Kutheni amadoda avuthiweyo akhangwa njengemethane kumantombazana amantombazana? Yintoni amadoda aqolileyo acinga ngamantombazana amancinci?
Kuwo wonke umntu oqhelekileyo, intombazana iselula. Amadoda aqolileyo ayaqiniseka ukuba amantombazana amancinci aphantsi kweengqondo zawo kubantu abadala.Amadoda avuthiweyo acinga, ngokuchanekileyo, ukuba intombazana encinci ubomi buqala ukuvuka, buzele amandla kunye namandla. Amantombazana amancinci abukela ubomi ngobomi obuhlukeneyo, abazange balibale ukuzonwabisa. Bayakwazi ukuqala nayiphi na i-adventure.
Amantombazana amancinci adlulisa iimvakalelo ezininzi ebomini.
Amadoda avuthiweyo, xa ehlangana namantombazana amancinci, ngokwabo baba ngabantwana. Bavusa ingcamango yobomi, ukungakhathali kunye nomnqweno wokwenza izenzo zobuqhetseba.
Amadoda avuthiweyo acinga ukuba amantombazana amantombazana anomgangatho obaluleke kakhulu kubo - akhululekile. Kwaye, nangona kukho iminyaka, amantombazana sele sele anamava kwaye aya kunika nayiphi na ibhinqa elidlula lixesha.
Amantombazana amancinci awawuboni njengento ehlazo okanye engalungile ukuzama ukulala. Ngokuphambene noko, babonisa isimo sabo sengqondo kumntu.
Ngengqiqo yakhe yobomi kunye nokuvuleka, amantombazana amancinci athanjelwa kumadoda aqolileyo. Indoda inandipha umdla kunye nolutsha lomlingane wakhe, ngoko ke yena ngokwakhe ubuyela umphefumlo kwiminyaka yakhe emncinci.
Amadoda avuthiweyo acinga ukuba xa engena ebudlelwaneni nentombazana encinci, kufuneka ihambelane nayo yonke into-umzimba, imbonakalo, iimpahla - yonke into kufuneka ibe kwizinga eliphezulu. Kwaye emva koko, kuyinyani, amantombazana amancinci akayi kukunyamezela indoda endala eye yawayeka amehlo akhe. Uya kumphoqa indoda yakhe ukuba idibanise kunye kwaye ivuke kwakhona ubomi.
Ubudlelane nentombazana encinci kumntu okhulileyo-eli lizwe elitsha, ngokubhekiselele kwihlabathi elide lilibale. Ihlabathi lizele uvuyo, ubuhlanya, ukukhwela.
Kodwa, ngelanga, kukho olunye uhlobo lwabantu. Bavame ukubukeka ngothando ngamantombazana amantombazana, kodwa akhipheli nawaphi ithuba lokuqalisa ubudlelwane nabo.
Yonke into yokuba olu hlobo lwabantu, ngokuchaseneyo, ludonsa abasetyhini abazi oko bafuna. Umfazi omdala ukhangeleka ngokufanelekileyo ebomini kwaye akayi kukhawuleza ukusuka kwinqanaba elide. Ngokuphathelele isondo, intombazana encinci ifuna ukuqeqeshwa, ukuze isondo emva koko sibe mnandi. Umfazi omdala uyazi kakuhle kakuhle umzimba wakhe omthandayo kunye nokwanelisa indoda. Ndifuna ukuqaphela ukuba ubulili besini banda ngokukhula.
Amadoda avuthiweyo acinga ukuba amantombazana amancinci angumlindo wendawo, ebonakalayo ebomini ebomini babo. Ababoni ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuthatha iimbopheleleko zentombazana, amadoda, ngoko ke, baxhamle i-ego yabo.
Abantu abavuthiweyo bacinga ngamantombazana amancinci ngumbuzo omhle kubo bonke abantu abadala. Iimpendulo ziya kuba zihluke kwaye ziya kuxhomekeka kuphela kwisimo sengqondo somntu kunye nembono wakhe wobomi kunye noluntu.
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba xa umntu oqolileyo ekhetha intombazana encinane njengelinye iqabane, oku kuthetha kuphela ukungaqiniseki kwakhe, ukulinganiselwa kwakhe. Emva koko, ukufumana indlela kunye nokukhawulela umfazi omdala kunokuba nzima kakhulu kwaye akunjalo wonke umntu. Kwaye amantombazana amancinci awanelanga. Kukholelwa ukuba bafanele banikezwe ngezipho ezibizayo kwaye sele esele elalilini.
Yintoni ekucinga ukuba sele isakhulile, amadoda anamava kunye nabavuthiweyo ngamantombazana amancinci ibhizinisi lawo. Kwaye kwintombazana nganye ukungena kumtshato nomntu omdala okanye ukhethe umngane oselula.
Wonke umntu unelungelo lokwakha ubomi kunye nobudlelwane njengoko afuna. Akukho mntu unelungelo lokugweba ubomi bomnye umntu.