Konke kuxhomekeke, kwizinga elikhulu, kuphela kumlingiswa wakho kunye nokuba ubuhlobo bakho bunzulu kangakanani. Kwaye ukuphindwa kweefowuni kunye nemilayezo kuyahlukana ngokwemandla kwiimvakalelo zakho. Ndithetha ntoni na? Kuphela ukuba abantu abathandana ngokunyanisekileyo baya kuthembana. Futhi musa ukubiza yonke imizuzu eyi-15 ekukhangekeni kwezinto eziphathekayo, ukuze emva koko ezintliziyweni zenu nidumise: "Umthengisi", engayiphuliphuli inkcazo ekupheleni kwaloo fowuni. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba abantu abanothando ababizi nonke. Benza nje ngokungazenzisiyo, ngokunyamekela nokunyamekela, kwaye oku kubanika uvuyo kuphela. Yonke ifowuni ifowuni ifuna ukuqhubeka ngokungenammiselo, kwaye ukusuka kumyalezo ngamnye omtsha kwimifuno, iibilisa zegazi.
Kodwa ukuba ulwalamano lwakho alukakangena kweli nqanaba, kwaye uhlushwa ngumbuzo: ukuba ufanele ukukhumbuza kaninzi umfana? Kulula kakhulu: ukuba "ungumlilo wesibhinqa", unomdla, ushushu kwaye unomona - ngoko kufuneka uthathe ngesandla sakho. Ekubeni imo yemvelo iya kukuqhubela phambili kwifowuni ukubiza, ukufunda, ukubuza, ukufumanisa. Abafazi abanjalo bathanda ukuthetha okuninzi, bude kwaye bavakala, bazama ukugcina izinto ezihambelanayo nazo zonke izenzo kunye neziganeko ezenzeka kumntu wakhe. Ngendlela efanayo, uzama ukufumanisa nokuba ngubani umlingane wakhe ochitha ixesha, ngokukodwa unomdla kwizondo zesini. Yikuphi, ngokusemthethweni, ayimangalisi, kodwa kumntu-ongenakuthandeka kwaye ekhohlakeleyo kwiindawo.
Intombazana enomsindo kunye nomona kufuneka ikwazi ukuzibamba ekulandeleni imiyalezo yeemyalezo kunye neefowuni, kuba oko kukukhumbuza into yokuba umfana uyangcola. Ngokukodwa xa kwenzeka ukuba ubudlelwane buqala nje ukufumana ukukhawuleza. Ngokuqhelekileyo awukwazi ukubeka izithintelo ezithile kuzo zonke iindidi zeefowuni kunye neeleta, kodwa umfazi onomona onomona kufuneka aqale ubuncinane oko. Bala mangaphi amaxesha ngosuku ubiza umnxeba wakho? Kwaye unqumle ngesibindi le nani kwinxenye. Ewe, okokuqala kuya kuba nzima kakhulu, ngenxa yokuba usetyenziswe ukubonisa umdla wakho kunye nokukhathalela ngale ndlela. Nangona kunjalo, cinga ngendlela indoda yakho ivakalelwa ngayo emva kwemizuzu elineshumi elinesibini ifowuni yakhe iqulethe i-podnadoevshy call kunye nekrini kwakhona ibonisa igama lakho. Hayi, ngokwenene unika uvuyo nolonwabo, nangona kunjalo, umlinganiselo wenani lonwabo! Kwaye makungenzeki into eninzi, kodwa kungcono ukudlulisa yonke into ofuna ukuyithetha kuyo kwifowuni, ebomini. Ezi zihlandlo ezininzi ziyamnandi, uyavuma! Ukongeza, ngaphezu kweenzuzo eziphambili ezikunika unxibelelwano oluphilileyo, kukho enye inzuzo kwincoko: ungayibona indlela ophendula ngayo isoka lakho. Ngamazwi othando, kwiibinzana ezincinci, kwaye nje kwiibali ezivela ebomini. Kodwa kwifowuni ukuqonda - indlela ehambelana ngayo nale nto okanye ukuba isandi sakho isiluleko, kunzima kakhulu. Cinga ngaso sonke ixesha uthabatha ifowuni. Ngoku uya kumxelela iindaba ezilandelayo, yena-okanye uya kuvuya okanye akunjalo, kodwa awuyi kubona. Ngaloo ndlela uzithintela ithuba lokuqonda: wathini ukusabela kwiindaba. Ngoxa unako ukulinda ixesha elithile-kwaye ngokuhlwa, kwimeko yothando, uthethe ubuso nobuso, ukhangele impendulo. Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi xa ufuna ukuthetha into ... ibalulekile, inyanisekileyo.
Olunye uncedo luza kwividiyo ehlekisayo malunga nendlela amadoda athetha ngayo kwifowuni kunye namantombazana azama ukuxelela yonke into nangaphezulu. Khumbula indlela i-handset kunye neempendulo zendoda ezithandabuzayo "Ewe, ewe, ewe" yagqithwa ukusuka kwesandla ngesandla xa umnikazi wayo oyinyaniso eya kuzenza is sandwich? Ngoko ke ucinga ukuba le yimeko ngethuba lakho rhoqo kunye nexesha elide. Oku kuya kukuphazamisa ekuzingeleni kakhulu, ukukhumbuza umfana malunga nawe.
Kodwa kukho olunye uhlobo lwamantombazana - amakhadi aphikisanayo. La ma ntombazane awanqabile ukuba bazive ehlabathini lonke. Ngokuqhelekileyo abafana bayithatha ngenxa yokungabi noluvo lwangoku, ukubonakalisa ukubandisa kunye nokwahlukana. Nangona kunjalo, akudingeki ukuba ube neqela elinjalo. Mhlawumbi, kwindawo ethile eminzini yomphefumlo wakhe, le nto ntombazana iyaqonda ingozi yokunyaniseka kwaye iloyiko lokukhathaza?
Ukuba uziqaphele ngokwakho ukuba umfana wakho uhlala ehlambalaza ngesigxina: kutheni ungambizanga emva kombuthano wakhe obalulekileyo okanye kutheni ungazange umbuze malunga nesimo sakhe xa elele ekhaya ngokubandayo, ngoko ke, ikwahluke ngokukhethekileyo kwinqanaba lesibini lamantombazana. Oko kukuthi, kulabo abadinga ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuthabatha ifowuni yeselula, bafowunele inombolo enomnqweno kwaye ubuncinci bathethe incinane, bathethe ngothando, balahlekelwa njani, indlela enhle ngayo loo ntwasahlobo ...
Apha ungasebenzisa amaqhinga afanayo, esiwacebisa ngawo amantombazana athetha. Zibekele inani elithile leentsimbi kunye nemiyalezo oya kuyenza kumthandeki wakho. Hayi, akudingeki ukuba uziphoqe - ukuba ungazi ngokwenene ukuba uthethe ntoni naye ngoku - kodwa ungabizi "kwikethi". Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uloyiko lokuba uya kumnqumla kwiimeko ezibalulekileyo zomsebenzi - uthethe! Tshathisa ukwesaba kwakho, kwaye udibanise ngesibindi inombolo, uthetha malunga nento ofuna ukuyithetha ngayo yonke imini, kodwa akazange alinde. Umntu wakho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufana nalolu "phuhliso".
Kulungile, kwaye abanye baqonde: ngokuqhelekileyo okanye kanqabile kakhulu unakho ukukhumbuza umntu wakho ngaye ngokwakhe uxelele yena ngokwakhe. Kwaye akubizi ukuba umnxeba. Uya kukuxelela, ukuba ungekho nto. Akunakwenzeka ukuba akayi kuthetha ukuba akanakho okwaneleyo ngelizwi ngelixesha elinzima!
Ewe, kwaye wena ufanele uqonde ukuba ubiza nini, kwaye nini-akukho. Ukuba umntu wakho uthethe nganiso ebalulekileyo yomsebenzi wakhe ukususela kusihlwa-kutheni ungambizi emva kokugqiba kwakhe kwaye ubuze-kwenzeka njani le mcimbi obalulekileyo? Kwaye kwangexesha elifanayo, kucacile ukuba ngaphambi kwesi siganeko okanye, ngokubaluleke ngakumbi, ngexesha lokubiza kwayo akuyimfuneko nonke-uya kuqhuba umntu kwiimeko, ulahlekelwe ngamazwi uze udideke.
Ngako oko, yiphulaphule intliziyo yakho kuphela, efuna ukuba ulive ilizwi lakhe iiyure ezingama-24 ngosuku, kodwa kunye nokuqonda okungaqhelekanga, okungeke kukuvumele ukuba ube ngumntu ongenalo.