Imfihlelo yowesifazane oyisilumko: indlela yokuqhathaniswa nomntu onqabileyo
Izigqibo zakho kufuneka zisekelwe kwisimo sengqondo somntu onqabileyo. Ukuba ubuhlobo bakho bunzima, ukuxabana nokungaqondani kwenzeka rhoqo, kubanda kunye nokungakhathaleli, kuya kuba nzima ukushiya indoda enjalo. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntu unemvakalelo efudumele kuwe, kwaye wena entliziyweni yakho uyaqonda ukuba awuyilandela? Zama ukwenza ikhefu njengentlungu engenakwenzeka.
Musa ukukholelwa ukukholelwa ukuba izizathu zokuqala ezifana "sihluke kakhulu" okanye "ufuna enye" iya kusebenza. Akunjalo, ii-scorpions zivusa nje, kuba ngohlobo zinyamezela kwaye aziyi kuphinda ziphose "intaka" efuna ukuphunyuka ezandleni zabo. Musa ukusebenza, kwaye uqiniseke ngobungqina bendoda ebomini bakho - uya kuba nomona kuwe, kodwa akayi kukuyeka. Kungenzeka ukuba umsindo we-scorpion inokumenza ukuba, ngandlela-thile, athathele intshaba.
Ngaphambi kokuba uhlanganyele nomntu onqabileyo, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba unengcamango yakhe ngendlela yokugqiba umtshato wakho ngokukhawuleza.
Abayithandi xa bengakhange baqwalaselwe ngombono wabo, abaphulaphuli, bayayithobeli. Zama ukuchitha ixesha elincinane kunye naye, ukunganaki ukuthetha malunga nomntu, onokuqonda kwaye ufuna ukuba akunakwenzeka. Ezi ndlela ziqinisekisa ukuba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi umntu uya kukuphosa kwaye yena uya kuvuya ukugqiba ulwalamano.
Ulwahlula njani umntu oqhekezayo?
Ukuba ukuphuka kwakuphambi kokungakhathaleli kunye neenkwenkwezi zakho, unokuqiniseka ukuba awunakufumana ubunzima obukhulu kwi-scorpion. Kungenzeka ukuba kungekudala uza kukhangela ukutshintshwa kwakho. Ukuba ukuhlukana kwabakho ngokukhawuleza, umntu ohluphekileyo angathatha umhlalaphantsi ixesha elide. Kodwa naphezu kokudakumba, awuyi kuva ifowuni okanye izicelo zeentlanganiso ezivela kuye - ukuziqhenya akuyi kuvumela.
Yilungiselele ukuba i-scorpion izakuzonwabisa ngokuziqhelana kwakho kunye namabali athembekileyo malunga nendlela ongakufanelekanga ngayo.
Yintoni eya kuba yindlela yokuziphatha ukuba i-scorpion inquma ukwenza inxenye?
Yonke into ilula kakhulu apha. Ukuba i-scorpion yanquma ukushiya-ingabonwa ngokukhawuleza. Okokuqala, inani lamakholi kunye neentlanganiso ziya kuncipha ngokukhawuleza, ibhizinisi elibalulekileyo liya kuvela ngokukhawuleza. Kungenzeka ukuba le ndoda ifuna ukubeka onke amanqaku kwi "i". Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kukunika elinye ithuba. Inokwenzeka ukuba, uya kukugxeka zonke izono zokufa kunye nokuthatha umhlalaphantsi ebomini bakho ngonaphakade.
Ukuzama ukubuyisela i-scorpion yinto embi. Ukufowunela, ukunyanzelisa, ukucela intlanganiso - konke oku, njengomthetho, akunikezi ziphumo ezizodwa, ngaphandle kokuba kuphazamiseka yi-ego yakhe.
Mhlawumbi i-scorpion yakho iyinto ehlukile kumgaqo. Kodwa, kuyafaneleka ukuvuma, konke oku ngasentla kusebenza kwininzi yabo.