Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo yonke into yayilula, umyeni unokufumaneka lula, umzekelo, kwibhola. Kukho ukugxininisa kwindoda yesintu yayinomthwalo, kwaye i-contingent yayinokuhlonipha. Iibhola zemihla ngemihla, okanye kunokuba zidibane, ngelishwa, ayifuni ukukhangela amadoda okwenene kwaye, ngokusemthethweni, ininzi yabaselula. Ngoko, ukufumana phi indoda enhle?
Kufuneka ukuba ucinge, kodwa ngaba amadoda okwenene anjani? Ukuloba! Ngendlela, ugulo lwechibi okanye umlambo indawo enkulu yokufumana indoda enhle. Ukongeza, ukuloba kukuthandana. Ngokukodwa, ebusika. Khawucinge nje, iqhwa eliqhwaqhaqhazelayo phantsi kweenyawo zakho, umoya "uthabatha" ngeempumlo ... Kakade, ngaphambi kokuba uhambe ngokuloba, kufuneka ulungiselele kwaye uwazi yonke imigaqo yokuloba. Ukongezelela, akukho nto ifanele ikhuphe into yokuba ufike echibini "ukubamba umyeni", ngoko ke, zenzele ingalo ngokutshiza, i-mormish kunye nazo zonke ezinye izixhobo zokuloba. Inokwenzeka ukuba, amadoda anjengawo kwaye uvuselela uluntu lwazo olunzima. Ngendlela, awukwazi nje ukubamba iintlanzi, kodwa uhlambulule kwaye upheke indlebe enhle, ngaloo ndlela, ekugqibeleni unqobe intliziyo yendoda enokuthi. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo kuphela, uzama ukungenzi inzondelelo kwishishini lakho kwaye ungabamba iintlanzi ngaphezu kokhethiweyo, ngaphandle koko kuya kuzinzakalisa ukuzithemba kwakhe. Ukuba uhamba ukuloba akuyona inketho, unokufumana ezinye iindlela. Hamba nje ukuya kwiqela lokuzonwabisa, okokuqala, kukho amaxesha amaninzi amabhinqa, kwaye okwesibini, ininzi yamadoda ezayo apha ifuna ukuzizonwabisa ngobusuku okanye ezimbini, kodwa kungekhona ebomini.
Indawo elandelayo apho unokuhlangana khona nevenkile eziphathekayo zokuthengisa amadoda. Ngendlela, kusesitoreji, awufumani nje into efanelekileyo, kodwa umntu ocebileyo. Cinga ngokwakho, kuba umntu olungisayo akwenzayo kwindlu, ngoko ke, oko kukudibanisa. Ukuba umntu unomfazi, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuza kukhetha iphepha lodonga nomyeni wakhe. Ngoko ke, ukuba umfana ukhetha into ethile kwisitolo sokwakha, ngoko unokumfikela ngokuphepha kwaye uqhelane naye. Ngokomzekelo, unokucela uncedo lokukhetha into ... Akunakwenzeka ukuba intombazana iyakwenqaba intombazana entle.
Kukho indawo ezingavamile zokufumana indoda enhle. Musa nje ukwesaba kanye, kodwa ungayifumana indoda yakho engcwabeni okanye esibhedlele. Kusemngcwabeni yezihlobo ukuba unokubona ukuba umntu unobungakanani kwaye unzulu kangakanani. Ukuqhelana nesibhedlele, kungcono ukucacisa ukuxilongwa ngokukhawuleza, ukuze uqiniseke ngomtshato omde kunye nomsebenzi wokuzalisa umtshato. Amadoda, ngendlela, athanda kakhulu ukuthandana, umzuzu xa begula.
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Kodwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda anjalo aboni nantoni na ngaphandle kobu buchule, ngoko ukwaziwa kuya kuba nzima kakhulu
Enyanisweni, kukho iindlela ezininzi zokumazi indoda. Umzekelo, ukuba uqhuba imoto, ukwenza ukuba uqhelane kulula. Amadoda azijonga njengengcali kwiimoto kwaye akayi kuphona umzuzu ukukufundisa into enxulumene nemoto.
Ukuba unesiqhwala ukuba ushiye indlu, kodwa ufuna ukwazi, ungashenxisa kwiinkonzo ezininzi zokuthandana. Apho ungakhetha umntu, ngokusekelwe kwiminqweno yakho, ixesha elide. Yiyo kuphela inceba abantu abafana nayo, nangona kunjalo, njengabafazi bathatha inyaniso. Kwi-intanethi, nangona kunjalo, nakweyiphi na indawo ungakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kuba ngabagaqambileyo abafuna ukuba bazuze ntoni. Ngoko, kufuneka uqaphele ngakumbi xa unquma ukufumana indoda.