulwandle lwamancoma, izipho kunye nokunyamekela - yintoni enokuba yinto enhle? Kwimeko yothando, ibhinqa ayicingi ukuba indoda yolu hlobo ifanelekile kuye okanye cha.
Iingxaki ziqala kamva. Ngokukhawuleza xa usuka kwinqanaba lolwalamano, xa kunokusondelana ngokomoya, ukuxhomekeka komzimba komnye, umama uphuma kwisigaba. Okokuqala ngokumangalisa, ngoko uya kuqala ukuphawula indlela udlala ngayo imidaniso yakhe, kwaye uzama ukuphoqa ukwenza okufanayo. Uya kuqhathaniswa nomama wakho, kwaye ukuthelekiswa kuya kuhlala kungekho nto yakho. Ngelo xesha, ukuxhatshazwa okungaqhelekanga kuya kuqalisa ukuzithemba kwakho. Indoda esuka kwikati elithambileyo iya kuguqulwa ibe ngumshicileli ongenangqondo. Ukuxhasa ukuxhomekeka kwakho kwiimvakalelo kuye, unokuqalisa ukuthetha iintetho ezithintela isidima sakho. "Ioli enjalo ayiyi kuthanda, kodwa ndiyayithanda i-pysachek." Okanye: "Ngohlobo lwakho, kuphela mna ndiyakuma." Ekuqaleni, ezi binzana azibangeli ukwesaba, kwaye abanye abafazi bawabonga njengamancoma. Kodwa ubukho ebomini bakho bootshaba - abesilisa kunye nama-mamas - akuyona into ebalulekileyo kulwalamano?
Akunakwenzeka ukulungisa umntana wenina. Apha umele ubeke umbuzo ngokukhawuleza: mhlawumbi wena, othandekayo, yenza umgama kunye nonyoko wakho, okanye asivumelani. Iingxaki ezilishumi kwi-10 azinakukhetha. Ngaphambili nje ukuqonda oku, iincinci zeminyaka eyimfuneko iya kuchitheka kwindlela yokukhetha.
UDon Juan okanye i-omanizer engabonakaliyo
Ukuqaphela ukuba umntu ufanelekile ukuba abe nolwalamano oluqinileyo, qwa lasela inani lokuthanda kwakhe. Amadoda, athambekele ekungcatshweni okanye kwiimvanoveli ezininzi ngokufanayo, musa ukutshintsha ngeminyaka. Kunqabile kakhulu ukuba bahlaselwe kubayeni bezithethe. Ukuzingela umfazi yindoda, ngaphandle kwayo angayi kuhlala khona. Ngobudlelwane obude umntu onjalo, kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva uya kuhamba. Kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo utshintshisa abesifazana, kwaye kuncinci ukuba uyabonakala, mhlawumbi uyakuncoma umhlobo wakho omhle, unina okanye - uThixo akavumelani - intombi ekhulayo.
Ngokwengxenye kulolu hlobo - abahluleli-amadoda afanelekileyo kwiintsapho apho abazali bahlukana ngenxa yokukhohlakele. Okanye ukusuka kwiintsapho apho iphulo "le-left-wing" libhekwa njengelisoloko. Nangona umntu onentliziyo yakhe yonke ngokuphathelele ukukrexeza, ngenxa yokuba wayevezeleke kubo, engumntwana, kungekudala okanye kamva uya kuba nomnqweno wokuphinda iimeko zabazali bakhe. Kuya kuba nzima ukuyimisa, kwaye ngokubanzi-ukuba ungasenalo uthando, kodwa nje ukujonga umviwa, unokubona uvuyo kwaye uyonwabile intsapho yabazali bakhe. Oku kunceda ukuqikelela iingxaki eziphambili enokuba nazo kumtshato wakho naye.
Umntu o xho mekeke
Unokucinga ukuba kuyamangalisa, kodwa amadoda athambekele ekubeni ngumlutha kumama okanye umfazi bahlala bechaphazeleka ngenye indlela yokuxhomekeka. Bangaba nesifiso sokusela utywala, iziyobisi, imidlalo yeekhompyutheni okanye iakhasino. Ngokuqhelekileyo, zonke iindlela zokuxhomekeka zidibeneyo, kwaye nganye yazo iyaqiniswa enye. Emva kokulahlekelwa kwi-casino, uzonxila ngokukhawuleza. Emva kokusela, ubuza umfazi wakhe ngemali, ubonise ukuxhomekeka ngokupheleleyo kunye nokucima ngaphantsi kwebhodibhodi. Emva kokucela imali, unokulahlekelwa okanye aphuze kwakhona. Ukuba ngaba amadoda afanelekileyo olwalamano oluqinileyo, ukuba ngaba batywala, bathetha. Kwezinye iindawo nakwamanye amaqela le nto ayithathwa njengengxaki enkulu.
Kodwa ke uqaphele xa udibana nomntu. Inyani kukuba amadoda anjalo athambekela ngokulula ukubala abafazi abahlala kwiintamo zabo. Ukuba babona ukuba "ukukhwela" okunjalo, banokulibala okwethutyana ngezidakamizwa zabo, baqhekeza umsila kwaye bajikeleze ngokunyamekela, uthando nokunyamekela. Njengama-mama asemama, bathambekele ekuphuhliseni ubudlelwane ngokukhawuleza. Ngokukodwa xa beva amandla kumfazi, kwaye bayaqonda ukuba 'unako'. Ukuthabatha kule ncwadana, ukufunda iintsapho zakhe, izithethe zesimo sengqondo kotywala, yenza umdla kumdla wokuzilibazisa. Unganqikazi ukubuza abahlobo kunye nezihlobo ngaye. Ukuxhomekeka kotywala okanye i-casino akulula ukunqoba, ngoko kungcono ukuba ugweme ngokukhawuleza ulwalamano nomntu onjalo kunokuba uzihlawulele ngeentsholongwane kunye nempilo yakho.
Ukufihla ubungqingili
Ama-homosexual afihliweyo - elinye lamaqela amadoda, apho ubude obude abufanelekanga. I-latent okanye i-latent homosexual ingenakunxibelelana nayo ngesondo, ngamanye amaxesha ayiboni ukuqonda kwabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, banomdla ekudaleni intsapho, kuba ibenza bakwazi ukuvala iingcamango ezingathandekiyo malunga nokuchasana kwabo. Amadoda anjalo amancinci, amakhwenkwe, azinikezele kakhulu kunina, nangona angabikho phantsi kweyesihlanu, kwaye nabo bafuna ukuhleka usulu malunga nabangqingili - iintlonelo zokuvalelwa ngabalingqingili, bahleka kakhulu. Abanye besetyhini bakhangwa kuyo yonke le nto. Hlola imeko ngenyameko, kwaye xa ubona kuyo imilinganiselo yobungqingili, musa ukukhawuleza ukuya kwisithsaba - maxesha abekwe kwindawo yayo.