Ukuba umntu omaziyo akazange ayenze okwamanje, kodwa le nsizwa iyakumema ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba udlala ngothando, oko kukuthi, ikubiza ngokumomothekayo, ikhupha umboniso kwindlela yakho, ngoko unokuyifumana ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye uyenze uqhelane kuqala. Ngaloo ndlela, uya kumxelela ukuba unomdla kuye. Ukuba unamahloni ukuza kuqala, buza umhlobo onamandla ukuba akuxelele.
Ngamanye amaxesha emva kokwazisa umntu omncinane, akabizi kwaye akazivezi. Udidekile malunga nento oyithethileyo okanye wenze kakubi. Ungakhathazeki ukuba uyakuthanda, ngoko, ngeveki nangesiqingatha, uya kukubiza kwaye enze i-aphoyintimenti. Amadoda afana 'nokudlala' nentombazana ekufihleni nasekufuneni ekuqaleni. Emva koko, xa iqhinga liya ezandleni zakho, unokumthabatha ngeempumlo ngokukhawuleza, emva komhla okanye ukuyikhansela kwimizuzu yokugqibela. Olu hlobo "uqeqesho" oluthile olusebenzisa "i-kroti kunye ne-stick" lwakhuthaza kwaye lukhuthaza iindlela ezisebenzayo. Musa ukugoba intonga. Konke kulungile ekumodareyithweni.
Akuyimfuneko ukuba uhlale kumntu omaziyo, elinde xa uya kukubiza. Ungakwazi ukumbiza ngokukhawuleza, ungafuni ukubuza ukuba izinto ziphi. Kodwa musa ukummisela intlanganiso. Usuvele usenze isinyathelo phambili - ndambiza. Ukuba umntu unomdla wokukubona kwakhona, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumema ukuba udibane. Ukusuka kwifowuni yokulila kuyacaca ukuba zeziphi izicwangciso umntu azakhayo malunga nolwalamano lwakho, nokuba uyazichukumisa ngawe. Ukuba uyakrokrela ukukopela okanye ukunyanzela, kungcono ukuphepha ukuqhubeka udibana kwaye ungabibizi ngaphezulu.
Ukuba usavumile ukudibana, gqoka ngokufanelekileyo, yenza i-key-down key-make-up, ufefe iinwele ngefrimu. Ngomhla wokuqala umntu ufumana ixabiso elininzi lenkcazelo malunga nomlingani wakhe onamandla. Hlala umgama: abantu abatsha abamkeleyo ukuba intombazana enokulindela ngayo ubuhlobo obunzulu, ivumela ukuba ikhonkxwe kwaye iwanga embambweni yokuqala. Ungazami ukubonakala untle kwaye ungcono kunokuba ungubani. Umgaqo oyintloko wovelwano olusondeleyo luyendalo. Emva kwakho konke, awufuni ukuphoxeka umthandi wakho ngeveki yobudlelwane bakho, xa kuvela ukuba waqamba amanga kuye ukuba ulungile kakhulu kwiikhomputha? Yiba nguwe, le yindlela efanelekileyo yokuyizonwabisa.
Abantu abaselula abayithandi amantombazana abathi, ngokuqala ukutyelela, baqala ukungabaza ingqondo kunye namandla abo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba unobulumko ngaphezu kwakhe kwinto ethile, musa ukumxelela oko, ngoko ubeka ingozi ekudambiseni ubuhlobo bakho. Kungcono kumtshele into enomdla ngaye, mbuze malunga nento ethile. Memeze, ukuba uthetha malunga nobuhle bakhe, ngoko umxelele ukuba ungcono kunawe. Abantu abaselula banomtsalane kumantombazana anokuzonwabisa, ngoko musa ukuphendula "Hayi, andiyazi ..." ukuba uyakubuza malunga nokuzonwabisa kwakho. Mhlawumbi, unayo, nje awufuni ukuxelela indoda eselula ukuba uyayithanda, umzekelo, udibene. Nokuba i-infatuation elula kwaye elula iyakucwecwe ukuze kubonakale kuye ukuba lo msebenzi unganikezelwa ebomini. Into ephambili kukuvumela loo mfana ukuba aqonde ukuba ungumntu onelaneleyo owaziyo indawo yakhe ehlabathini.
Ngobudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye namadoda, abafazi badla ngokuthatha amanyathelo ezandleni zabo baze baqhube kwizigqibo ezithile. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba udibana ixesha elide kwaye lixesha lokumisela umanyano wakho, yiphakamise kumntu ngokwakho, kwaye ungalindi de ade avule umtshato. Abanye besetyhini baphatha bonke ubomi babo kangangokuthi bangabonakali ukuba baphathe amadoda ukuba bangaboni naluphi na uxinzelelo kubo. Kwaye bonke abo babakujikelezile bathi umntu ohlala kwintsapho yakhe ngumphathi, wenza zonke izigqibo ngokwakhe. Enyanisweni, kunjalo, indoda ithatha ezo zigqibo apho umfazi oyisilumko emxelela.
Yakha ubuhlobo bakho, kwaye ungalindeli ukuba umntu uza kubakhela!