1. Umtshato womtshato.
Okanye, kungabikho kwakhe. Akuthethi nto nantoni na. Abathathi-benzi bokwenene abaguquliyo-ntliziyo abawubathanga ngamabomu ingqungquthela yokubandakanya. Kwaye abaninzi balabo bafika uhambo loshishino, ngokukhawuleza xa befumana inkululeko, bathabathe ngokukhawuleza le "khola" eboyiweyo kwiminwe yabo baze bayifihle. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, kumnwe wakhe womnene wesandla sakhe sokunene, kukho imimiselo yendandatho ngohlobo lwe-rubbing encane, i-pallor okanye i-calluses.
2. Ukuprinta kwipaspoti
Akukho mntu oqhelekileyo, okanye umfazi owaziwayo, oza kuvela neepasipoti ukubonisa ipasipoti yakhe ukuqinisekisa inkululeko yakhe. Ukuba umntu onomcimbi wokuba nomfazi ngokukhawuleza ufumana ipasipoti yakhe, ngoko kufuneka uqaphele ngokukhawuleza.
Asimele sikhohlwe ukuba nokuba kungekho nto itywina kwisitifiketi somtshato ayiqinisekisi ukuba lo mntu akanalo ulwalamano olunzulu kunye nomnye umfazi. Akukho mntu unqatshelwe imitshato yomtshato.
3. Uphawu olufanelekileyo lomntu otshatileyo - ukuba akwenzeki nawe ngeveki neeholide
Le ndlela yokwahlula ibhinqa evela kwi-bachelor iqinisekiswa ngobomi ngokwayo. Ukuba umntu onenkani akafuni ukucwangcisa kunye nexesha lokubambisana ngeMigqibelo kunye neCawa okanye kwiholide ezinkulu, oku kunokuthetha into eyodwa kuphela: uchitha ixesha lakhe kunye nosapho lwakhe.
4. Ukuba akahlali nawe ebusuku
Ukuba ubusuku bonke uyazama ukunyamalala egumbini lakho lokulala phantsi kweqela lama-pretexts, ngoko ke unomnye-umfazi okanye intombi. Nangona kunjalo, umntu kufuneka aqonde ukuba kukho ukungabikho komthetho. Ngokomzekelo, kukho amadoda anxibileyo-abashishini abaphantse abahlali kunye nosapho lwabo, kodwa abayi kuhlukanisa nonke. Kwaye kukho abo balawula ukuhlala kwizindlu ezimbini. Banokuchitha ixesha eliveki ngeveki kunye neentsapho zabo kwi-dacha, kunye neveki esebenzayo ukuhlala kunye nawe kwindlu ehlukeneyo.
5. Ukuba akayikumema kuye
Okanye utshatile, okanye uhlazileyo ukuzazisa izihlobo zakhe. Okanye akayi kuthatha ulwalamano lwakho olunzulu. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, into yokuba indoda ayifuni ukukuvumela ebomini bayo ibonakaliso olubi.
6. Unqanda iintlanganiso kwiindawo zoluntu
Ukuba umntu wakho ulinganiselwe kuphela ukuthetha ngokukhawuleza ekhaya okanye kwihotele, akakuthabatheli kubantu - akakumemele kwivenkile yokutyela, i-cafe, lolwandle, iqela, ngoko kuyacaca ukufihla ubudlelwane bakho.
7. Ukuba uyakuphepha ukuthetha kuwe kwifowuni
Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba unxibelelwano olungileyo, kwaye uhlala ephuma ukuthetha kwifowuni, kuba "incoko enzulu ngolu hlobo," okanye kufuneka ahambe kwindlu yangasese, okanye waya kwiidaka. Yenza njalo: ngokukhawuleza xa umntu ememeza kuye, kwaye uyaphuma aze aphume kwikorori, amshiye emibini imizuzwana. Ukuba unamahloni, okanye uqala ukukugxeka ngenxa yokuhlola, okanye amahlaya ngokungaqhelekanga, oku kuhlala kukubi.
8. Akanikeli inombolo yakhe yefowuni
Amadoda asetshatileyo ahlala esamekwa ngabafazi bawo, ngoko ke abahlali abaqeshweyo bayabuza, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha bafuna ukuba ungababizi nonke okanye ubiza kuphela ngexesha elimisiweyo ngosuku oluthile. Akenzanga oku kungabangela ukukrokrelwa ngokunyelisa umfazi wakhe.
9. Ukuba kaninzi ulahla iifowuni yakho kunye ne-SMS okanye uhlaziya kwakhona
Oku kuthetha ukuba utshatile okanye ubuncinane awuyintombazana yakhe kuphela. Emva koko, kuyinyaniso, ngandlela-thile akuvumelekanga ukuba indoda yakhe ixoxe nenkosikazi yakhe xa umfazi, abantwana okanye umkhwekazi basondele. Ngoko ke, abafazi bahlala beyeka iifowuni kunye ne-SMS kwii-mistress zabo, okanye bathawule ngokukhawuleza kwifowuni "Ndiza kukubiza! "Vala.
10. Akathwali izipho zakho kwaye akazisebenzisi
Ezi zibonakaliso ezicacileyo ukuba indoda isatshatile. Indoda esitshatileyo ayiyi kuzisa izipho zasekhaya ezivela kwintsikazi yayo ngendlela yeenkontile ze-frank okanye izindandatho ngokuzinikezela. Akasoze athathe ekhaya isipho ngendlela yekhadi lomthando okanye i-valentine kunye nesayinitsha yakho. Uya kwenza nantoni na ukuba ashiye kunye nawe ngaphantsi kweyiphi na into ebangelwayo, okanye uya kubagxotha aze athi alahlekile, aphukile, anqatywe, ekhohliweyo kwi-minibus, njl njl.
11. Akafuni ukufotshwa kunye nawe
Kwaye yonke into iyacaca: emva koko, nayiphina ifoto iyingcola. Umntu otshatileyo akaze athathe isithombe sakho njengomnikelo kwaye akayi kuwugcina kwisikhwama sakhe okanye kwideskithophu.
12. Ukuba yena ngokwakhe uthi usetshatile
Ufuna ukuqaphela? Mcele nje ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ubukele impendulo. Qala ingxoxo kunye nokuba uyamthanda, ukuba ulungele umtshato, ngokuzalwa kwabantwana kuye. Ukuba umntu uphendukile, uphupha, uqala ukugxuma kunye ne-zasobiraetsya ikhefu-ungamthandi. Makuhambe, ngokuqinisekileyo awulandeli umendo.
Kukho nezinye izinto ezincinci ezibonisa ukuba indoda isatshatile. Kodwa le miqondiso eyisiseko ayikwazi ukuphoswa. Ubudlelwane nomntu otshatileyo abukwazi ukuzaliswa, ngoko kufuneka ukhawuleze, kodwa uthando alufihliwe intloko, ukuba lususe iinyawo.